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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: How to figure out gaps in wardrobe</title>
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				<title>Angie on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 21:23:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ahhh. I was worried about those orphaned skirts. We want to see them!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Let me know once you've read the wardrobe capsuling post.
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				<title>catgirl on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 05:52:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, Alaska could certainly use a visit from a professional stylist of your caliber!  :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So, I do not have tops to go with the skirts.  I will have to post pictures so you can see them.  Since I'm picky about tops, I tend to be more adventurous in skirts and then just pair them with a boring shirt.  I just sorted out another two bags of items to consign (time to admit that I am more than twice &#034;Forever 21&#034;...).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will go read that post now.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As far as the look I aspire to, there are really two.  One for work - professional and put-together but not BORING.  I'm really drawn to the j crew work line, though it's all too tall and small-busted for me.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For the rest of life, I'd say I'm urban eclectic.  I like certain vintage looks, creative combinations and edginess.  I like (though I don't often buy) anthropologie, sometimes modcloth, some of j crew's funky new styles.  I am most definitely not girly and tend to be drawn to rocker glam/boho looks.  Two fashion bloggers I follow are Audi of Fashion for Nerds and Kelly of the Glamourai - very different in style, but both great at mixing up elements in a creative way.  Add into that the practicality of living in a true winter climate, and you have my mess of a wardrobe.
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				<title>Angie on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 04:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm there! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;First question: Do you have tops to go with all your remaining funky skirts?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Second question: Have you read this post?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2009/06/25/wardrobe-capsules-for-your-lifestyle/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2009/06/.....lifestyle/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Third question: What type of look do you aspire to?
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				<title>Goldie on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 04:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Goldie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I started out this summer in the &#034;all holes&#034; category as well, and I think I did reasonably well by keeping a running list of what I wanted as I was wishing I had it putting together outfits -- for example, I kept being frustrated with my black sandals and wanting something neutral but more fun, so I put &#034;metallic sandals&#034; on my list, searched for them, and when I got a pair of copper sandals, they got great use.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The harder part for me was identifying whole categories of things that I didn't have (like dresses), since I wasn't as sure what I wanted.  In those cases, I just bought cheap pieces to try things out (silhouette, etc) to try out, and I now have a better sense of what I like and what looks good on me. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Overall, though, it was just being introspective about what I was wanting and what I was wearing, and what the commonalities were.  For example, I have always been drawn to red, red, red, so I just  kind of assumed that I would always want everything in red if it was available.  Looking at what I was being drawn to, though, I realized that I'm more interested in greens, blues, and purples right now.  If I hadn't taken the time to think about that, I probably would have just gone for what I went for in the past.   &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Now it's fall, and I'm going through the whole process all over again!  I feel your pain!
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				<title>Kyle on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 03:18:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would also start thinking about an expanded color palette. What colors are best for you? Pastels? Jewel tones?  A basic palette to complement the black and grey might be very helpful.
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				<title>Lisa on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 02:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Taylor, I bet a few photos and you will be off in the right direction.  I suspect you just need some tweaking of the wardrobe and fresh opinions.  Have no fear, we are all here to help you!
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				<title>taylor on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 02:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>taylor</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;great advice here,  so I have nothing further to add...I would love to see your posts.  I bet your wardrobe is better than you think:)
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				<title>MNsara on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 00:12:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MNsara</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm certainly no expert in wardrobe gaps (in fact, spontaneous purchases often create more gaps that now need to be filled. . . ), but I like what someone here said once about taking note that when you try to put together an outfit, you find yourself wishing you had a _______________ (fill in the blank).  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If you make a note of that wish, you might see the same item coming up.  Then you definitely have a gap.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Another different approach might be to pick an item you have and love but never wear.  What do you need to make it actually wearable - a longer red top or a cream silk blouse with lazy ruffles or a great fall scarf, etc.
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				<title>Carole  on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 20:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carole </dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definetly post some pictures, it helps so much to have a visual! Sounds like you have a great assortment of options. I am finding that a great scarf for the season and a great handbag in a great color give me and my old boring clothes a big bang for the buck. It can get you started anyway....
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				<title>catgirl on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Zapotee, right now I feel like everything in my closet is an orphan!  Sigh.
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				<title>Anonymous on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 19:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Alaska,&#060;br /&#062;
This post summarizes my situation so well. I'll be watching with interest.
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				<title>Marley on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 18:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am a visual person - I really have a hard time imagining outfits in my head , so I'm not going to be much help.  How about you either try the pot or the book suggestion with your camera - or, go get yourself a tripod (I got one at Best Buy that was on clearance) - and show me your outfits Alaska Girl!  I can't wait!
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				<title>Queen Mum on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 18:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;alaska girl... try a large pot turned over on your kitchen counter.  that should give you a good height for a picture.  books are also great stable &#034;risers&#034;&#060;br /&#062;
I figured the issue with the skirts and tops was patterns, but I'm assuming your pants aren't patterned, so you should have some outfits there.
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				<title>catgirl on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 18:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;QM, I tried this morning using a cereal box on my kitchen counter to prop the camera.  Not a great success.  I think I'm going to have to invest in a tripod and invent a backdrop.  The skirt/top issue is patterns... no easy-to-mix situations (although I do like pattern mixing if I can manage it).  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Pictures by this weekend!
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				<title>Sarah on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 18:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree! Posting photos does so much more for me than just posting for comments here on YLF. I am much better equipped to face my closet than I otherwise would be. I take photos of outfits and look at them objectively before I keep, toss, or buy more.
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				<title>Queen Mum on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 17:53:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;you say that your tops don't go with your skirts, but do they work with your pants?&#060;br /&#062;
I'm also betting that pulled together in the right way you have more outfits in your closet than you realize.  sounds like you need to start snapping some pictures to post  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 16:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>chewyspaghetti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It sounds like you need tops to pull your outfits together. I would go through your tops again and see if some of them can work with what you have already. It sounds like you have a good basic foundation.
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				<title>catgirl on "How to figure out gaps in wardrobe"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Sep 2010 16:32:38 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, being totally inspired by you ladies, I have been going through my closet item by item to purge repeats, unnecessary, worn-out or unused items.  Now I'm left with a random assortment of stuff that doesn't really make sense or bores me to death.  If left to my own devices I would wear some version of this uniform:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1) black or grey&#060;br /&#062;
2) trousers or skirt with&#060;br /&#062;
3) the same black dressy t-shirt and&#060;br /&#062;
4) cardi or blazer&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't even know where to begin making a list of what's needed to pull it together.  The only thing I knew I needed was more work shell/blouses and I've found three to fit that bill.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Specifically I know I have:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Lots of boring black work blazer/jackets in different styles;&#060;br /&#062;
Enough work trousers (could use a navy but have grey, black and tan);&#060;br /&#062;
Tons of funky skirts - these are the easiest thing for me to buy, as I can eyeball fit and know my style;&#060;br /&#062;
A mishmash of tops that don't necessarily go with my skirts, mostly bought because they fit and I'm picky about fit with tops;&#060;br /&#062;
A good collection of cardis, mostly black and grey.  Again, boooooring.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I also have a good boot and bag collection, and reasonable jewelry, though belting is a weak area.  My concern is really work clothes, since I'm either at work, at home in comfy clothes or outside in &#034;gear&#034;.  I feel there is a huge lack of coherence with color and outfit-making ability.  It's the typical &#034;my closet is (still) full but I have nothing to wear!&#034; dilemma.  I don't know where to go from here!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Maybe I need to fly Angie up from Seattle...
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