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				<title>Beth Ann on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 14:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah!  The bassoon!  Only for musicians with natural gifting, that instrument!  In my University, bassoonists are the most highly recruited.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm glad to hear you're working on her &#034;concert black&#034; capsules.  So many high-level instrumentalist -- including, say the Chicago Symphony Orchestra -- look positively shabby.  I think they just get bored with it and think nobody notices the wrinkled collars and too-short pant lengths with faded socks.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If only they'd let the singers show them how it's done!  It's different when you have to look the audience in the face! lol
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				<title>Adelfa on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 05:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Adelfa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, Tayleigh, Sveta, Claire, Desmo, Anna, Suz, unfrumped, and Sammi--I am thrilled with all of these suggestions! This is so kind of you to take time to help us!  And you have totally nailed her style, too.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And--she plays the bassoon!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 04:26:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I had fun looking at everyone's picks!  Here's a few more fun options:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.glassworks-studios.com/item/equipment/Heart-Print-Sheer-Silk-Shirt/eqp10020/?src=isUK&#038;#038;Hy3bqNL2jtQ-Ld.UWusRfffaTMJetqkE_g&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.glassworks-studios......TMJetqkE_g&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=64478&#038;#038;vid=1&#038;#038;pid=443273002&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://piperlime.gap.com/brows.....=443273002&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=64478&#038;#038;vid=1&#038;#038;pid=425855002&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://piperlime.gap.com/brows.....=425855002&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=64478&#038;#038;vid=1&#038;#038;pid=526701002&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://piperlime.gap.com/brows.....=526701002&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://piperlime.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=64474&#038;#038;pid=551074002&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://piperlime.gap.com/brows.....=551074002&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.jcrew.com/womens_category/shirtsandtops/blouses/PRDOVR~37871/37871.jsp&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.jcrew.com/womens_ca...../37871.jsp&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't have links, but Talbots had a black lace top- a bit boxy. I have also found various cardigans and a few knit tops with a &#034;silk&#034; ruffle at the neckline. Black velvet ballet neck tops here and there.
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				<title>Suz on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:29:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How about this one: &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zara.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product/12201/en/zara-nam-S2013/358004/1050520/BLOUSE%20WITH%20TEARDROP%20OPENING%20AT%20THE%20BACK&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zara.com/webapp/wcs.....THE%20BACK&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;or this: &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zara.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product/12201/en/zara-nam-S2013/358004/1133516/STUDIO%20SILK%20LOOSE%20BLOUSE&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zara.com/webapp/wcs.....E%20BLOUSE&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;or this: &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/product/AT-Petites/AT-Petite-Blouses-Tops/Petite-Split-Neck-Silk-Top/303251?colorExplode=false&#038;#038;skuId=13195380&#038;#038;catid=cata000026&#038;#038;productPageType=fullPriceProducts&#038;#038;defaultColor=1212&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/p.....Color=1212&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>annagybe on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/parker-marilyn-silk-top/3443165?origin=category&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;#038;fashionColor=BLACK&#038;#038;resultback=0&#038;#038;pprd=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/pa.....038;pprd=0&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/joie-devin-silk-top/3440641?origin=category&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;#038;fashionColor=CAVIAR&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/jo.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Desmo April on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:28:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Desmo April</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have you already checked out Concert Black?&#060;br /&#062;
 &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.concertblack.com&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.concertblack.com&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 03:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was thinking she must play the cello too, Tayleigh! Can she wear lace? The ones Sveta linked too might read as two-toned on someone with light skin.
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				<title>Sveta on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 02:42:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How about a black lace top? Lace makes it dressy and there are ones with high neck and longer sleeves like these ones:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/topshop-lace-crop-top/3463051?origin=keywordsearch&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=2379676&#038;#038;fashionColor=&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/to.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
or&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ted-baker-london-lace-top/3414819?origin=keywordsearch&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=2379676&#038;#038;fashionColor=&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/te.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
or &#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/adrianna-papell-bishop-sleeve-lace-blouse/3409959?origin=keywordsearch&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=2379676&#038;#038;fashionColor=&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ad.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
or &#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/bailey-44-orientation-top/3345576?origin=keywordsearch&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=2379676&#038;#038;fashionColor=&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ba.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
or &#060;a href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/bobeau-lace-peplum-top/3411491?origin=keywordsearch&#038;#038;contextualcategoryid=2379676&#038;#038;fashionColor=BLACK&#038;#038;resultback=0&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/bo.....sultback=0&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>tayleigh on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 02:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>tayleigh</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, that's a problem I haven't had to deal with for a while! When I was in orchestra I used to wear sort of a ruffly black top in a silky fabric. I'm afraid I don't really have the resources for trawling the web for options but I hope someone else here will  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(P.S. wild guess - is she a cellist?)
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				<title>Adelfa on "Help us solve this fashion oxymoron!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 02:21:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Adelfa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My daughter is a professional musician who plays in an orchestra. She is looking for tops to wear with dressy pants to her concerts (her instrument doesn't work with skirts or dresses).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The top must be:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1. black&#060;br /&#062;
2. covered up, with sleeves to the elbow&#060;br /&#062;
3. dressy&#060;br /&#062;
4. NOT sparkly&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;We were laughing that a covered up dressy top for a woman is almost an oxymoron! Plus she has sizing issues as she is a 00P. Below are some pics she sent me with these comments:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1. sleeves too short&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;2. wrong color&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;3. what I DON'T want&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Any ideas would be welcome! Thanks for looking!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ETA link for first pic as it didn't reproduce well: &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/product/AT-Apparel/AT-Blouses-Tops/Georgette-Overlay-Short-Sleeve-Top/294377?colorExplode=false&#038;#038;skuId=12633203&#038;#038;catid=cata000010&#038;#038;productPageType=fullPriceProducts&#038;#038;defaultColor=6600&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.anntaylor.com/ann/p.....Color=6600&#060;/a&#062;
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