https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 30 Apr 2026 11:37:45 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2081135 Sun, 01 Dec 2019 00:14:31 +0000 lyn67 2081135@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Now, we want to see the actual outfit, I obsess over party host and holiday&nbsp; wear a lot, too!:-((( </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080975 Sat, 30 Nov 2019 08:32:56 +0000 anne 2080975@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All my best wishes Lisa. I know you'll look great. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080972 Sat, 30 Nov 2019 07:47:53 +0000 Barbara Diane 2080972@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope you’ve had time to breathe-if not stop and take a few. And again a few minutes before people arrive. </p> <p>It’s soooo hard when we get an idea of what we want but can’t find it. I, too, think you will look great.</p> <p>I might put a note on my 2020 calendar X days before the party to not freak out about the outfit, come up with an outfit that will work from your closet, and then if you have enough time maybe shop, if appropriate. And a note that your husband doesn’t tend to be supportive around this but that’s him. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080843 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 16:40:41 +0000 Susie 2080843@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lisa, it sounds like you have a great solution; you will look fab. I’m sorry your husband put a damper on your planning. I bet your party will be a smashing success...enjoy! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080839 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 16:37:31 +0000 Angie 2080839@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the outfit too! Sounds like YOU, and I'm sure it will ALL go down well. Good luck!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080830 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 15:47:16 +0000 Anonymous 2080830@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lint? &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080828 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 15:42:14 +0000 Helena 2080828@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lisa that sounds PERFECT ... Make sure to share a pic if you have time. I know those quarrels ... Predictable yet unavoidable ... I have with DH every time we need to do something to maintain the house ... He seems to find it very annoying that I do frivolous things like book furnace maintenance, or replace broken window latches. Such a spendthrift am I *facepalm* ... Enjoy a glass or three and have fun!!! And velvet pants attract lint *fist bump* </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080826 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 15:30:02 +0000 Janet 2080826@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your outfit solution sounds perfect. I’m sorry your husband has been less than supportive — that makes everything harder, I know! I’m certain the party will be a big success and you will look totally fab! Most of all, have fun! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/3#post-2080819 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 14:46:17 +0000 Elizabeth P 2080819@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds perfect! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080816 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 14:29:05 +0000 Kyle 2080816@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The outfit you’ve decided on sounds very authentic for you and casually elegant. Just right for a fab hostess of a great party. Hope you enjoy every minute. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080809 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 13:50:15 +0000 Anonymous 2080809@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the idea of&nbsp;sparkly sling backs, jeans, and a tuxedo jacket with a simple silk top much better than what you were proposing. &nbsp;In my mind, this ensemble is quite refined and elegant.&nbsp;</p> <p>As a side note, I yearn for the a pair of velvet pants. &nbsp;But they have to be the right velvet pants. &nbsp;I wasn't hearing in this thread that you found the "right" velvet pants yet. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080799 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 12:18:32 +0000 Style Fan 2080799@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your outfit sounds fantastic.&nbsp; I hope your party goes well!&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080777 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 07:52:24 +0000 bella 2080777@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry to hear that the thanksgiving outfit created so much trouble for you. Your final outfit sounds great, I'd love to see a picture. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080760 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 06:45:46 +0000 rachylou 2080760@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sounds a fantastic outfit to me really. But oh man, that was some classic husband right there. I admire your fortitude. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080751 Fri, 29 Nov 2019 05:21:12 +0000 Anonymous 2080751@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It’s all for the best , and I certainly don’t need new clothes . Frantically trying to find the perfect thing never ends well . I also realize that we have this issue/fight/ unpleasantness every single year at this time - and that I should know better than to expect a different response . I’ll be wearing sparkly sling backs , jeans , and a tuxedo jacket with a simple silk top . The embellishment is in my nails, makeup and jewellery . The entire BR bag will be returned tomorrow , and I’ve saved myself a ton of money . Who needs velvet pants anyways ? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080653 Thu, 28 Nov 2019 17:13:07 +0000 Elizabeth P 2080653@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hey, hope you're feeling a bit better now that a day has passed.&nbsp; You WILL look fab, and you WILL have fun.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080652 Thu, 28 Nov 2019 17:02:53 +0000 nemosmom 2080652@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What TG and suntiger said!&nbsp; Love that quote, Marilyn!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080479 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 19:53:38 +0000 Anonymous 2080479@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry Lisa, husbands can be real fun spoilers But I'm sure you'll find something fab in your closet, and your friends will be happy to see you no matter what! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080467 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 18:50:51 +0000 Helena 2080467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's a great quote Marilyn! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080463 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 18:49:34 +0000 Anonymous 2080463@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks , friends. &nbsp; Oh well - off to the store to buy food for the party no one now wants to host. &nbsp;Ugh. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080460 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 18:32:06 +0000 Marilyn 2080460@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>I'm certain you'll look amazing in whatever you pull out of your closet.&nbsp; Just do your thing, have fun, and try to tune out any drama (I know....easier said than done).</div><div><br /></div><div>I have a husband who is less than supportive and occasionally harsh as well.&nbsp; I keep a favourite quote that I revisit now again when I need to remind myself.....<br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080445 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 17:54:37 +0000 Christina F. 2080445@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Aww, you’ll look great anyway! I can see maybe not being thrilled about clothing purchases but we have to to confront our hair everyday! It’s because of the “pink tax” that the salon costs so much for women, unfortunately. When guys spend $20 on their haircuts at most...<br /> Blah. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080442 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 17:47:45 +0000 Carla 2080442@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes! Food and decor pics in off topic! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080436 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 17:41:07 +0000 Angie 2080436@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well, <b>Lisa P.</b> You have a fab wardrobe and will find something KILLER festive to wear and look amazing! I have no doubt!&nbsp;</p> <p>It sucks when significant others are unsupportive. That does not help. But onward! You love decorating and entertaining, so put your energy into that. I for one want to know what's on the menu.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080435 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 17:32:54 +0000 Anonymous 2080435@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another that commiserates about how stressful the Holidays can be. &nbsp;Hosting a party is especially stressful in my opinion. &nbsp;Hoping all goes as planned and you have a wonderful time. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080426 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 16:53:08 +0000 Helena 2080426@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah. Why must the holidays be so stressful??? And why must husbands be so husbandy at times? Your creative spirit and love of fashion is a great gift. You WILL look fab, of that there's no doubt ... Here's hoping your party is a great success and you get to enjoy!! Xx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080419 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 16:21:02 +0000 Anonymous 2080419@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Everyone has been super helpful, insightful, and full of wisdom in helping me through my freak-out.</p> <p>I absolutely realized, and still do, that the party is meant to be for my guests, and my job is to make sure they are comfortable and have fun. NOT to obsess over what I am wearing to the point where I am falling behind on other prep. &nbsp;</p> <p>I have to be honest , too, in saying that my husband made a rather harsh statement yesterday about how he doesn't want to see anything new being bought. &nbsp;Also very unsupportive of my hair right now and is not making me feel any better about spending time and money at the salon. &nbsp; Kind of took the wind right out of my sails, because he knows picking an outfit is fun for me,&nbsp;but perhaps he's justified. &nbsp;Spending money on clothes is not part of the big picture for him - and shouldn't be for me. &nbsp;</p> <p>Moving along, whatever I wear will come right out of what I already own.&nbsp;</p> <p>Now to focus on getting the condo decorated and tidied, and the food prepped. &nbsp;Thanks again , my friends , for your input here - much appreciated.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080263 Wed, 27 Nov 2019 00:03:25 +0000 pil 2080263@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Not that this helps any, but I’m sure you’ll look polished and party ready no matter what you decide </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080243 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 21:57:20 +0000 karen13 2080243@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lisa - lots of great ideas here, I hope you found something you love. &nbsp;I look forward to seeing your outfit because I know you will be FAB. Good luck!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/holiday-cocktail-party-annual-outfit-freakout/page/2#post-2080211 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 19:07:54 +0000 Anonymous 2080211@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you, <b>Christina F</b>. &nbsp;The distinction on this thread was very confusing to me. &nbsp; </p>