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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC</title>
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				<title>Freckles on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2011 14:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Freckles</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, yes, yes.  So glad it fits.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Super flattering.  Can't wait to see you style it in Tahoe.
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				<title>bj1111 on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2011 02:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;love the movement in that skirt!  do you dance--like swing or tango?  this would be a great dress for that.  you wear chocolate brown very very well.
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				<title>bella on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 03 Aug 2011 00:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;very pretty! The fabric looks very lush, too.
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				<title>Mo on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 23:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks Anna - it's my consolation prize of SYC hee hee.
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				<title>annagybe on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 23:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks marvelous!
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				<title>Mo on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 21:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The dress came and I love it!  I took a pic or 2 and then dutifully packed it away since I don't imagine I'll see cool enough weather unless/until we move back to Tahoe.  But that's okay - it's like a present waiting for me!  I love the fabric.  It is modal but has more of a sheen or slippery feel and less of a 'oh, it's going to pill!' feel to it  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   I tried to get it in action but I'm no model ha ha.  And, hey, if SYC starts to wear me down - I'll pull it out and flounce around the a/c'ed house and sip some good wine or something lol.
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				<title>Lisa on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;At least it was on your list and a replacement piece, I don't consider this purchase a real SYC offensive since it was not a mindless impulse splurge item.  And you can always start SYC again.
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				<title>Heather on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 15:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Malina!  Hello!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will echo in agreement that this was not a SYC breakdown.  You had a PP balance AND it is NOT a frivolous purchase.  This wrap dress will be an incredibly versatile piece for you.  Think layers, hosiery, boots, scarves, jewelry--all of these accessories in different combinations will create a &#034;new&#034; outfit from one frock.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Well done.  Banish those feels of guilt tout suite!!
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				<title>celia on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 14:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The dress looks great for you.&#060;br /&#062;
Behave from now on  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Deborah on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 11:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mo I love wrap dresses!  This one is stunning and I love the colour.  This should look amazing on you.  I'm with the others, using your papal balance doesn't count.
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				<title>Aunty on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 08:14:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aunty</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is soooo you, got to have it  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rae on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 03:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't think using Paypal balance breaks SYC - it's like a delayed exchange. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also, I love the color - can't wait to see it on you!
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				<title>lyn* on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 03:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oooh, I adore wrap dresses (but lack boobage for wrap dresses) thus I am very jealous! Enjoy  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>taylor on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 02:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>taylor</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Celebrate!!  You deserve this:)
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				<title>Mo on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 02:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks ladies, I'm hoping it's all I'm dreaming it will be!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>   Khris, yes, technically I did not count this paypal balance in my SYC so it isn't cheating - but it feels like cheating!  But I have had a cold weather dress (specifically either purple or deep red, wrap and or sweater knit) on my list for many months.  Ideally I was thinking a luxe cashmere wrap but that was before recent budget constraints.  Besides, I think I would be too nervous to snag or pill a several hundred dollar cashmere dress and not wear it half as much as I envision this modal blend will see.  So, I feel good about it.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>christy on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 01:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>christy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can TOTALLY see you in this dress! I think it's going to look great on you and how can you SYC if you don't have that particular item in said closet? *grin*
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 01:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>chewyspaghetti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The paypal balance doesn't count, anyway. Wasn't that leftover from returns?
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				<title>devon7 on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 01:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>devon7</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a beautiful dress!  I'm sure it will look beautiful on you.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;SYC is a process, I think.  I am sure I will cave as well, and I actually will give myself permission to cave on occasion, as long as I stay within my budget for the year (I have only a few hundred dollars left, but I'm sure I will get some birthday money or gift cards, etc.).  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think the bad thing is when we buy compulsively and not to fill any real wardrobe need.  I am thinking that I will try shopping from a list from now on, or at least for a while.  It works with grocery shopping, so why not with clothing shopping, too?  When I go &#034;just to shop,&#034; I invariably buy bright, shiny pieces that either don't work with my lifestyle or are too similar to something I already have.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Don't beat yourself up for &#034;caving&#034; on SYC.  As one of my favorite characters, Scarlett O'Hara, said, &#034;tomorrow is another day.&#034;  Plus, the PayPal balance WAS like &#034;found money.&#034;  I look forward to seeing photos of you in the dress.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Now back to our regularly scheduled SYC...
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				<title>Freckles on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 01:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Freckles</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Perfect choice!  The colour will be wonderful and that hemn is so you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hope this one fits like a glove.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It doesn't count as breaking your SYC as last fall you got rid of those other two that weren't quite right and this is just replacing them.
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				<title>Vildy on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 00:53:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vildy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This looks like a dancer to me - love it.
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				<title>ruthe on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 00:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ruthe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've always wanted a wrap dress. That looks great. I know it'll look just wonderful on you. Everything I've seen you wear is fantastic!
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				<title>Mamapicklejuice on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 00:02:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mamapicklejuice</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love it - boy, will you look smashing in that dress or what?!
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				<title>Marigold on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 23:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marigold</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the dress, the color is perfect for fall, it's going to look fab on you, I bet!
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				<title>Mo on "I caved - spent my paypal balance and broke SYC"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 23:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;But . . . it was an item on my list for fall that just showed up at a little too early  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   I got rid of 2 out 3 of my wrap dresses last fall and am happy to be adding another to the collection.  Now to wait the week for mail delivery!
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