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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: help me decide what to wear tomorrow night</title>
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				<title>Queen Mum on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;thanks everyone- that helps.  you're all right that the boots and belt will keep me from looking too dressed up.  I&#034;m really excited about wearing my patterned brown hose- haven't had a chance to wear those yet ;-)&#060;br /&#062;
and, I wasn't at all trying to thumb my nose at the other ladies- they are all lovely women who I will enjoy spending the evening with.  I just often feel like the overdressed one- and don't at all want it to be about gaining attention or flattery.  I just love dressing as nice as I can for special events ;-)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;thanks again for taking the time to help me out- you ladies are the best!  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;and no Bella, I'm not going to make hubby wear the jacket.  He said he will wear his dress shirt with a vest- I think he'll be smashing!
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				<title>greenglove on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 03:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>greenglove</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am in agreement- The first outfit fits the bill, not at all overdressed!!!I think it would work for the occasion. I do not mind being a bit overdressed art a  party. The casual boots make the outfit less formal but festive.
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				<title>AJ on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 03:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You chose my favorite outfit of the bunch!  Go for it!  Have a great time and don't fret about your outfit...you'll give those gals something to aspire to!
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				<title>bella on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 21:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the outfit that you picked! Hold your ground and tell hubby to wear his jacket!
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				<title>jd00 on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 21:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jd00</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the outfit in the picture and don't think it looks too dressy.  I had the same wanted-to-dress-up-everyone-dresses-down problem for a house Christmas party last night.  Ended up wearing a denim pencil skirt with a wine-colored top, black cardi, brown tights and brown slouch boots.  With a long gold necklace, it the outfit hit the right note.
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 20:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love it too- and you won't feel overdressed.
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				<title>medusa on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>medusa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Queenie, your outfit looks great! It's definitely not too dressy. The combination of the necklace, belt, and boots really makes the look. I say wear it with confidence.
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				<title>Jean Gray on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<dc:creator>Jean Gray</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;queenie, I second the other ladies!  I think what you chose is the ticket!  Those other ladies who dress down just haven't discovered a place like YLF yet!  You are an inspiration to them I'm sure.&#060;br /&#062;
BTW, I think your &#034;attempt&#034; at the edgy(can't remember now if that's the term you used?) outfit was just right! It definitely works!
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				<title>Jill on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 15:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree, I love any excuse to get a little dressed up! I also really like the first outfit. The oversized cardigan looks comfortable and makes your outfit a touch more causal, so no risk of looking overdressed.
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				<title>marianna on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The outfit you posted seems appropriate for the occasion! I bet you'll be the best dressed there.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Louise on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 15:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well done for wanting to dress up. Be confident that you look fab and hopefully everyone else will feel underdressed!.&#060;br /&#062;
I love the first outfit you posted especially the slouch boots. It's great as it is but i'm a bit of a colour girl, i'd add a bit of colour somewhere perhaps a necklace? x
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				<title>Queen Mum on "help me decide what to wear tomorrow night"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 15:29:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My husband and I are going to a Christmas dinner tomorrow night where there will be a little bit of everything from jeans and sweaters to slacks and &#034;Christmas sweaters&#034; to slacks and nice blouses....  Everyone seems to stop at dressy casual (if they even get that far).  Last year I went more 'semi formal/cocktail&#034; and felt overdressed and my husband has already informed me that he will not allow me to make him wear a jacket this year:-)  This dinner really frustrates me because I see any Christmas party as a chance to dress up but then feel silly being clearly overdressed.&#060;br /&#062;
I think part of the problem is that I am probably in the younger 15% of attenders to this event and the other ladies seem to think holiday party means holiday sweater.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So, if you'll all indulge me.  Please stand in front of my closet with me for my annual &#034;what on earth should I wear&#034; tantrum.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Here's a link back to my photostream with all my LBD challenge options.  Should I try one of these?  My only other options are jeans or my black skinnnies.  I don't want to wear jeans, but would not object to my skinnies as they are dressier looking.  Should I just not care what everyone else is wearing?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;this was what I was planning on wearing but am havinng second thoughts&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.flickr.com/photos/43061463@N08/4166698329/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.flickr.com/photos/4.....166698329/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Here is the photostream of everything&#060;br /&#062;
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&#060;p&#062;thanks so much ladies!
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