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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-( https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing-- Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 26 Apr 2026 17:06:48 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php elpgal on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709310 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 13:57:11 +0000 elpgal 1709310@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Yes, Collette. Guilty of the same. It's only cotton blend yoga pants for the playground now. elpgal on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709309 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 13:55:58 +0000 elpgal 1709309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ugh! I feel your pain. I ruined a silk dress by sitting at the cement edge of a pool at a pool party. Who wears a silk dress to a kid's pool party, right?! Colette on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709293 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 13:16:32 +0000 Colette 1709293@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bummer! I ruined an expensive pair of yoga pants by sitting on a concrete sidewalk to play with my neighbor's dog. I guess yoga pants are for doing yoga, not sitting. But a dress is another matter. MrsK on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709283 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 12:58:12 +0000 MrsK 1709283@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry about your dress and your purse! Hopefully BR takes it back. I find that online SAs are often much more responsive and helpful than in-store, so hopefully that works out. As for the purse, definitely try to restore it. My beautiful cognac bag was in dire shape and I used this leather kit - it worked great! And it's inexpensive, so definitely worth a try to save a lovely bag. <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005H7DRQA/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1">https://www.amazon.com/gp/prod.....#038;psc=1</a> skylurker on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709246 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 11:43:58 +0000 skylurker 1709246@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bummer. I'd blame the patio furniture, not you. Runs With Scissors on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709126 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 03:26:41 +0000 Runs With Scissors 1709126@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I feel your pain -- and it should not be that easy to destroy dress fabric!  Hopefully BR comes though.  But I hope this doesn't make you think twice about wearing your "nice" things when you want to.   I struggle with that impulse myself, even though these days my closet runneth over and there is absolutely no reason to. Gaylene on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709107 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 03:07:06 +0000 Gaylene 1709107@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'd say the blame might be as much with the chair as with the dress. If you decide to contact BR, you might want to have pictures of the chair to prove the metal wicker didn't have jagged edges. I recently took the skin off an elbow sitting in a resin wicker chair. The surface was like rough sandpaper with sharp bits poking up! Furniture shouldn't hurt you or wreck your clothing. JAileen on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709089 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 02:38:02 +0000 JAileen 1709089@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Do you have one of those battery operated sweater shavers? I'd probably try it just to see what happens. After you talk to BR. crazyone on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709085 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 02:28:00 +0000 crazyone 1709085@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ thanks for the advice, everyone--I will probably try to contact BR online to start off with.  I don't think I can still write a review given that the dress is now out of stock.  Fortunately I didn't pay $150 but I still paid too much given how long it lasted :-/ Rachy: speaking of eyelet, I was wearing an eyelet dress last week and walking through Whole foods, and got the sleeve of the dress stuck on one of those metal wire frames on which they hang dried mushroom pouches, etc.  I actually got stuck myself and had to extract myself.  The dress actually tore a little but I don't blame construction for this--after all, it got stuck on a sharp stick of metal.  And it actually could be mended pretty easily and no one would be the wiser.  But the BR dress is beyond repair.    Glad to hear that I'm not the only one with stories like this! Suz on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709074 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 02:05:29 +0000 Suz 1709074@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So frustrating. It shouldn't happen after only one wear -- even on patio furniture. I agree with LaPed that it's good to leave a review, and maybe write to BR, too.  JAileen on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709058 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 01:43:13 +0000 JAileen 1709058@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I wreck stuff left and right. I'm sorry about your dress. I think you shoukd go to BR and return it. If they give you a hard time explain in a calm voice how you only wore it two times etc. if they explain that's not their policy, ask for the manager and explain again and again how their product should have lasted more than two wears. Good luck! UmmLila (Lisa) on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1709045 Sat, 06 Aug 2016 01:36:28 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1709045@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ That's why I don't do straw bags in summer. All the little poky bits trash whatever they touch. rachylou on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708754 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 19:53:46 +0000 rachylou 1708754@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Whoa! Evil chair. I had some kitchen cabinet handles that liked to attack like that. Slaughtered one of my best summer dresses ever - a white eyelet. Jazzy Dance on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708738 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 19:32:07 +0000 Jazzy Dance 1708738@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh man. That us a bummer. I don't like feeling like I have to babysit my clothes, but I also have been bummed to find items I love damaged by everyday wear. I accidentally trashed a bathing suit one year by sitting on the edge of an indoor pool. I think in that case and probably yours, the issue is that clothing isn't made to be appropriately durable. Mochi on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708646 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 17:00:56 +0000 Mochi 1708646@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sorry to hear it, but we've all (or maybe it's just me) mistreated our poor new items. Don't mull over it too much. Sounds like the quality was not that great to start with.  Jules on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708628 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:46:17 +0000 Jules 1708628@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I wonder if some type of leather conditioner might help with your purse? I feel your pain - I'm much more "RATE" (rough around the edges) than "polished" by nature, and adding white to my wardrobe AT ALL was a leap of faith. Bleach certainly helps but based on experience I would never choose white outerwear or anything that I don't want to wash with every wear. I did get a white FOSSIL purse that I love - and the first time I wore it I got pen ink on it. I'm just messy like that! I caught it quickly and did manage to get it off (I think I was on a plane and used some hand lotion in the process?). It may also have helped that I used a leather protector on the bag before wearing, because I had it around due to Danier making me buy it! Speaking of which, there's a few marks on my blush moto as well, that won't come off despite the leather protector. Sigh. Anonymous on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708618 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:34:58 +0000 Anonymous 1708618@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am so sorry to hear this.  It must be incredibly frustrating.  I don't believe it is you though.  I feel that overall quality has dropped significantly.  I would suggest going back to the store with your explanation.   catgirl on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708608 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:29:58 +0000 catgirl 1708608@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have the shorts of that same fabric and haven't worn them yet. I feel sad for you! I am the same way and am especially hard on shoes. It's not you - life happens. Janet on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708605 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:27:48 +0000 Janet 1708605@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh no! I understand. I trashed my new-ish Brooks sneakers -- not workout shoes but casual wear sneaks -- on my PNW trip by wearing them when I needed a break from my hiking boots. Bad mistake. Salt water + suede and nylon color blocked sneakers is not a good combination. However, I looked up a cleaning technique when I got home and have managed to salvage them! They don't look like new, but good enough to save them and continue wearing. However, I agree that a dress in that price range from BR should not do this so easily. That just seems too delicate. LaPed on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708603 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:26:19 +0000 LaPed 1708603@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Totally not your fault! Planned obsolescence and the cheapening of garment manufacturing. I don't know what kind of warranty -- if any -- BR offers, but I'd take it back to the store and at least show them and see what they say, and probably write a review on the website too. Good feedback for their buyers and designers.  Peri on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708594 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:18:01 +0000 Peri 1708594@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm always afraid to wear something new or favorite out to dinner for fear I may spill something on it. And yet, out to dinner is exactly where I would want to wear something new or favorite. I feel your pain!  Traci on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708590 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 16:15:45 +0000 Traci 1708590@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm very hard on my clothes and I try to take that into consideration when I decide what to invest in. Oil spots on knitwear are my specialty. Thirkellgirl on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708561 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 15:23:28 +0000 Thirkellgirl 1708561@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Runcarla, since you think it's impossible anyhow, I suggest you try what I use for spot-treating my white duck slipcovers. Just a drop or two of Woolite Oxy Rug Cleaner usually does the trick for me, even when Oxyclean solution or anything else doesn't. Jenn on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708558 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 15:20:38 +0000 Jenn 1708558@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/  A $150 dress from BR should NOT do this, no matter where you sit. It's really frustrating, but it's definitely not your fault. Isabel on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708550 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 15:13:03 +0000 Isabel 1708550@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ NO, it is a common theme with quality today !!!  I keep reading about this over and over.  I was so disappointed last year when I bought some cashmere sweaters for my winter capsule and they looked horrible by the end of the season.  And I took really good care of them.  You have to live your life in them and if they cannot keep up, then it is the quality, no you.  AviaMariah on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708536 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 14:41:43 +0000 AviaMariah 1708536@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You should be able to sit on whatever chair you want.  Your clothes are supposed to work for you not the other way around.  Can you try to return it? Carla on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708524 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 14:31:03 +0000 Carla 1708524@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Having been able to get both wine and spaghetti sauce off my white crops gave me a sense of invincibility. However a drop of juice from a peach has done them in. I can still wear them with shirt dresses/long tunics, but not t-shirts or shorter tops. *cry* Roxanna on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708517 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 14:11:49 +0000 Roxanna 1708517@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, I HATE that. But, @C1, I maintain that this is not your fault but BR's. It's summer! You can't sit in a chair for fear of ruining your clothes?!? rubbish! I did the same thing this past week - wore my beloved taupe suede cage sandals, that I get comliments on everywhere I go - and the egde of the escalator came up and literally screaped the suede away from the shoe. I am so sad crazyone on "I cannot be counted on to maintain my clothing :-(" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/i-cannot-be-counted-on-to-maintain-my-clothing--#post-1708511 Fri, 05 Aug 2016 14:01:53 +0000 crazyone 1708511@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Today I noticed that the back of this new Banana Republic dress (worn twice, never washed) was pilling quite badly and warped from threads missing. This was a complete WTF for me, especially as it is a WOVEN dress, though polyester of course. Then I realized that the last time I wore it I went to a barbecue in the evening...and spent several hours sitting on patio furniture made of metal wicker. This is not even something I thought to consider...I'm mad at Banana Republic for making something so not durable, and at myself for not babying my clothes better. This seems to be common theme with me :-(. I ruined a handbag by carrying it during my Korea/Japan trip and constantly sweating on it because it was so hot and humid. It was new and now looks terrible.