https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 07:36:36 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-608364 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 17:17:01 +0000 Anonymous 608364@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m 48 years old and had breast reduction surgery June 2011. It was the best gift to myself I could ever have imagined. I was a 34F or 34G, depending on the bra. My breasts grew seemingly overnight to a C when I was around 12 years old. With weight fluctuations over the years they continued to increase in size. One was almost a full cup larger than the other, they were saggy, and I was very self-conscious. Even after losing 35 lbs in 2010 my breasts did not get smaller.</p> <p>I had my surgery done in the plastic surgeon’s office surgical suite. Two of my friends had used the same surgeon and I’d seen their results. From the minute I met him for a consultation I felt comfortable with him. He obviously took pride in his work and was passionate about it. Anyway, the surgery went fine and the recovery period wasn’t bad at all. I’m a wimp as far as pain goes and I did great with only a day or two of pain medication. I’ve had no complications or loss of sensation and scarring is minimal. My only regret is not doing it years earlier but I couldn’t afford it. I just barely missed the insurance’s requirement of a certain amount of breast tissue weight removed; they would not cover it. Luckily I had enough savings to pay it myself. I’m now down to a 34D although to my eye they look and feel like a C.</p> <p>I encourage anyone thinking of reduction to just do it! I don’t know anyone who’s had it done that regretted it. I love that my breasts are now equal, have pretty nipples and are perky! I look much better in clothing too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-607944 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 03:12:01 +0000 Anonymous 607944@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I cannot comment on the psychological and physical effects of having large breasts, but I know of two of my good friends, who have done it, and are very pleased with the results.</p> <p>One of them had it done about 6 or 7 years ago. It really changed her for the better. She was very shy and uncomfortable in her own body before surgery and she became another person after. </p> <p>The other one, had it done last year, after so much complaining that her bust size was getting "in the way" of her career, since she felt that it was such a distraction and people had to look there first. She is doing beautifully as well. I really think that whole thing was her perception, however.</p> <p>I think it all depends on how much it affects you or if you are unsatisfied with your appearance. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-607938 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 02:50:14 +0000 ManidipaM 607938@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sadly, I'm thinking it will have very little bearing on men's fetishizing, IK I mean the pleather and 4-inch heels aren't exactly comfort-oriented either, nor are bound feet (a la China), or super-long hair (used to be the norm in India until pretty recently, and taboo for any women but widows to cut their hair for non-religious reasons in Hindu populations), or most forms of hair removal for that matter... pretty burdensome all across the board.</p> <p>Claudia, thanks for that revelation! Good to know such things exist! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-607774 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:42:47 +0000 Mochi 607774@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>IK, it varies widely from woman to woman. It depends on whether the nipple/areola was cut and moved, and also how much nerve area was removed along with the breast tissue. I can't quantify how much I lost. I still have sensation, and it's not close to numb (I'm talking about the nipples) but it's not anywhere where I remember it being before. Part of what saddens me is that I had the BR when I was so young, before I started having sex, so I will never know how it might have felt different. I do have more of a lack of sensation in the lower portion of both breasts, the side close to the armpits. It's very localized. </p> <p>You are right to be happy with your small rack! I wish more women understood this. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-607760 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 00:37:53 +0000 ironkurtin 607760@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Can I just say you are making me appreciate my lack of "huge tracts of land"? I mean, yes, I need to wear a sports bra to keep the girls tamed when I run, but they've never been a burden or a pain. I wonder if men would fetishize giant bosoms so much if they knew what a burden they are?</p> <p>Also, out of curiosity, how much loss of sensation is typical with a reduction? That sounds a but scary. Are we talking less of a sexy sensation, or total numbness? Hope that's not TMI to share. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions/page/2#post-607669 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 23:29:06 +0000 catgirl 607669@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Claudia, have not seen those! I still wear my surgery bras sometimes - they were for post-surgery and very stretchy comfortable mild support to keep from hurting anywhere. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-607298 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:32:09 +0000 Claudia 607298@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do any of you use a sleeping bra? I discovered these when they were recommended to me when I was pregnant. I wish I had known about them before then -- and have worn them ever since. They are inexpensive and great for sleeping and wearing under sleep/leisure wear.</p> <p>Very comfy and gives enough gentle support without feeling like our usual, structured, heavy duty underwire bras.<br /> <a href="http://www.barenecessities.com/product.aspx?pfid=LeadingLady110&#038;source=gbase&#038;cm_mmc=GLBS-_-Bra-_-LeadingLady110-_-NA&#038;term=LeadingLady110%20&#038;mr:trackingCode=95618F0D-E3B2-E011-87D9-001B21A69EB8&#038;mr:referralID=NA" rel="nofollow">http://www.barenecessities.com.....erralID=NA</a></p> <p>You can also find them under "nursing bras" as well as "sleeping bras." </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-607290 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 16:24:15 +0000 Elly 607290@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a 30 GG--- perhaps it is because I'm only a 30 band size or because I'm a decently large person otherwise (5'8", ect) that I've never considered myself large busted. I didn't have most of the busty girl problems, but then I was a gymnast (strong, good posture), never was self conscious about my chest, and have really long arms and good awareness of where my body is. </p> <p>Finding bras is painful, and it is uncomfortable to wear compression sports bras or go without a bra when out of bed. Not being able to find a bra that fits good and is comfortable is my biggest complaint-- I've never been uncomfortable before, despite being busty my whole life, but have been for the last year or two not being able to find something comfortable and supportive. When I do have decent bras I'm ok. </p> <p>I also am uncomfortable in PJs without a bra (not around significant others, but around male family, roomates, ppl I'm staying with). Swimsuits are another thing that is hard. </p> <p>I got teased in hs and college for wearing "grandma bras" and dressing matronly because I couldn't find other clothing to fit with my limited shopping and budget and desire to be somewhat covered up, since what my friends were wearing looked really trashy on curvy me. </p> <p>That said, if I ever got a reduction i'd just have a big ass! Luckily there is no breast cancer in my family. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-607275 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 15:58:16 +0000 ManidipaM 607275@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mochi, I know it's hard to hug with big girls, but I want to offer you one anyway. :-(</p> <p>I know the yoga issues (I've NEVER managed the backward plough and I'm rather limber on the whole), and I know the never comfy in the nude issue that Una mentions too. Weird, isn't it? It's not even a body image thing, but a physical comfort one. The busty comics did make me laugh --- but it's so hard to find night clothes I'm comfy in! Harder than a bra shopping expedition at at times. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-607197 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 14:37:10 +0000 Mochi 607197@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No worries, Una. I actually quickly googled "second breast reduction" yesterday and found a lot of my people, LOL. It is weird, there were pics of women who were definitely not overweight who had gotten big again, but also many of the women just were not listened to by their surgeons in the first place (re what size they wanted to end up), even having done the BR as adults. It's pretty sad. I am going to keep the option for a second operation in the background--again, it would have to be reconsidered after losing another 20 pounds at least. </p> <p>I am not sure how you don't see the hugeness, but then again we all focus on perceived flaws around our own body parts much more than other people do, for sure......but still, I am very big and they do get in the way, and right now I'm feeling annoyed about these underwires. Well, at least I am otherwise fit and healthy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606970 Sun, 29 Apr 2012 02:39:40 +0000 catgirl 606970@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mochi, I am sorry to hear of your experience and I know it is not an anamoly... I'd feel frustrated about that too. I've read that BR at a young age can end up not "taking" over the long term due to body changes, pregnancy, hormones, etc. </p> <p>I had never even considered it until I was 38, though I hated the whole issue of dealing with supportive bras, never feeling comfortable in the nude, and general self-consciousness. Getting even bigger after having my son was what sent me over the edge. I'm lucky to have had little scarring but I do have some loss of sensation, but I know there are substantial risks and lots of possible complications. </p> <p>I have never looked at your photos and noticed your boobs, if that matters! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606527 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 16:55:07 +0000 teeandcee 606527@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mine are larger only due to weight gain so I know as I lose my weight they'll shrink back to a comfortable size (well, I hope so). I do have back pain from them and wouldn't hesitate to get surgery if this size was a permanent thing. In addition to their just being so uncomfortable with crossing my arms, lying on my side or stomach while sleeping, trying to eat without dipping them, jiggling, etc. Meh. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606518 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 16:47:44 +0000 Jem 606518@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry you had a bad experince Mochi! That must have been really hard to go through that when you were so young. I'm sure there have been improvements since you had your surgery, but it does also depend on the surgeon for sure. I know what there are simpler ways to go through the surgeries I had (it took 3) and improvements even since I had mine done a few years ago. I'm just glad it's done. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606509 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 16:39:24 +0000 jumpingfrog 606509@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mochi, I'm sorry to read your reduction didn't quite get the results you were hoping for. I do think ManidipaM is right, that the slouching is a defence against "creeps". Having men talk to me while looking at my bust used to bother me a lot. I do feel better about my size now, I have gone from a G cup to a DD. Finding bras in my town to fit me used to be so difficult, I only found one place that carried my size and could fit me. It was quite expensive though, and I shuddered at forking over that kind of money at the time. Actually, I should go back to a proper lingerie store and get fitted again, it's been quite a few years since I have. Maybe I'll do a trip to Seattle this summer and book a fitting somewhere there. What bothers me more now is how the girls have lost their firmness, and gravity has really affected them. Having lost weight and learning to dress for my figure have made a huge difference in my confidence. I'm still learning, this site has been so fantastic. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606479 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 15:47:47 +0000 Mochi 606479@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sure it's improved over the years. (I think I had mine done around 1980.) My scars are definitely not hairline and I've seen much smaller scars on other women. In some ways I wish I had waited till I was older and could have been much more savvy about questioning the doctor. At that young age I was mortified about the whole thing and wanted him to just take care of it. On the other hand, I was already pretty abnormally sized (think older women who are really saggy), so to just put up with that would have been less than optimal. I guess I was stuck with a really bad situation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606478 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 15:47:40 +0000 christieanne 606478@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Jem for sharing with us. My sister and I have not had the genetic testing as dr.s have advised that since there are so many unknowns and variables that they didn't recommend it. </p> <p>My own mother decided to forgo reconstruction as she thought it was a vanity thing (and she thought being 67 that she had no reason to - certainly a very personal decision). My MIL had reconstruction after her surgery but I am not close enough to her to ask any questions as she and my DH aren't on good terms. </p> <p>I appreciate the thoughts you all have shared here so much! All the perspectives are something to consider (Moochi - it's good to hear yours for sure) before considering a major change like this. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606477 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 15:41:13 +0000 Angie 606477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mochi, I really enjoyed your perspective and thank you for your courage and time. I wonder whether BR ops have improved over the years? I have seen less than hairline scars on 95% of the women (one had sizeable scars and she had her BR done in 1983). Anyway, I'm sending over virtual hugs because you are uber fab, and so is your healthy bosom. </p> <p>Jem, wow! Thanks for speaking up. I very much appreciate that you did. Knowledge is power. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606474 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 15:35:30 +0000 Jem 606474@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I wan'ted to chime in because I was high risk for breast cancer, too. I was never tested for the gene mutation because my doctor said that they don't know all of them anyway, and even if I tested negative, it wouldn't necessarily mean that I wouldn't get it. It caused me endless distress, so I was one of those who had a preventative mastectomy. It wasn't easy and was an agonizing decision and it took me a few years to make it, but I'm glad I did it. Reconstruction isn't the same as the original (not to be confused with enhancements or reductions with out a mastectomy), but there are benefits and the lack or worry is definitely worth it! If someone has more questions about it, I'd be happy to talk to them, btw. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606471 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 15:28:57 +0000 Mochi 606471@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hesitate to even join this discussion, because I'm coming from a more negative point of view here, but I'm always surprised to read how overwhelmingly positive people's experiences of BR has been. I mean, of course I'm glad that it's been good for other women and I'm not wishing otherwise. I just mean that I've been fairly disappointed with my experience. I had it done very early, at age 16, and I was pretty huge before that, and while he definitely made them smaller, I never felt like they were small enough. In fact, in college my then-best friend (who didn't know that I had had a BR) commented one time that I might want to consider getting one! I was secretly crushed, but didn't say anything. And at that time, I was maybe 15 lbs over my ideal weight (now I'm closer to 40 or perhaps 50). No matter what, they were just going to be really big. </p> <p>I know I see women out there who are much bigger than me, which makes me sad. It looks so uncomfortable. I'm still dealing with physical discomfort sometimes, though not major and it's mostly that they're just bulky! And nothing fits well. As I've mentioned here, I have such a hard time finding things to fit me well, apart from knits like t-shirts. Combine that challenge with being a petite size, and it's even more difficult. </p> <p>Mostly, I'm just disappointed because I'm short and otherwise small-framed. If I were a statuesque gal like Christina Hendricks, sure, having a large bust would look fine. (Even then, I'm sure it's inconvenient for her in lots of ways....) And yesterday when I was in Pilates class, the teacher had us doing a move where we had to press our forearms together in front of us from hand to elbow, and of course due to my short arms and huge chest, I was the only one who couldn't do it. </p> <p>I am disappointed that I went through major surgery, got scars, lost sensitivity, the ability to breastfeed, and they're still enormous. I get men looking at them on the street all the time. </p> <p>When someone here on YLF recently linked to these busty girl comics, I ended up commenting on there about my own experiences. One woman replied to me that she had had an almost-identical experience, having a BR at age 16--no pregnancy or weight gain, but her breasts reverted back to their original size some years after the surgery. She said maybe they would have ended up even bigger if she'd never had it done...anyway, I was glad someone else was out there who wasn't drop-dead thrilled with the results, so I didn't have to feel as if something was wrong with me for not being happy about it. </p> <p>I can and probably will consider getting it done again (I know one other woman who did--she's happy with them now). But I'd have to be within 20 lbs of my ideal weight, so for now I'll just deal with what I have, and try and accommodate what is definitely a challenge. </p> <p>To be honest, I'm glad they're healthy, but it's hard for me to feel positive about them. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606442 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 14:40:53 +0000 ManidipaM 606442@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>IK: I cannot stop giggling now. And my poor SO is trying to serve dinner --- the spaghetti mounds keep setting me off...! Oh dear! ::snort:: </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606423 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 14:18:36 +0000 Angie 606423@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That was a good blog post, Kari. So many things to think about. </p> <p>Obviously, I cannot personally comment on what it is like to have a large bustline. But I work with clients and have friends/family who have had reductions, inserts and mastectomies. I am grateful for this exposure and can very generally sum up their feelings:</p> <p>- All breast reduction candidates have been more than thrilled with the results. Truly, they regard it as a very positive experience. None of them actually look small or regular busted, and in fact they still have a sizeable bust after the reduction. </p> <p>- Dealing with a mastectomy means lots of soul searching. There is all sorts of underwear available to balance out proportions and Nordstrom actually specializes in this - if you want to go down that road. Not all people do, but you have the option. </p> <p>Without question, I would personally have a mastectomy if my health was at risk. Having seen my Mum go through cancer (liver, not breast), it is an insanely cruel disease. Getting rid of the cancer is the only solution, even if it means that you sacrifice aesthetics. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606411 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 13:59:23 +0000 ironkurtin 606411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a 36B - well, ok, one side is a B and the other is tipping C - and I actually considered reduction/lift on the C side just because - well, just because then they would both be perky! Then I looked online and realized it was a major surgery and I was being disgustingly, revoltingly vain. So now I live with perky and droopy and tell my husband he's lucky. Because one side may be pretty, but the other one is FRIENDLY! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606360 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 10:47:43 +0000 Claudia 606360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for the link, Kari. I can so relate. I am a 34.5 G (which makes me between bra sizes, an added pain in getting a great fitting bra. The 34s can be hard to hook close and the 36s become too loose pretty quickly as the elastic fabric relaxes after a few wears). </p> <p>I have always longed for and admired small busted women for their looks, clothing choices, comfort, and their ease of athletic/physical opportunities and would have loved a reduction, but at 50 yr will most likely never get one. </p> <p>I have also known several women that have had reductions and every one of them has never regretted doing this surgery.</p> <p>Growing up with a big bust was difficult emotionally, too. I grew up with just brothers and my older brother tormented me by constantly mocking and drawing attention to my chest, especially in front of his friends. They'd get footballs and basketballs and walk around with them under their shirts. Adolescent teasing, but it was horrible for me and my body image. My mom is a pretty pear with a lovely modest chest and so is my daughter. So this has been an issue I felt very alone in in my family. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606350 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 08:53:55 +0000 ManidipaM 606350@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Kari, thanks! I've had Chantelle recommended a couple of times before too. I do keep an eye out, though they aren't common in my neck of the woods and the options pretty limited. For now, I'm finding the really built-up-with-3/4-hooks sports-type bra is my best option for everyday --- even basic Jockeys. I lucked out with a couple of special-occasion bras from the leftover 'odd sizes' rack at M&amp;S as well. But it's always good to have an eye out for new brands, since these just aren't reliably found in stores here yet. </p> <p>Jumpingfrog, I realized over time that my self-consciousness was often a defense mechanism against, well, creeps! That I myself had no issues with my size. Would you agree? Do you feel comfortable with your size *yourself*? Because if you aren't, I guess there is serious room for consideration. On the other hand, if you *are* personally fine with your largesse, I'd say the first order of business may be silencing that voice in your head and reminding yourself that 'their' problem with your body is *their problem*. For me, it's become a habit to hunch at times, but I do keep reminding myself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606309 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:45:13 +0000 jumpingfrog 606309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have thought of reduction surgery a few times too. Now that I'm nearing menopause and have finished having children, I've found my size has gone down a little. Losing weight helped too. Like MandipaM said, I used to be self conscious and hunch over a lot. I have been doing yoga for 10 years now, and my posture has improved, but I still find myself slouching quite a bit. Hearing about other women that are happy with their reduction has me thinking about it again. Off to read that link now. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606304 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:24:45 +0000 bj1111 606304@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>awesome granny...more of a leg man!</p> <p>lucky for both of us the question is hypothetical...besides, what people really do in the moment rarely resembles the decision made in the pretend. even among rational thoughtful people, one of. which i consider you to be. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606302 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:23:12 +0000 Kari 606302@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ManidipaM, I'm by no means an expert, but I'm happy to share recommendations of bras that worked for me if you are looking for ideas to try. I've had great luck with Chantelle in recent years. (Unfortunately, they don't come cheap - but I watch for sales!) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606301 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:21:00 +0000 Kari 606301@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yeah, BJ, I wonder about that too. Being a busty, curvaceous woman, while not integral to my personality exactly, is very part of my style identity. I wouldn't have qualms about removing *anything* that would be a major risk to my health - honestly, I think if it had been determined that our family carried the BRCA genes, I'd consider it, though It would be a real mental adjustment to get used to a body with no breasts at all, or breasts that were much smaller. (Fortunately, we haven't detected any known genetic risks in spite of the family history.)</p> <p>But on the flip side, reconstruction isn't perfect either. I know my grandma had to get hers re-done at least once (due to the length of time that had spanned since the original surgery.)</p> <p>I'm also thinking of a woman that I knew in church in college who was diagnosed with breast cancer. She wanted to make sure that people knew about her diagnosis and that she was going to be going through a mastectomy, but said "But it's all good - my husband's really more of a leg man." She reminded me a lot of my grandma, actually, in that she kept a very positive attitude and was even able to see some humor in a very scary situation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606299 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:18:52 +0000 ManidipaM 606299@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Believe you me, I've considered it ever since I went from a B to an F in my 20s... and then developed a dowager's hump because it made me self-conscious enough to hunch all the time and getting the right bra used to be an impossibly difficult ask.</p> <p>Three things held me back, and two of those practical issues: Unlike Una, I *can* (and should) lose some weight before I know what my 'real' minimum size is; and I really can't afford it. The third reason is partly psychological --- I'm not in any pain, no family medical history to cause special concer, and really, they wouldn't get in my way, so to speak, if I got over my self-consciousness. So I decided to try and win *that* battle first, especially now that finding a decent jiggle-dampening bra is actually a possibility around here. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/imogens-posts-on-breasts-body-image-and-reductions#post-606291 Sat, 28 Apr 2012 05:08:24 +0000 bj1111 606291@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>hands down, every woman i've met who had this procedure expressed only satisfaction and relief. any regret was due to having waited so long.</p> <p>not advocating, just throwing in my two cents.</p> <p>i love my breasts. i enjoy them, named them, generally am pleased with them. but i would have no trouble removing them if my health were at stake. for me, the question would be to reconstruct or not. </p>