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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Help me find my style descriptor</title>
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				<title>Hil on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/help-me-find-my-style-descriptor#post-843040</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 10:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Hil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for all the thoughtful responses and possible style descriptors! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Beth Ann - you're right, this is a learning curve for me, especially since I have never given this much thought to what I wear before. And it is uncomfortable.
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				<title>K. Period. on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 23:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I see boho, but verging toward a bit of Art Nouveau feel and with some streamlined classic leanings.   It really seems like you are more boho for casual wear, but you want more draped streamlined classics with a bit of an arty touch for more dressed up looks.  A Nouveau-Boho Classic!
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 22:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;DH:  Love the items on your board!  I think that you're uncovering a new style direction, but finding the process rather uncomfortable.  It's something that can't be hurried, kind of like the birth of a baby (lol).  As I recall your WIW, I'd encourage you to focus on fit and proportion of the basics first --- these are the bones that give the structure for all the arty stuff that makes your look sing!  I'm learning these days that I do best when I dress to highlight strengths, rather than &#034;hide&#034; flaws.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What's most in your favorr is that you clearly know the looks that you love, and you have an eye for wonderful, arty items.  You also have a well balanced figure, rich, full hair and beautiful dramatic features.  These things help you carry off the dramatic clothing that you love -----&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Keep posting!  The more we see of you, the more helpful we can be.  Just in the last couple of weeks, for example, do I really have the sense of what Thistle wears best, and I'm starting to know her wardrobe.  That's when we can say --- &#034;What about wearing your green jacket with your dark wash denim flares?&#034;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And don't be afraid to make mistakes.  The more exceptional the taste and style, the more the risk of some &#034;outtakes.&#034;  Gotta have fun with it!
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				<title>cciele on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 21:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cciele</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My thought was &#034;Arty Eclectic&#034;. Eclectic covers a lot of ground, so the variety works :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For now, I'd stick with what's comfortable as your foundational pieces, but push your style by adding a bit of color here and there or a statement piece like a jacket or top.
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 21:36:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love arty casual - I see the boho influence but you don't want full on boho so the arty would cover that &#038;amp; allow for other things too. There is a very relaxed vibe to most of the outfits you've pinned &#038;amp; they do look coherent to me - but I'm an eclectic so:) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think some of those shorter hair cuts would look fabulous on you too. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I agree with Ceit about there being no right answer to the &#034;vision&#034; part of the wardrobe. As an eclectic this is the part I really struggle with - to make sure I don't have too many clothes with nothing to wear.
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				<title>Angie on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 19:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was going to say Boho and Arty straight off the bat. You don't seem Earthy to me. Sorry Suz :(&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I vote Boho Eclectic. Or Boho Queen. Or Arty Casual.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 18:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ManidipaM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thought Arty Eclectic first, then quickly saw the reverberation of Suz's 'Earthy Eclectic'... I do actually see quite a coherence within the variety on your board, for what it's worth.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Some other descriptors that occurred to me: architectural; unexpected; craftsmanship...
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				<title>Anonymous on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 16:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't think there is a right answer there! Some members thrive on changing their style to different extremes over the course of a week, and others like having a very curated refined wardrobe that encompasses a precise esthetic vision.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So, if you find you like to explore different looks, then the eclectic is what gets you there -- lots of material for the inspiration pot!
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				<title>Hil on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 15:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Hil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Earthy eclectic could be it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I know there is a lot of very different stuff on my pinterest board... Do you think it's important to have more coherency in style choices?
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				<title>Suz on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 14:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Earthy eclectic?
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				<title>Deborah on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 11:26:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hil, I'm not particularly good at this but will give it a go:). If rom your Pinterest &#034;all dresses up&#034; board, I see quite an Electic collection of styles.  There is elegance, edge, boho, arty with some trendy.  Perhaps Electic could be part of your descriptor?
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				<title>rute on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 11:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would say boho and artsy!
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				<title>Hil on "Help me find my style descriptor"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 10:51:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Hil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was really excited a few weeks ago to discover the forum on YLF and to start receiving feedback on the outfits I have managed to concoct from my current wardrobe. But my current wardrobe is really not where I want it to be and coming here to identify and hone my style and image is where I am trying to achieve. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Truth be told, at the moment I am feeling rather deflated about my wardrobe, my body and life in general. I need some direction. I am hoping that coining a style descriptor will help? So I am calling on you all for some assistance!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Here is who I want to be...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I want to appear put together and groomed, but not overly so. I want to look good without appearing that I spent hours on myself. I want to look a bit arty and boho, but I don't want to scare people by looking like an outright hippy. I want to be distinctive without standing out (is that even possible?). I am trying to love colours, but I feel most at comfortable in neutrals. I want to look like thirty-something year old ie my age, not too old, nor too juvenile. I want to be comfortable enough to do the whole &#034;mom-on-the-go&#034; thing. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Would it help if I posted my Pinterest boards for some ideas of what attracts me? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/all-dressed-up/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/all-dressed-up/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/hair/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/hair/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/bejeweled/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/bejeweled/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/nails/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/nails/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/tatu/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://pinterest.com/doulahil/tatu/&#060;/a&#062; (note I don't actually have any tattoos, I just lust after them) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Tell me what you see for me, and from my WIW pics, how far off am I? Thanks all! x
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