https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 17 Apr 2026 08:02:31 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1419890 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 20:59:55 +0000 Lyn D. 1419890@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hah! The best compliment ever </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1419417 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 01:48:39 +0000 rae 1419417@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi five! You shouldn't want to look like anyone else, because you are UHmazing! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418604 Sun, 04 Jan 2015 13:36:17 +0000 Jjsloane 1418604@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You are amazing and individual Shannon and we appreciate you! Even when using a lemming purchase or copying an ensemble you manage to make it you and that is what is so great. Keep rocking and accept that it's fab!&nbsp;<br />It's so hard to break that early training of trying to fit in isn't it? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418545 Sun, 04 Jan 2015 03:49:40 +0000 Jaime 1418545@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Due to poor access I am not as big a lemming as I might be, but I have definitely lemminged you Shannon! I would take what your friend said&nbsp;as an enormous compliment, as you did, and think it wonderful that we are old enough to realize it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418284 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 17:49:08 +0000 Anonymous 1418284@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's exactly it! If you put your own spin on an ensemble rather than duplicate it exactly, you'll always look like yourself but better instead of like a fashion victim. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418281 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 17:43:31 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1418281@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you all so much for your comments and input.</p> <p>I realize reading back what I wrote could be construed as speaking negatively about "lemming" purchases. I in no way meant it like that - in fact I just ordered the EF leather sleeved jacket that was an Angie pick and that some Fabbers have already. And I will continue to do so.</p> <p>What I mean is I'm not going to try and duplicate outfits exactly how others wear them so beautifully but put my own spin on it, you know?</p> <p>I guess with age I'm becoming more accepting of individuality. And even though I'm in a better headspace about my style, my headspace about my body is a whole other matter...</p> <p>Lisa - HUGE Monty Python fan here!!' </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418277 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 17:32:26 +0000 krishnidoux 1418277@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love this post and thread. What a great reflection. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418274 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 17:23:37 +0000 gryffin 1418274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon - I got the exact same compliment from a new patient, a man of all things.&nbsp; He went on to explain that in a huge sea of herd female fashion (it was skinny leg sucking jeans in knee boots, sweater and scarf, I looked like me.&nbsp; My outfit wasn't all that different - mini dress/tunic, leggings, boots and long jacket - aka my uniform.&nbsp; But it was an authentic expression not derivative style.&nbsp; I think that's what it's all about but there will always be those who feel threatened by those who do not follow the pack.&nbsp; I think you have awesome style!!&nbsp; I so enjoy reading your thoughts and seeing your posts!&nbsp; You always look stylish, put together, uber flattering - but like you!&nbsp; The Shannon-ness of all your pieces shows and showcase you!&nbsp; I really believe your friens meant the compliment in the above way - try and enjoy it and being the fantastic one of a kind you are!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418152 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 05:29:08 +0000 SandyG 1418152@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Dazzled by the compliment you got -- congrats and keep it up!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418130 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 04:32:49 +0000 Deborah 1418130@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is great Shannon! &nbsp;My style is also quite different to the norm around here... and I love it! &nbsp;I don't have a desire to 'fit in' and truthfully I don't want to look like "everyone else". &nbsp;I think you have honed your style to the point where you could actually be wearing something that is 'popular' yet it would look different because your wear it "your" way. You go girl. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1418114 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 03:47:49 +0000 citygirldc 1418114@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love that she said that. I strive to be an "individual" and you do it justice. &nbsp;Keep on stylin'. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok/page/2#post-1417995 Sat, 03 Jan 2015 00:09:17 +0000 Suz 1417995@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ha! I love Karie's Dr. Seuss quote.&nbsp;</p> <p>Congratulations on coming to an easier place in your style evolution. And, you've always had killer style, and always will. &nbsp;:)</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417982 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:54:10 +0000 Caro in Oz 1417982@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hey I think that's what "Style" is &amp; you are one stylish fabber </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417980 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:36:14 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1417980@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A wonderful point and one to which we should all hope to reach... I know that I put more effort in than any mother I know....They've just accepted it as me being me. &nbsp;I am lucky to have another side to my life with outings with women in my husband's work world that dress with effort for night activities and that's been a true blessing to have a mix of not being the best dressed in the room always.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417977 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:29:19 +0000 deb 1417977@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, I love your individuality. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417974 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:08:11 +0000 Susie 1417974@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>High five on that compliment, Shannon, it's a big one! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417953 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:40:03 +0000 Marley 1417953@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Amen Sister! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417947 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:35:41 +0000 Marilyn 1417947@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a lovely compliment! :)</p> <p>I don't think I have achieved individual style....yet!.....but my style is definitely in flux and I'm much more confident to try different looks.&nbsp; I will be thrilled if I ever achieve individual style. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417946 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:31:00 +0000 Anonymous 1417946@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Now all I can think of is Monty Python's&nbsp;&nbsp;" I'm a &nbsp;lumberjack , and I'm OK".....&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417943 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:21:20 +0000 Karie 1417943@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a terrific compliment! How boring it would be if we all looked the same. I don't want to look like anyone else, I want to look like my best self. I might copy a look, an outfit, or a clothing item, but it works best for me when I put my own unique spin on it.&nbsp;Dr. Seuss said it perfectly:</p> <p>Today you are you!<br />That is truer than true!<br />There is no one alive who is you-er than you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417936 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:14:15 +0000 Nebraskim 1417936@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>At one time in my life, that comment would have thrown me into a negativity headspin, but today, I would revel in that. Being comfortable with where you are, and having your own unique self celebrated is an amazing compliment. She is a good friend indeed. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417929 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:09:20 +0000 harmonica 1417929@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You and your style is like no one else's - and I absolutely love it!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417919 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 22:00:32 +0000 Thistle 1417919@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Terrific compliment! You need to put that somewhere and reread it for days when you may be feeling less than fab. such a great pick me up. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417915 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 21:55:38 +0000 Sharon 1417915@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, you have great style! It's terrific that you have found a place where you can recognise that and feel comfortable with claiming it. For me, one of the advantages of getting older has been feeling more comfortable with who I am and as a consequence of that, how I present myself. It is actually very freeing! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417913 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 21:53:13 +0000 qfbrenda 1417913@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a great compliment!</p> <p>I'm finding that while I love arty loose fit clothing on others, especially some here at YLF, hubby and I both don't care for it on me. It makes me bigger than I am and not in a good way. I'm pretty little so I don't have any trouble looking short. But if clothes fit too loose, they just look... huge. I'm lost under the fabric. So while I'm not reverting to body con stuff, tailored fit will continue to be my favorite in spite of the trends. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417909 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 21:46:41 +0000 goldenpig 1417909@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That is such a great compliment and really shows that you have a unique, confident and cohesive sense of style. You don't have to copy others because you are a style leader! I've always admired your style! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417903 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 21:29:16 +0000 jackiec 1417903@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What an amazing compliment - and so true! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417896 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 20:59:50 +0000 Anonymous 1417896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's the best compliment anyone could give, and it's great to accept it and embrace your unique style. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417894 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 20:57:52 +0000 Aziraphale 1417894@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Having an individual style is, in my book, more than just 'OK'. When your friend said you look like no one else in the room, she was giving you&nbsp;the highest kind of compliment. What it means is that you have <i>style</i>. Not everyone does. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/im-not-like-others-thats-ok#post-1417893 Fri, 02 Jan 2015 20:57:28 +0000 Anonymous 1417893@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I remember when you first posted that comment of hers, and high-fived you then too! &nbsp;It's so great when someone recognizes individual style. &nbsp;It's a testament to your confidence in what you wear - how cool is that? &nbsp;I agree with her - and am glad you don't "hear" it as a slight or a negative.</p> <p>I can say with confidence that I am completely comfortable with my look - and&nbsp;<b>like</b> the fact that I don't dress the same way as many other women. &nbsp;My one fear in life is looking like everyone else, although as I get older, there really is no "everyone else" , is there? &nbsp;I figure I'll know when something looks wrong &nbsp;(or someone will tell me if I become too out of it to notice) . &nbsp;Lemming stuff? Hmm, I can see how it happens - and I just bought a pair of skirted leggings like a good little lemming. But that's about it so far. &nbsp;And in my defence, this is a look that is really me - no stretch of the imagination at all.&nbsp; I think we all have a bit of lemming in us, and this forum provides a safe place to act on it, if one chooses to. &nbsp;I am secretly glad I haven't bought all the lemming items &nbsp;I first thought I wanted when &nbsp;I joined just while NAS was happening this past summer. I am so totally off what I thought I "should" buy....I am so relieved . </p>