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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: I love it - does it love me?</title>
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				<title>Sloper on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me/page/2#post-2303368</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2023 01:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sloper</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it! &#038;nbsp;Agreeing with advice to keep the layering simple. &#038;nbsp;Looks good with the white shirt and jeans. &#038;nbsp;I do think the striped top doesn’t work so well but may be the angle of the picture. &#038;nbsp;I could see this with a slim tube skirt.
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				<title>Anonymous on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 20:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes to trying a size down!
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				<title>Angie on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me/page/2#post-2303087</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 17:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Roberta,&#060;/b&#062; ALWAYS good to compare sizes! Good call ordering a size smaller on the COS vest.....which might be less fussy and more comfy. You never know unless you try ;)&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Roberta on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 15:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Roberta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you again for all of your input, everyone! I returned the Halogen vest, which I think is pretty nice, but nowhere as nice as the Cos vest. I also decided to order the Cos vest one size smaller, just to see how the fit looks. I like that the stiffer textile doesn't cling or drag anywhere.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As far as styling goes, I think the severity of the Cos vest calls for equally simple garments. That's why the white shirt and the jeans work so well with it. I think a patterned top might just come off as frumpy.  I'm so delighted to be wearing that particular white shirt, which was fairly expensive, and has been a closet orphan for some time.
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				<title>Bijou on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me#post-2303033</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 11:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would only consider keeping the Cos vest. I like it best with the crisp white shirt - I think it is such a statement, it needs a clean and architectural support act. I love the styling with jeans and boots. My vote is to keep the Cos vest - it is a fun wildcard that you love.
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				<title>Olive Green on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me#post-2303031</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 10:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Olive Green</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Being Utilitarian, I love an architectural fit. Being so short, it is hard to pull off. You pull it off.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Also prefer the COS to the Halogen.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jenni NZ on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 08:37:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenni NZ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I guess I am not really a fan of oversized… so think I am with LJP. But I am in a minority…
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				<title>Zaeobi on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 04:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Zaeobi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;If the back of the neck is itchy, I'd like to see it styled with a turtleneck (or other, non shirt-collared tops) - to see if that feels comfy to you  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Those mustard/ saffron cords are a lovely colour pairing with the navy though!
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				<title>Jaime on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me#post-2302980</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 02:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely worth more experimentation as suggested above and definitely prefer the COS to the lesser vest!
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				<title>Kyle on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 02:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have the Halogen vest in Navy and wear it with leggings, a fitted turtleneck and booties or platform sneakers. Haven’t tried it with jeans yet. To me it reads more like an ink blue than navy, and I purchased a size small. Thought my husband would really dislike this piece, but he surprisingly gave it a thumbs up.&#038;nbsp;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;I think I prefer the COS vest, and might like to see it styled with less contrasting tops and bottoms.&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>jussie on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2023 00:21:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jussie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I rather like these. Yes; it’s probably not the easiest type of garment to style and wear, but it’s great fun and fashion-y! Something to wear on days when you feel like being a little creative with your outfit  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  .&#060;br /&#062;
I like it best the way you have it styled with the docs, and I also like it with those pink-ish pants in the original pics.
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				<title>Indigoprint on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 23:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Indigoprint</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love that COS vest. I hope you get it sorted. I think it looks Fab with your Docs.
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				<title>Anonymous on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 23:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it! I tried styling a new navy sweater vest today too. I wore it with a white top and plaid pants. Next time I plan to try it with a jean shirt. I also want to wear over a dress. I think yours looks really sharp with the Docs  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Angie on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 22:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Roberta&#060;/b&#062;, I'm nodding along with &#060;b&#062;Jonesy &#060;/b&#062;who mentioned some things I forgot! Thanks, &#060;b&#062;Jonesy&#060;/b&#062; :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;FWIW:
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&#060;li&#062;keep the COS and return the Halogen&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;the olive pants and jeans look great with the COS vest&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;try a low contrast top under it too&#060;/li&#062;
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&#060;p&#062;Wishing you joy with your fun new architectural piece :)&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>JP on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 21:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What LJP said.&#060;br /&#062;
However, what matters most is how you feel in it.
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				<title>nuancedream on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 21:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nuancedream</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a clear preference for the COS vest over the Halogen one. Angie makes a good point about oversized fits and how they can be a nuisance when you're moving around and going about your day. It's one reason why I personally avoid oversized fits.
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				<title>RobinF on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 21:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RobinF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am a vest fan and I love it! Especially with the docs (also love!) but I think you could find other ways to wear it. I thought I'd like it best with slimmer pants but I kind of like it with the olive from the first set.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Dee on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 21:17:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My preference is for the COS vest, I like its architecture and find it looks best in outfits #1#2 and it also works well with your jeans and docs.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;However, I’d &#038;nbsp;be wary of wearing it with really slim pants, as it might seem too top heavy, I think you’ve got to balance the proportions to make it work.
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				<title>phoebe on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 20:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>phoebe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Maybe less high contrast tops would help it merge a little better with the rest of your outfit
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				<title>Jonesy on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 20:38:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the COS vest! I have to say that you are not giving these vests a fighting chance by posting pics without footwear :). I would go with the beautiful quality one over the Halogen one. I like it best with the wider olive cords (?) in #2 in the first set of pics, and love it with the jeans and boots (fab boots, esp with your hair!) in the newest pic--seeing it completely styled with footwear shows how well it works, and it looks smashing with the denim, IMHO.
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&#060;p&#062;ETA: other styling ideas include going tonal with the vest (e.g., something dark underneath), or a turtleneck, or some wide, cropped pants to play with proportions (see examples below).&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Suz on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 20:07:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ok, so a few points to keep in mind for context on my commentary.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1. I love the idea of these vests. Love! Am always eager to try them. I'm surprised I don't own one, TBH -- I've been looking but have not seen one that promises to have the proportions I might need.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;2. I have no problem surrendering the waist, personally, and like waist-surrendering looks.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;However, I was not at all sure about the first set of photos -- was not in love with it, despite my predispositions toward this kind of item.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Having said that, now that I see it with the toned-in jeans and the Docs, I'm a huge fan! The footwear seems to ground it and balance the look. I would do what Angie said -- experiment with it at home, try a bunch of different outfits, try with your coat, etc.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 20:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I prefer the COS, with its more structured look. I would go for the higher quality fabric, too, on this kind of statement vest. I love the look with your cuffed jeans and Docs. I'm not as crazy about it with the straight cords, but I think I would like the look of those, too, if you cuffed them and had some chunky boots or oxfords on. In addition to the itch factor on the neck, I also like the look of the turtleneck or shirt collar with the vest and am less drawn to the look of the blouse in 2. (Though I like the look of those colors together.) 
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				<title>bella on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 19:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this. I think they both look fabulous, and hope for you that the comfort level is there, too. So so chic!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Irina on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Irina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nordstrom US sells COS? Live and learn, I guess, no such luck for us, Canadians!&#060;br /&#062;I actually tried this vest from COS. I had to size down but the proportions were off on me. Also, I realize that the cut is strange, sizing down takes drama away, right size is kind of not here, not where.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;So, sorry and I don't love it but it is not you, it's this particular garment.&#060;br /&#062;The second one looks just to big on you to my eye.&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Roberta on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Roberta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is all excellent advice, thank you! In particular, I thank Angie and Unfrumped, because I do feel very fashion forward in this, which is rare, but I know I should give it a thorough test drive. So I will, wearing these orange Docs which I just bought and am also trying out.&#060;br /&#062;
Further comments welcome, of course!
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				<title>unfrumped on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can see this concept also , but have a cautionary tale.&#060;br /&#062;
I bought something similar though a bit slimmer and with a cool 2-way front zipper by Eileen Fisher in gray boiled wool. I had some kind of elegant-elf or something look in mind.&#060;br /&#062;
But after wearing a few times I did find it mor difficult to be a “ moving” item &#038;amp; was not a cozy curl- up either. At the time,  I was working so did view it as more of a refined 3rd piece. It did need slim pants and probably would be paired with leggings, which I did not wear, unless sometimes at- home heavy winter, &#038;amp; this was not lounging item.&#060;br /&#062;
Eventually I just did not like how I looked in it- some kind of frumpy- elf.
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				<title>kkards on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;gosh, i love the idea of this...especially with the pinky/red cords.&#038;nbsp; my only concern, can you layer your outerwear on top of this comfortably?&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>LJP on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I quite like the idea here but I have the same feelings as Cardiff girl re fluidity and Angie’s suggestion for dark bottoms etc.  To be honest , I don’t love it on you .
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				<title>Star (Lise) on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 18:01:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Star (Lise)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for the extra pics.&#038;nbsp; I think I prefer the back fit of the Halogen one, but if the quality is not there maybe not a good idea.
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				<title>Cardiff girl on "I love it - does it love me?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-love-it---does-it-love-me#post-2302883</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 17:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cardiff girl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can see where you are coming from on this.l love a vest too.Personally l look for a bit more slouch in mine and something that hints &#038;nbsp;at the body beneath however you might be looking for a different vibe.l find them very useful for abit of extra warmth in spring/up autumn.Enjoy it!
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