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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Help me dress up!</title>
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				<title>texstyle on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2016 20:23:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great suggestions so far!&#038;nbsp; Listening to your song I feel like you may want to do the photo shoot outdoors - lighting and the movement of nature (or the city) behind you can add that other dimension. I would suggest still choosing a simple top but maybe in a color depending on which background you choose. White can also be a powerful &#034;color&#034; on someone with your amazing skin and hair.
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				<title>Musicnstyle on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2016 19:26:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hey All!! This forum is so helpful! You guys are so honest, kind and just amazing!!! I cannot tell you how much your opinions mean to me and your kind words are so sweet! I am ping to what you guys said! I am very excited now! I cannot thank you enough!!! Xxxxxx
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				<title>BrieN on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 23:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look amazing. The minimal outfit suits you and really works for the photo. And you're holding a phenomenal accessory in your hand  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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&#060;p&#062;eta: I'm a big fan of your make up in this photo.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>cindysmith on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 22:46:38 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sometimes, I wish this forum had a way to invite or +1 or &#034;like&#034; comments when I'm not the original poster, because i would totally do all of that for elle's comment. It totally puts good words to the vague thoughts I have about how accessories can change an outfit completely
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				<title>Elle on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 22:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look beautiful. &#038;nbsp;I agree that texture (leather/suede/velvet) can really bump up your style. &#038;nbsp;Or you could try changing your accessories - adding a distinctive belt, &#038;nbsp;colorful heels, different boots, metallic cuff or something sparkly. &#038;nbsp; Sometimes, small changes are powerful.
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				<title>Musicnstyle on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 21:55:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow! What a wonderful response! I will start by saying THANK YOU for taking the time to write this and for clearly caring!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  THANK you for your very kind compliments! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You have made some excellent points that I haven't even thought of at all! I love them all!! Especially the color suggestion! I cannot tell you how much it means to me! I AM honestly clueless when it comes to fashion and an opinion like your means the world! I am taking everything that you have said on board. I will let you know what I go for before the shoot! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Many many thanks&#060;br /&#062;
Lina xxxx
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 21:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What sort of music do you play? My boyfriend is a musician, and he finds it helpful if his look sort of portrays his music. He has several different types of outfits for different bands he plays with.
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				<title>cindysmith on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 19:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;OMG you could wear a burlap sack and look fabulous (especially since you are a musician and musicians can get away with all sorts of stuff fashion-wise). you look stunning in just a black tank top and a pair of jeans.&#038;nbsp; Because you are a musician, you could probably get away with anything, so you could indulge your fantasies for a photo shoot if you wanted to.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If I knew what you liked to wear in everyday life, I could maybe suggest more specific ideas based on that; here are some general thoughts, at least.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;IMO, there's nothing wrong with the &#034;bland&#034; look--I don't think it's bland; maybe you could try adding different accessories? (Bland to me is an oatmeal colored dress that has no shape, with some plain brown shoes, hair pulled back in a severe bun or ponytail, and no accessories to add interest). A statement necklace would change the look of the &#034;bland&#034; outfit, or an armful of bangle bracelets. I'd say a hat could change the tone of the &#034;bland&#034; outfit, but that would hide that glorious hair.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For me, the key to &#034;dressing up&#034; is fit. Almost anything looks polished if it's been tailored to fit me like it might have been made for me. I don't see any fit issues in your website pic, so that's good.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Textures can add richness to an otherwise &#034;plain&#034; outfit. You could try a velvet, or a suede; leather, fur (or faux fur); or any number of other types of textures to add some interest and keep the eye moving to different parts of the photo.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For some specific pointers: even adding a bad ass leather jacket to the &#034;bland&#034; look would kick it up several notches. If you like black and want to stick with it, something in a black suede (or faux suede) would be an interesting top.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;With your complexion and hair, a saturated bright color would look amazing. Even the same style tank top in a bright color would look completely different from that black tank. Listening to the song, I would definitely suggest color. Nothing wrong with black; it's just that black is often seen as serious or moody, and the song is light and upbeat which to me calls for color. A strong, powerful color; a bold color. Of course, that's just my opinion, so there is that.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hopefully, some other ladies can give you some more specific pointers. Good luck with the photo shoot and your career!
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				<title>Musicnstyle on "Help me dress up!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2016 18:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi all! I need help! I am a female singer/songwriter, got a photo shoot and have no idea how to look! I was hoping some of you guys can help me. My site is &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.linaandthelions.com&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.linaandthelions.com&#060;/a&#062; there you will find a &#034;bland&#034; look that I used for my first photo shoot. I can't be creative with looks! Anything, hair, make up, clothes.... help me out!
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