https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:28:46 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2102626 Fri, 28 Feb 2020 07:55:07 +0000 columbine(erin) 2102626@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m so sorry! How rough! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100846 Fri, 21 Feb 2020 13:16:38 +0000 Sisi 2100846@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry Cindy. Surely the guy has problems but how sad to ruin a friendship. Fortunately you have Mollie and your trusted friends! Hugs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100800 Fri, 21 Feb 2020 05:46:42 +0000 catherine 2100800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a jerk. You deserve much better, and you will have it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100726 Fri, 21 Feb 2020 00:02:13 +0000 cheryl 2100726@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sending hugs and positive vibes your way. I'm so sorry this happened to you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100466 Thu, 20 Feb 2020 07:41:43 +0000 Jane 2100466@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m really sorry to hear about all of this, I hope things settle down for you. Echoing others thoughts, that you are so kind and big hearted, it is horrid to hear what’s happened. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100308 Wed, 19 Feb 2020 19:48:59 +0000 Elizabeth P 2100308@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear this, Cindy.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2100130 Wed, 19 Feb 2020 05:06:46 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 2100130@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so sorry to read this, Cindy. You are such a beautiful and generous soul. It is seeing and believing the best in people that makes us vulnerable. You can't stop being vulnerable, in other words, because that would mean constant suspicion and often thinking the worst of people. (And I can't imagine that really works out well for anyone.) I hope you can get some really good advice and help with the identity theft issues; yes, everything else is just stuff, and replaceable, thank goodness. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2099999 Tue, 18 Feb 2020 17:55:46 +0000 Gail 2099999@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ugh, what a complete loser he is. Glad that you seem to be getting all the damage sorted out. Take care of yourself, so hard to trust people these days. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2099991 Tue, 18 Feb 2020 17:31:29 +0000 Diana 2099991@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, man, I'm sorry this happened to you. &nbsp;What a POS. &nbsp; In some ways, I think it's good that you found out sooner rather than later.</p> <p>Glad you are safe. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me/page/2#post-2099980 Tue, 18 Feb 2020 16:39:33 +0000 cindysmith 2099980@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm getting exactly what I need: solidarity and support from women. Women are my lifeline and my greatest strength. Together, we are getting me through this </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099961 Tue, 18 Feb 2020 15:05:51 +0000 April 2099961@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OMG Cindy -- when I opened this I was *so* hoping you were talking about your dry cleaner or your dentist rather than Doc.</p> <p>So unsettling.&nbsp; Please let us know what kind of support you could use from our forum members right now. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099898 Tue, 18 Feb 2020 06:33:27 +0000 Eliza 2099898@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry, Cindy. At times like this, friendship and self-care can make all the difference. Wishing you smoother times ahead. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099788 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 22:58:05 +0000 Style Fan 2099788@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry, Cindy.&nbsp; Hugs. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099655 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 15:17:00 +0000 Inge 2099655@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so sorry, Cindy:-(( And it's very kind of you to try to understand Doc's "situation". I'm glad you are feeling supported online and offline. Please do take care of yourself, and give yourself time to process everything. xxx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099642 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 14:25:27 +0000 Anonymous 2099642@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh no I'm so sorry Cindy Hugs! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099639 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 14:03:12 +0000 Ginger 2099639@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Dang it! I am so sorry, Cindy. Love and hugs. I'm glad you have support locally, and I'm glad you're posting here. We love you here. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099633 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 13:15:28 +0000 Bijou 2099633@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>He truly does not deserve you, I am glad he did not bring you down. So sad if he is battling his own demons, but stealing your credit cards and ID is such a violation.</p> <p>Much love to you, heartbreak is the worst. I'm so glad you have your dog with you as what you need right now is unconditional love and support. xxx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099628 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 12:57:52 +0000 RobinF 2099628@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh no! I'm so sorry that something that started out so hopeful ended to painfully. He doesn't deserve you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099599 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 02:54:43 +0000 Jaime 2099599@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You are very strong if you can think of his pain instead of the pain he has caused you. Warm hugs from me too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099508 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 17:29:15 +0000 nemosmom 2099508@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a horrible experience, Cindy!&nbsp; I am so sorry to hear he did this to you, after all you have done for him.&nbsp; I hope he is caught and you are able to find solid footing once again. Hugs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099484 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 15:59:00 +0000 Glory 2099484@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so sorry to read this. What a horrible thing to have happen to you. Sending hugs to you!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099481 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 15:23:48 +0000 elpgal 2099481@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry about this, must feel awful. You are a kind soul to give him the benefit of doubt. Wishing you much fortitude. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099458 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 13:14:16 +0000 cindysmith 2099458@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have a suspicion that Doc was not the earthling (non-addict/alcoholic) that I thought he was, and that drug use may have been involved. I can't be mad at him for that, just heartbroken that he's trapped in the same cycles I was trapped in at one time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099398 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 02:54:07 +0000 Anne 2099398@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ouch. So sorry to hear the romance ended so abruptly! What a dog. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099397 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 02:37:10 +0000 Bonnie 2099397@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm glad you are OK and that you alerted the police. So sorry this happened. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099381 Sun, 16 Feb 2020 00:52:13 +0000 Kate 2099381@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m so very sorry, Cindy. Wishing you strength and calm. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099372 Sat, 15 Feb 2020 23:55:07 +0000 MsMaven 2099372@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a creep! So sorry this happened after what seemed like a great start to your new life. You have done everything right as far as securing yourself and your belongings. I hope the police catch him--it's frightening that he stole weapons. Maybe he did it so that if you ever ran into him again you couldn't hurt him.&nbsp;</p> <p>Take care of yourself. We're your cheering section for you and your new life without him--them. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099368 Sat, 15 Feb 2020 23:26:57 +0000 Angie 2099368@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, <b>Cindy.</b> Tough, invasive and hurtful. I'm so sorry. Wishing you strength and courage. Much love. xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099367 Sat, 15 Feb 2020 22:45:46 +0000 Cardiff girl 2099367@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gosh this is a tough one Cindy and I am sorry to hear it &nbsp;but it sounds like you are dealing admirably well with a bad situation.Stay strong. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/he-ghosted-me#post-2099344 Sat, 15 Feb 2020 22:03:23 +0000 cindysmith 2099344@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Once again, it is women carrying me through my low point. The support... I'm so grateful I'm crying. Good yltears. This is what will carry me through this to the other side.</p> <p>And yes, I already locked my credit reports as much as I can, and I have credit monitoring in place (already getting the alerts from replacing all my cards as compromised/lost/stolen). Just got the RV door repaired so I can truly secure it. </p> <p>I love you all very much! </p>