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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Hot mama - what should I wear?</title>
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				<title>Thistle on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 18:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It looks like you are decided on #6, but before reading all of the reviews, I was a #8 fan. Not sure if there is something I am missing, but I like it the best on you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Whatever you choose, I hope you have a fantastic evening!
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 18:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Adults only, and from what I hear everyone gets pretty drunk by the end of the evening.  I don't drink, so I expect I'll be designated driver (again).  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Really I just want to look attractive to the boy, I don't care what other people think.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 18:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 6 and then 5. You could dress them up with more jewelry and as Angie said, a contrasting bag. # 8 is way short.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would tend to forego the  more revealing and bra-type-type dresses for this function.&#060;br /&#062;
Part of it is, I don't do that well in those types for any event, so that's in part a style choice so big grains of salt are needed in terms of what you can wear well. But, do you    distinguish &#034;school fundraiser dressy event&#034; as calling for less or more hot mama vibe, compared to say an event with DH for a different charity or community event?&#060;br /&#062;
Is it a student-teacher-parent mixer,   or is it adult-only?  That would influence me, though I might be in the minority.
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				<title>Janet on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 17:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My faves are 5 and 6. You look amazing.
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 17:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I may be too late but I love the color of #1 on you but the fit and cut of #5 and #6 are so flattering on your body that they have to be contenders.
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				<title>Scarlet on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 16:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I guess I'm in the minority but I like 2 and 3.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 08:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ManidipaM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another, I think by now redundant, vote for #6 --- though I'd put #3 in second place, but #6 is more evening and #3 feels a bit more daytime to me.
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 00:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks like you're sorted with #6 and the Helmut Lang clutch - just wanted to say you look FANTASTIC!!!
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				<title>cciele on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 00:19:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cciele</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Heh, I can see why your boy prefers #8 then. You know, if you end up wearing that, I'd go without the skirt and wear boyshorts underneath. I saw the skirt, but it's almost the same length as the tunic and looks hidden. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like #6 because it shows off your awesome upper body shape!
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 00:17:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;For the record #8 has a skier under and is the boy's favorite.  He's a leg man.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ETA: SKIRT underneath it.  If I'm *lucky* I'll get a skier under.  OH NO I DIDN'T!
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				<title>cciele on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 23:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cciele</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, so many cool dresses! I'm going with the flow here -- love #6 because of how special it is. And you're right about 7. Fun sequins with #8, but it does need something longer underneath (leather leggings?) to make it appear that you haven't forgotten your pants  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Raisin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 23:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Raisin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think #6 wold be great for this event.  Have fun!
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				<title>Debbie on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 23:52:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love 6. You look amazing!
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				<title>K. Period. on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote 6 and apparently I'm not alone.  What I can't see is why there isn't more love for 5!  That looks fantastic on you.  How are you able to make EF look that fantastic? It looks so frumpy on me, but on you, wooooooow fantastic!  (The VF ref made me smile. Which will go down on your permanent record.)
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				<title>Tina.b on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tina.b</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like #6 especially because of your personal connection to the dress, very cool. And it's a fashion forward look (non-prom look, lol).I also think you look just fantastic in the VPL dresses, particularly #2. That would be such a bold, fun choice!
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				<title>Angie on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That will do it  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a furry clutch from Helmut Lang that's gray...
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				<title>Diana on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;another vote for #6.
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				<title>Angie on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's okay. Hubs is entitled to his opinion :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Go with #6 if you don't think it's too casual. Red lips and how about a non-black clutch?
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:16:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, the boy doesn't like #1.  He says its not me.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For #6, does red lipstick count?
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				<title>Angie on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like #1 best! So Moulin Rouge - and such a great juxtaposition with your persona, hair and specs. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like #6 too but find it very casual - and would love to see a non black something in the mix. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like the vibe of #8 but it's too short. I do like the fact that it's roomy and short though - as opposed to tight and short.
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				<title>Suz on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think #6 is in the lead so far. I like the idea of wearing a piece that your friend will recognize.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#6 by miles
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#6 for sure.
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				<title>Sara L. on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:07:30 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote #6 also.  I agree that #7 isn't the most flattering and #8 seems a little short and flashy for a school event.  I also like #3 the best of the little black dresses.
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				<title>transition on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 22:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>transition</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thought #6 just from the description. . . but even more after viewing the pics!
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				<title>milehighstyle (Linda) on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 21:57:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>milehighstyle (Linda)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote for #6 - wow!
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Hot mama - what should I wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 21:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;As in, yeah, it's supposed to be warm (70s) on Friday, and I have a fancyish event to attend.  It's my daughter's school's fundraiser, and from past event pictures, some people are wearing prom dresses and others are in business casual.  Since I never get a chance to dress up, I figured I'd trot out my fancy pants and try them on. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Note: These are the shoes I'd wear (Coclico), but I'd spring for more opaque hose.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1 - Miguelina purple with black lace silk frock.  Very girly for me, and also a color (!).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;2 - VPL #1.  If you followed my trauma with a previous VPL frock, I think this one actually fits!  However it is a very casual fabric.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;3 - VPL #2.  Second verse, same as the first, only with a drapey panel across the tummy.  You know, in case I eat something.  Also casualish fabric.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;4 - VPL #3. Third verse, only longer!  This is more of a maxi.  Casual fabric, times three.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;5 - Eileen Fisher ponte dress.  Your class multiputpose LBD.  This is pretty corporate but it could also swing bombshell with that V-neck, maybe?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;6 - Herf-Christiansen drop-front black tunic over slip.  H-C is designed by a friend (who is also attending) and it would be fun to wear her stuff so she can see I do really wear it.  The upside to this is that although it is long-sleeved, it is very light material.  The front cowl is trimmed with leather to give it enough weight to fall nicely, and the sleeve cuffs have an awesome detail.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;7 - IRO sequin top, Eileen Fisher black ponte skirt.  Man, this top is unflattering! PASS.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;8 - IRO sequin tunic, Eileen Fisher black ponte skirt underneath just in case I raise my arms much higher than this.  Oddly, although the tunic is one size bigger than the top in #7, I feel like it fits better!  Maybe it's the length. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm tipping between #6 and #8.  Anyone?
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