https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 19:33:58 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2077139 Wed, 13 Nov 2019 15:57:24 +0000 JAileen 2077139@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div>My holiday events are casual. &nbsp;Also, I get very cold. &nbsp;So I need to wear long pants with booties, long sleeves, and a top with a high neck. &nbsp;I wanted a velvet jacket, but it wouldn’t be practical for me.</div><div><br /></div>I ordered a few things to try out. &nbsp;I wouldn’t wear the jeans with the tops. &nbsp;I think that might be too much velvetyness. &nbsp;I hope the NYDJ top works. &nbsp;The price is a lot better than the EF tops! &nbsp;I hope one of the tops works. &nbsp;If everything works, I still wouldn’t keep everything. </p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/nydj-uptown-velvet-tunic-top/5446088/full">https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/n.....46088/full</a></p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/eileen-fisher-mandarin-collar-velvet-tunic-top-regular-petite/5396464/full">https://shop.nordstrom.com/s/e...../5396464/f</a></p> <div><br /></div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.macys.com/shop/product/eileen-fisher-mandarin-collar-shirt?ID=10173696&amp;CategoryID=255&amp;isDlp=true&amp;cm_kws_ls=velvet#fn=BRAND%3DEileen%20Fisher">https://www.macys.com/shop/pro.....egoryID=25</a><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.macys.com/shop/product/charter-club-velveteen-tummy-control-ankle-straight-jeans-created-for-macys?ID=9390578&amp;cm_mmc=OpsEmail-_-240_order_confirmation-_-9390578-_-MB&amp;m_sc=em&amp;m_sb=OpsEmail&amp;m_tp=1C&amp;m_cn=240_order_confirmation&amp;m_pi=MB&amp;m_l=9390578&amp;m_s=OES-EOD2401CMCOM111319&amp;cm_lm_mo64=amRyb3pkQHNiY2dsb2JhbC5uZXQ">https://www.macys.com/shop/pro.....ns-created</a>=<br /></div><div><br /></div></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076989 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 21:23:37 +0000 Marilyn 2076989@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div><b>Lisa</b>....I think that navy velvet trouser at BR looks promising.&nbsp; It's a rayon viscose which for velvet, I think, is softer with nicer drape than a cotton.&nbsp; I tried the the velvet Sloans and they were close but not quite right on me. They've changed the Sloans again so people are flipping out.&nbsp; Definitely better than the last ones, IMO. &nbsp; I wish the jean style came in more colours....I'd be all over that. &nbsp; <br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I only started shopping at Aritzia a year ago.&nbsp; I've found it to be somewhat petite friendly so I keep them on my radar.&nbsp; I just popped this navy satin shirt on my wish list to check out.&nbsp;&nbsp; It might be more cropped than you like but it might be nice over a high rise drapey navy pant.&nbsp; Or what about your black On The Fly pants?&nbsp; Check out the navy pant the model is wearing with the shirt.&nbsp; High rise, elastic back, drape.&nbsp; It could be a nice look.<br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076961 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 20:16:22 +0000 Anonymous 2076961@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I haven't seen that much velvet either yet, but love the idea of the rust or brocade and the slippers! I know you said no exuberant sleeves, but if they're shorter they don't get in the way. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076948 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:50:43 +0000 Suz 2076948@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have no advice that has not already been giving but thank you for getting me to think about my own holiday wear! I never start thinking about it in time and always regret that. I'm not hosting anything but I do have a couple of events to attend and I have grown out of several of my previous options (sparkly culottes, ahem.)&nbsp;</p> <p>I am likely to wear some of these items, maybe mixed with denim somehow...it just depends on the event.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076943 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:36:38 +0000 Anonymous 2076943@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Carla </b>- thanks mom &nbsp;But, boy have you got me figured out ! &nbsp; &nbsp;I hate the idea of buy and donate - and as I inch closer to retirement and an entirely different budget, I don't want to be buying just to entertain myself. &nbsp;I'm caught in that in-between stage of winding down the spending and winding down the trendy purchases &nbsp;as I age , and still liking new things . &nbsp;I haven't checked out Winners, but I will. And I sincerely doubt you will ever see me in a tulle skirt and fitted top - ever. &nbsp;But yes to sexy mules or slingbacks!!</p> <p><b>Marilyn</b>: &nbsp;I did a one-hour blow-through of the mall this morning and brought home a whack of things from BR and H&amp;M to try on. &nbsp;I take back what I said about BR's velvet - they have a standard skinny velvet jean AND a pull-on velvet trouser (diff kind of velvet &nbsp;- which looks a little sketchy, so we'll see how they look on) . I walked right past Aritizia - didn't bother going in. I'm kind of off them these days as nothing I've bought in past few years other than pants has really lived up to expectations . The macualey doesn't fit me properly - I've tried it on every season. But ....the satin intrigues me. I'll look on-line today to wee what else there is.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076940 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:31:39 +0000 JAileen 2076940@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This thread made me look up velvet. &nbsp;I’d like a dark blue velvet jacket. &nbsp;I don’t need any dressy things at all. &nbsp;Our holiday get togethers are very casual. &nbsp;&nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>I especially like this jacket, but it only comes in black and dark red.<div><br /></div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-velvet-blazer?ID=10332778&amp;CategoryID=120&amp;swatchColor=Black"><a href="https://www.macys.com/shop/product/lauren-ralph-lauren-velvet-blazer?ID=10332778&#038;CategoryID=120&#038;amp" rel="nofollow">https://www.macys.com/shop/pro.....0&#038;amp</a>;</a><br /></div></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076937 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:27:34 +0000 Anonymous 2076937@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Angie</b> - yes, a tonal outfit is so quietly sophisticated. I can absolutely see you in these. &nbsp;I'll take a closer look at the Boden pants .<b> unfrumped </b>- yup, that's me. Tonal could easily be done with all black, but that's not what I want. &nbsp;I'm a bit colour shy, but I would like to try an all-one-colour look. So chic.</p> <p><b>Susie</b> - I like what you've shown here. Hope they work out for you.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076921 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 18:55:55 +0000 Angie 2076921@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>J.Crew bottoms = YES to suiting a straighter bottom half.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Lisa P</b>, to my eye, when an item is made of gorgeous fabric, the fit is perfect, and the colour fairly unique - <i>simple silhouettes look exceptional.</i>&nbsp;Personally, it's my preferred way to dress. I'd rather make a statement with the colour/colour combination and fabric, than the silhouette itself. That's my classic side talking - although it is a playful and not too serious classic side!&nbsp;</p> <p>The Boden velvet pants are the BOMB. I have two pairs - mustard and bright red. GORGEOUS quality. I had to have them altered a size down to fit, but always worth it. I wear my velvet pants like casual corduroy pants too. Why not :)</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076893 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 17:40:03 +0000 Roxanna 2076893@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>One comment on J Crew - Lisa, I have noticed the higher prices + $12 shipping,<br /> And last year they removed free returns. And now there is only one store in Toronto, so returning in store is a pain too. Their quality is really hit and miss these days and with the bad return policy, I have taken them off my list. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076891 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 17:35:17 +0000 unfrumped 2076891@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the idea of tonal colors in luxe or luxe- like fabrics- instead of jeans or black pants &amp; sparkly top formula.<br /> Easy to amp up with jewelry but integrate into your regular wardrobe if you use some oc youf new best colors.<br /> You might havd an item or 2 to build on. If you're like me, you might say I'll go with these pants if I find the right top, or this sweater if I find tonal bottoms! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076885 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 16:57:59 +0000 Christina F. 2076885@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love my J Crew (at times, for certain things), but they've made it harder to shop in Canada and probably aren't worth the inflated prices for that they offer. Boo. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/3#post-2076884 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 16:45:17 +0000 Susie 2076884@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have a company party plus a couple of other events along with at home entertaining this year. I’ve ordered 2 pairs of velvet pants- 1 pattern and 1 solid- and I think I am keeping both. I also ordered a simple black sweater with feathers and silver threads at the waist from Anthro and it works with both bottoms. I also have a couple of dressy sweaters (beaded cardigan, shimmery black 3/4 sleeve) that I’ve had for years and both will work with the pants. For a bit more casual, I will wear a fluffy white sweater with either satin trousers or leather pants. </p> <p>I’m on the hunt for dressy low heeled shoes or boots. </p> <p>Please let us know what you find over the next few days! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076871 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 16:11:36 +0000 Carla 2076871@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>@lisap - do you really want something you can wear for years, or something cheap and cheerful for a one-off? If it is for repeat wear (which you say you want) in the future, you should be prepared to pay more for it, and likely adhere to more classic styling that won’t date or get edited out of your closet in a fit of pique! (It seems to me that you haven’t got yourself sorted yet regarding your style and ‘who you want to be’ - yet. Will you be red haired and into colour in 3-5 years, or back to blonde hair and black clothes? or something completely different?)</p> <p> If it is cheap and cheerful, and different from your usual or what you’ve already got in your closet - get thee to Winners and pick up one of the fuller holiday skirts with solid stripes on sheer tule, a fitted bracelet sleeve top, and if you don’t have a pair of sexy mules or kitten heels in your closet - spend your money on those. Why not do the feminine ‘hostess with the mostest’ look? Be tongue in chic and have fun. Sure, it might not be the ‘real’ Lisa, but aren’t the holidays a time to be over the top?Then put your money, time, and effort into hair and make-up.</p> <p>But, before you have a melt down - or spend a ton of money, why not make at least one outfit from your closet as an emergency back-up (or for alternate home celebration.). Start with your fluid OTF bottoms and comfiest footwear - then audition your favourite dressier tops. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076867 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 16:00:16 +0000 Marilyn 2076867@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div>You said no layers but......I was just looking at the Aritzia holiday collection (most is too young for us) but these jackets caught my eye.&nbsp; These are Babaton Power Blazers (formerly&nbsp; the MacCauley).&nbsp;&nbsp; I think the caramel Satin Blazer would look amazing on you over a column of black or even navy.&nbsp; It's rayon so probably has a nice drape.&nbsp; The other is a black/silver metallic.&nbsp; So, a bit of glitz without going full on sequins.&nbsp; <br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I have one in the shorter length and I like how the sleeves are tacked up to 3/4 length so they stay put and out of the way.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you search the site for "velvet", Babaton and Wilfred did some nice velvet jackets and trousers in a gorgeous amber colour, green, purple and chartreuse.<br /></div></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076866 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 15:56:40 +0000 Kathie 2076866@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>Such a great thread! And now, I'm thinking we need to host an event, so that I have an excuse to buy some velvet trousers.</div><div><br /></div><div>As for J Crew, I've been finding them much more accommodating of a curvy bottom half than I remember, though still a straighter/narrower fit. And, I have not gotten less curvy as I've gotten older.<br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076865 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 15:52:19 +0000 Anonymous 2076865@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>L'Abeille &nbsp;- I agree with wearing something that's not practical for going out - because when else do we get the chance? &nbsp;I cannot even conceive of wearing a jumpsuit - I have PTSD from my last try-on a few years ago. I just don't have the body for one . I envy those that do :)</p> <p>I had a few things from JCrew in my cart last night - I admit I get all nostalgic for them around this time of year - but the prices are just that much too high for what the clothes really are. &nbsp;Our dollar is so weak right now, that everything is $200+ for what you can get at BR for $80. &nbsp;Still - I had the plaid pants, a pair of mules , a ring, and a top in the cart.......well see. &nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076862 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 15:46:58 +0000 Anonymous 2076862@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry - trying to reply and read and go back to the first page .....I'm all over the place here <b>&nbsp;Angie</b> - this is a great formula, and I'm astounded that something so simple can be just the right thing. &nbsp; I wonder if I dare order those Boden pants - although timing might not work. &nbsp;I have a few hours today and on Friday to do some looking around and will see what I can find in-store. &nbsp;</p> <p>And now I want to know what you'll be wearing to events outside your home !&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076852 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 14:46:30 +0000 Christina F. 2076852@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For what it's worth, on the J Crew pants, I sized up. I find some of their jeans TTS but not their lined pants like these. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076849 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 14:41:20 +0000 L'Abeille 2076849@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Here's a list of ideas, not necessarily hostess friendly though.</p> <p><a href="https://www.glamour.com/gallery/what-wear-to-an-office-holiday-party-10-holiday-party-outfit-ideas" rel="nofollow">https://www.glamour.com/galler.....tfit-ideas</a></p> <p>When I'm hostessing I tend to choose something like a maxi skirt or flared pants, worn with dressy flats. The kind of thing I could NEVER wear out in winter because of boots and slush.</p> <p>I still think you should try a jumpsuit though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076843 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 14:31:55 +0000 Anonymous 2076843@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>MIWC - those are very cool pants - interesting !</p> <p>Ooh - Lisa ! I'll ignore the $2000 vest, but thanks &nbsp;But - I love the outfit &nbsp;you so thoughtfully put together - that jacket is gorgeous ! &nbsp;And yes, a blouse like this would be perfect. &nbsp;This will be a look to keep in mind to replicate .</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076837 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 14:18:46 +0000 Helena 2076837@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Lisa, I think I'm just echoing others' thoughts here, but I'd do a more festive pant (I think those ones Nemosmom posted would be amazing) so that I could stick to a simple and more fitted top (probably black or leastways dark, in case of spills or splashes), which is more practical for all the running around hostess duties you'll be busy with! Statement earrings too, as these don't get in the way and add interest to a simple top and show up in photos! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076835 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 14:13:26 +0000 Kyle 2076835@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, J Crew is GENERALLY geared toward a straighter body type, in my experience, Lisa. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076820 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 13:14:46 +0000 MidwestrnChic 2076820@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>I could see these pants from Anthropologie looking fab on you, Lisa. They look comfy too!&nbsp; I can't do finds, but here is the link:</div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/soho-shimmer-knit-wide-leg-pants?color=027&amp;quantity=1&amp;recommendation=dyrectray-SimilarProduct&amp;type=STANDARD">https://www.anthropologie.com/.....1&#038;rec</a><br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076817 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 13:05:30 +0000 lyn67 2076817@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great topic,&nbsp; I'll host, too-!!! and didn't have time&nbsp; yet to think about.... But I did host last year&nbsp; in some black&nbsp; velvet leggings,&nbsp; a black 3/4 sleeved(essential feature!) Zara rubberised golden and white chain print&nbsp; (on front only) long to the knee tunic dress (it is a knit with strtucture given on the front by the rubberized print and&nbsp; a&nbsp; straight cut-so forgiving on waist:-)) worn with a black buckled front&nbsp; suede flat balerina and felt good in it. Will have to think about again, thanx&nbsp; reminding me and for the other's&nbsp; ideas. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076814 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 12:56:23 +0000 Aquamarine 2076814@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Please show us the final outfit, whatever you end up wearing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076810 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 12:45:19 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2076810@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>And look, I found another vest. Probably made of gold leaf, at this price! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076807 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 12:39:52 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2076807@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I was going to wear a velvet skirt and silk top in tonal pinks, that I ordered from Vince. The fabrics were gorgeous, but the whole thing looked so schlumpy on that it had to go back.</p> <p>I think I'm going to go with velvet blazer and leather pants this year.&nbsp;</p> <p>Attached is an idea of what I like for you. Notice that the samantha brocade jacket has a shorter sleeve length. And the top --- if it fit under said jacket -- is ventilated in the sleeves. Fancy mules would show nicely under front slit pants. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076802 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 11:56:01 +0000 kkards 2076802@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>not dressing up at all this year, but i've been thinking about leather pants and a&nbsp;charmeuse blouse or a simple cashmere sweater with a deep v and same colored lace cami.....<br />as an aside anthro seems to have alot of velvet on line not sure about in store, also real and faux leather pants (not just leggings) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076793 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 11:23:26 +0000 Anonymous 2076793@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well, I <i><u>certainly</u></i> will be wearing black and be proud of it. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-hosting---what-to-wear/page/2#post-2076767 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 02:43:43 +0000 Angie 2076767@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I host a lot, and like you <b>Lisa P,</b> do all the cooking, decorating, serving and cleaning! I run around and need to be VERY comfy. Nothing tight. No fussy sleeves, no layers, no high heels, and nothing skimpy. Must feel warm too. </p> <p>So for <i><u>AT HOME 2019 holiday hosting </u></i>this year - no jeans and no black. I'll wear velvet bottoms - pants and skirt  - with an assortment of matched dressier pullover and footwear complements. (I have a soft pink, red and cream complement of top + shoes). Pile on the pearls, add nude hosiery, and that's it. Fits are tailored and gently fluid, which makes things look more polished. No slouch. </p> <p>Here are the exact items, which I can mix and match as my mood desires. Velvet pants are not skinny on me. More straight cigarette. The items don't look great like this, but once they are in an outfit and finished, they look pulled together, and are just how I want to look for at home hosting. Relaxed, playful, festive, shiny, polished, grown-up, dressy, and free to move!</p> <p>Going OUT and not hosting at home during the holidays is different attire.  </p>