https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 19:29:04 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1257349 Wed, 21 May 2014 14:07:07 +0000 cjh 1257349@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the idea of a black velvet skirt for a wedding. &nbsp;Going for a top that's&nbsp;simple but a little unique and fancy&nbsp;seems the key to me. &nbsp;Here is a polyvore of lacy tops and statement necklaces. &nbsp;I've seen tops similar to this at TJMaxx and Marshall's for $20 or under, or clearance at any dept. store. &nbsp;If you already have a great necklace, pick a pastel silky fabric to match if you can.</p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=122625576">http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=122625576</a></p> <p>Have a great time meeting your idol at the dog show - you will shine due to your excitement - just pick something you are confident wearing, a tried and true from your closet and you'll be good to go. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256911 Wed, 21 May 2014 00:15:06 +0000 Kristin L 1256911@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You totally have the right to ask for help and you should go out. Just take a deep breath.&nbsp;</p> <p>I like the ideas the others have given for what to wear to the wedding. I know if can feel like a long shot, but have you tried looking on pinterest to see what people have put with a skirt similar to yours? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256877 Tue, 20 May 2014 23:32:19 +0000 Caro in Oz 1256877@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The skirt sounds amazing &amp; I agree with the others -&nbsp;keep it as the focus of your outfit. What about pairing it with&nbsp;a silky tee in a nice fluid fit?<br />I like&nbsp;gryffin's ideas for the meeting. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256841 Tue, 20 May 2014 23:10:04 +0000 Sal 1256841@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The skirt sounds lovely and I agree with the others to let it be the star. &nbsp;If you have some jewellery a very plain top could be just perfect. &nbsp;I would probably stick to a black top and wear "bling" to liven it up as I think a black column can be more flattering to an apple shape. &nbsp;</p> <p>With the "meeting your idol" I am sure she will be more interested in what you have in common than what you are wearing. &nbsp;It sounds like you are covered here in your own wardrobe. &nbsp;</p> <p>For both occasions I think a lovely hairstyle, a small amount of makeup and a lovely smile is the most important thing.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256830 Tue, 20 May 2014 23:01:59 +0000 Gigi 1256830@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with unfrumped too, that perhaps a trip to TJ Maxx and a thrift store are in order. It can be hard to shop when you're under the gun. This way, if you buy something that you're not sure of for the long term, you haven't invested a lot of dough. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256817 Tue, 20 May 2014 22:50:35 +0000 Freckles 1256817@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do you have a top in your closet that would make one of those wonderful scarves of yours stand up to be the central focus? &nbsp;There are some really cool bib type ties or if you have a gigantic scarf a vest like AJ made some years ago... &nbsp;They can also be made into a halter or cross type top. &nbsp;If you don't take your jacket off and even if you add elastic to the ends around the waist nobody will know. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256794 Tue, 20 May 2014 22:16:03 +0000 gryffin 1256794@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Biscuitsmom - I think you have great advice on the wedding attire.&nbsp; I don't know the agility natl's (I show breed and obedience) but my BFF and her hubby show agility and he has a MACH to his credit.&nbsp; Dog show track suits and embroidered clothing seem to be the usual with jeans/and embroidered fleece coming in a close second for exhibitors.&nbsp; But if you want to impress do you have a nice blazer?&nbsp; A nice pair of&nbsp;ponte pants, comfy shoes plus the blazer should do great.&nbsp;&nbsp;What would&nbsp;an agility judge&nbsp;wear?&nbsp;&nbsp;Plus, you can never go wrong with your dog jewelry, front and center, that can pretty much carry the outfit.&nbsp;Good luck and hope you have a great time!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256789 Tue, 20 May 2014 22:10:22 +0000 Susie 1256789@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For the wedding, do you have a clutch you can use? I have a few that could work with a black skirt. I have frequently sent a bag&nbsp;to my sister for her to borrow for an event. I would be happy to do so for you too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256788 Tue, 20 May 2014 22:10:06 +0000 unfrumped 1256788@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with Linda and others that you may be able to find a very simple top for the skirt and let it be the star--a simple jewel neck top; the tank and cardi--with a necklace. Shoes very simple flats, pantyhose if that gives you a more polished look--I rely on them to add some "formality" to simpler shoes--no need for fancy shoes or heels.<br />If nothing turns up in SYC I would definitely try thrift shop, TJ Maxx, Ross for something under $20 for sure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but/page/2#post-1256766 Tue, 20 May 2014 21:38:48 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256766@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, girl! I don't care where I find stuff- like Angie says ' leave no retail stone unturned' Thanks for the advice! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256751 Tue, 20 May 2014 21:28:48 +0000 rachylou 1256751@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The fancy skirt sounds pretty cool: Tried and true would be a silky black or ivory top. I'm thinking one without a collar or even sleeveless, if that's not too cold for you. Would you ever consider going to Goodwill or a something like a Crossroads? You can get some very cool finds. Dd and I like to set a date to do all the thrift shops. A lot of fun. Oh, and I love <b>carter's</b> shoe find.</p> <p>For the agility event - I've never been to Nationals, but I've been to our local Kennel Club shows, which are very large. Those who participate in agility tend to dress more practical - jeans, tees. Those doing "best of breed" and "best in show" - they tend to do the English librarian look (straight skirt, sensible shoes, jacket, hair up in back). It sounds very exciting, the competition you're going to! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256746 Tue, 20 May 2014 21:23:59 +0000 always trying 1256746@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have been an agility competitor for a long time..went to the AKC invitational a few years ago, and everyone was in the same old clothes they wear to classes&nbsp; and regular trials, even though the invitational was&nbsp; indoors at the conventional center.&nbsp; Also did obedience there and obedience people were not dressed anywhere nearly as well as the conformation people..For the most part I think, dog people are mostly non fashion conscious people.&nbsp; so jeans -any old kind and a decent t shirt will look great,, or sweat shirt and and or jacket depending on weather..Mostly I see hoodies, or nylon wind breaker type jackets..and also exercise gear, for those running dogs..</p> <p>You have some great advice above--have fun-send me a PM about the agility nationals!</p> <p></p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256739 Tue, 20 May 2014 21:16:56 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256739@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fastkat, Zibbets, Joy, LAC, IK, Carter, I am truly *OVERWHELMED* at the kindness you and the rest of the fab YLF ladies have shown me..... I am going to see if DH will take pics of what I have to work with... Angel (our puppy) has had complications from her spay surgery:( So extra vet visits mean extra $ so money is *TIGHT* right now Thank you *EVERYONE* for your advice!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256727 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:58:56 +0000 carter 1256727@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So I do love a challenge that involves shoe shopping! I think the cut of your skirt calls for some fab shoes. Given the audience, I would do conservative and classic.</p> <p>I love <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Rockport-Ashika-Glam-Ballet-Flat/dp/B00BKAHD1I/ref=sr_1_31?s=shoes&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1400618777&amp;sr=1-31" rel="nofollow">these </a>for $36</p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256719 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:51:48 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256719@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Aww, thank you all! No, though I've 'known'&nbsp; Kristen for about 7 yrs, it's only been online thru FB and dog cancer forums, and have recently 'met' our mutual 'fb' friend (who she is close friends w/&nbsp;IRL&nbsp;) on FB. All the pics I've seen of her over the yrs suggests she dresses very casually, sneakers, etc, but haven't seen any from Trials. I'm pretty sure jeans, nice top, etc are ok for that....just super nervous. Great suggestions from all of you! I actually don't have any t type tops, but will look for some, good to know I shouldn't try to 'match' it for the wedding/reception. ABC, you are TOO kind! I felt like a f'ng mess meeting you and fab Sara! Eileen Fisher is out of my budget range, sadly </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256715 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:47:40 +0000 Zibbets 1256715@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm hesitant since I just put this out there since I just suggested it to&nbsp;someone else,&nbsp;but a white wrap top really does work in a multitude of situations and&nbsp;is&nbsp;flattering on many people. I think it might be great for either event with your skirt.</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256710 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:43:28 +0000 LACeleste 1256710@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.lyst.com/clothing/eileen-fisher-drape-front-boxy-shirt-greengold/">http://www.lyst.com/clothing/e.....greengold/</a></p> <p>Hi,</p> <p>Re: non boring top</p> <p>IK just reminded me of something. &nbsp;Any interest in the top above? &nbsp;I have a size L Eileen Fisher&nbsp;new with tags bought during the citron frenzy at YLF. &nbsp;:) &nbsp;It might be lovely with your red hair.</p> <p>I'm a super busty 10/12 and it is too big.</p> <p>I would be delighted to send it to you if you want to try it. &nbsp;If not your thing, that's cool too!</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256707 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:39:37 +0000 Anonymous 1256707@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Biscuits Mom, you know that we Love to help with fashion problems. Is your velvet skirt fitted at the top? You could look for a silky polyester top in any color that looks best on you, or a print with a black background and maybe jewel toned ( or any colors) flowers, paisley, or what appeals to you. Maybe you have something like this that you've not thought of.<br /> For your dog agility meeting, how about nice black pants and maybe even the same top as with the velvet skirt? I think that you can go almost anywhere with some black pants and a top ( could be a great jacket) appropriate for the occasion. Some other woman will almost certainly be wearing something similar. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256706 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:39:07 +0000 abc 1256706@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>When you respect yourself, you will demand the respect of others without even trying. &nbsp;Try not to compare yourself. &nbsp;You didn't choose to be born into the family you were. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256704 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:35:06 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow! Gigi, Carter, LA-C, Tracey, Linda, CC...thank you all doesn't seem enough! I dunno what is worn at the Nationals, although it is a daytime, outdoor event, so I think it would be fairly casual.&nbsp; Hoping I can wear my fav grey jeans and flattering dark blue jeans jacket to that, maybe I can find a non-boring top... maybe she wont even want to take the time to meet w/me.... As far as the wedding, I have *always* felt very intimidated by DH's friends, even though they have been 'kind' to my face, I've truly&nbsp; felt they looked down on me cuz I'm older, fat and am a from a working-poor, lower class, *not* from their upper- middle class background. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256696 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:24:50 +0000 ironkurtin 1256696@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't know what your budget is, but Eileen Fisher makes excellent and elegant basics for your body shape, and they can be dressed up or down. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256695 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:23:26 +0000 LoriFLA 1256695@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I was going to say what Linda said. &nbsp;A white crisp button-down or a black t-shirt. &nbsp;Since you don't like a white button-down, how about a black semi-fitted t-shirt with your jewelry. &nbsp;I know Sharon Stone wore the white button-down but she also wore a black t-shirt with a black skirt and it looked beautiful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256694 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:23:25 +0000 abc 1256694@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think if the skirt is velvet you should NOT match the shirt to it. &nbsp;Let it shine on its own. &nbsp;Go for a different fabric top altogether. &nbsp;Maybe something to juxtapose it - like Linda (milehighstyle) mentioned.</p> <p>And yes, I had the pleasure of meeting you in person and you were FAR from a mess! &nbsp;Don't be so hard on yourself!!!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256693 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:20:00 +0000 carter 1256693@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I assume you've at least seen this woman at dog shows before? What does she wear? I'd mimic her if you can. At least you'll know that she'll be thinking, "What a great outfit biscuitsmom had on!" </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256687 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:14:52 +0000 cciele 1256687@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You totally can ask for help! I'd wear something that you totally feel comfortable and awesome in, like the skirt you mention. People will notice you, not so much what you wore :)</p> <p>I have no idea what people wear to dog agility trials. Do they dress up like at dog shows? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256685 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:09:00 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256685@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Aww, THANK YOU guys!!!! I am overwhelmed at the kindness shown...... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256682 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:07:46 +0000 Gigi 1256682@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm not the most creative person, but what I do when I get stumped for a top is wear a white cami with a cardigan. Do you have a cardigan that would work with the skirt? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256680 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:06:35 +0000 biscuitsmom 1256680@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, ladies! I don't like (on me) button down, crisp tops, but will be searching/taking a 2nd look at what I have (thanks for the compliment, Cheryl!) and the wise advice , Diana! I WILL try and find a similar pic- or see if I can talk DH into taking a pic of the actual one. The skirt is freaking awesome, in my eyes, anyway, lol....should I try and find a velvety or lacy top to go with it, or not? And WTF should I wear to the National Dog Agility Trials to meet my longtime 'idol'??? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256678 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:04:41 +0000 carter 1256678@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Go play in your closet, and post some options! The midi-maxi skirt sound fabulous. Lots of creativity in this group, so I'm sure we'll get you sorted out.</p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ive-no-right-to-ask-for-help-but#post-1256677 Tue, 20 May 2014 20:03:37 +0000 LACeleste 1256677@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sure we will all help you! &nbsp;</p> <p>When I get a sense of where you are going with outfit direction, I am sure I can give you some awesome accessories that shamefully never get worn. &nbsp;My fancy capsule is overflowing. &nbsp;It would be a huge favor to me (and my hus who shares the closet hehehehe)</p> <p>At work so brief&nbsp;but I will tune back in soon.</p> <p>This is going to be fun! </p>