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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?</title>
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				<title>Mander on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/how-to-wear-a-tie-without-looking-like-a-dork#post-546440</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;@ Girl X: I just looked through the outfits on your website, and I have to say, the cross-body necklace thing is way cool!  I would probably look pretty silly wearing a similar thing but I'm going to experiment with it for sure!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I just started thinking about ties as I came across one of my husband's in the donation box.  He never liked it, but I love the pattern, so I rescued it thinking that I could create some sort of craft with it.  And it just dawned on me that *I* could wear it myself!  Duh!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Isabel on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 22:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;from  alterationsneeded.com&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;and petiteearlymorning.com
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				<title>Girl X on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 21:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Girl X</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;JJSloane - A bowtie? Seriously? That's so awesome! Please please please wear your bowtie!
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				<title>Lisa on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/how-to-wear-a-tie-without-looking-like-a-dork#post-544308</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 19:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great question, I like this look but have been too shy to try it out yet myself.
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				<title>Anonymous on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 18:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't know that it's inspirational...but I have worn something similar to this outfit a few times.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would also totally steal your outfit Lyn*!
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				<title>krishnidoux on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/how-to-wear-a-tie-without-looking-like-a-dork#post-544099</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 15:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>krishnidoux</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ornella thank you for bringing back those links!
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				<title>Sveta on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 04:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the main thing is to &#034;own&#034; the look and be comfortable in it. I have not worn a real man tie yet (my hubby does not have them so I have no source  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  but I did wear scarves tied like ties inside the collar.
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				<title>catgirl on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 02:29:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here's my version, in which I do look a bit like a dorky boy, but I liked it anyway:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-buttoned-up-blue-blazer-boots-fryes&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....oots-fryes&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love the fact that the tie is a Liberty print, which makes it feminine even in this outfit.  Also, not being able to knot a tie properly takes away from the masculine element.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Jjsloane on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 00:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jjsloane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;As a bigger woman (on top especially) I don't feel comfortable yet with the look although I'm dying to try it. I wore one for years waitressing so that adds to my reluctance. I do have a great bowtie, but that is way to advanced for me. Great links are provided.
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				<title>nicoleb on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 00:51:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've worn a men's tie around my waist as a belt but i don't think i've wore one around my neck yet. Glad you got some links to check out!
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				<title>Anonymous on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 00:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fernanda was my inspiration, too, I thought it was a very feminine way to wear a man's tie.
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				<title>Eva on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 00:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eva</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fernanda's outfit (last link in Ornella's response) inspired me to wear a tie.  Although masculine inspired, it is still very feminine.  I just wore it last week and got lots of compliments.
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				<title>Girl X on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Girl X</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I find neck ties easier to wear than most other non necklace neck wear. If the whole tie is going to be visible I try to keep it on the narrow side. They're easiest to wear with a solid colour button up shirt (white is a no brainer), but putting them over prints can be fun too. It's a super cute look - you should totally try it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A couple of my past outfits with neckties: &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.gurgleslurp.com/?tag=neck-tie&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.gurgleslurp.com/?tag=neck-tie&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Victoria on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Victoria</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;thanks, Ornella! These are all great looks&#060;br /&#062;
Lyn: I love your WIW!
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				<title>Ornella on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ornella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Victoria, rule number one: do not think of yourself as one ;-)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Next, how about tying the square silk(y) scarf like a tie to start with, then you can move on to the real thing once you start feeling more comfortable.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Perhaps pick something low-contrast as well, to minimize how visible your new style experiment is, so you are less self-contentious.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Something to get you started:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2011/05/18/the-neck-tie-scarf/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2011/05/.....tie-scarf/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or this (very recent):&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2012/02/13/fashion-week-day-3/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2012/02/.....eek-day-3/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or *this* - Advanced user level :-)&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2011/03/07/fernanda-debuts-her-new-look-on-tv/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2011/03/.....ook-on-tv/&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>lyn* on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:15:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wore a tie out for wings with friends once ... &#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-wings-w-the-guys-and-inspired-by-jean-luc-picard-rofl&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....icard-rofl&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;:) There's my WIW.
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				<title>DonnaF on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;FWIW, except during Fashion Week, I think Angie tends to wear ties INSIDE her collar, a little down her neck.  Men's ties have been varying widths over the decades, and I would want to be sure that the width is in scale with your bone structure and not too overpowering.
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				<title>Meredith1953 on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 23:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meredith1953</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Victoria,&#060;br /&#062;
I'm sure you would look great in a tie!  The bloggers you were inspired by sound like a good source to emulate.  Ties can run the gamut of looking buttoned up or very casual so it depends on what you look you are going for.  I agree it is hard to find a lot of inspiring pictures.
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				<title>Victoria on "how to wear a tie without looking like a dork?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 22:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Victoria</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have seen several bloggers wearing ties and looking fabulous. I'm a little chicken to experiment on my own. anyone has pics for inspiration? I looked online and couldn't find many women wearing ties
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