https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5 Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 13:00:00 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1137613 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 16:29:31 +0000 Missey 1137613@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love your shorter do...it is very chic!&nbsp; I think adding long layers and more shaping would definitely modernize it and I like your inspiration photos!&nbsp; As for short hair being aging, well, I'm biased because I think well style short hair is very modern and chic! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1137606 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 16:23:00 +0000 texstyle 1137606@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you are on the right track and I totally see what you mean about wanting to have the sides "hold" themselves back more instead of relying on putting it behind your ear. It looks like a really good plan for tweaking and I can't wait to see the results! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1137240 Mon, 13 Jan 2014 02:32:34 +0000 karymk 1137240@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have gone through all this angst you are having.&nbsp; I love having short hair, but now I fear I will look drawn with it since my face is starting to sag. I get that "not yet old" thing.&nbsp; I can see this short cut being a "signature" for you, something to embrace! Your face is awfully pretty.&nbsp; I say go shorter on the back of the sides AND even blonder and RATE.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136857 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 17:40:55 +0000 Neel 1136857@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look gorgeous Deb! I missed your OP I think but I also know what you mean. My new haircut makes me resemble an aunt of mine o_O not fun :D. So I think I will go shorter very soon! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136847 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 17:31:41 +0000 Gracie 1136847@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your current style is gorgeous and flattering, but I think the shorter style will be a little more fun to play with. The light and dark shades as shown in the profile sample photo look very modern to my eye. Looking forward to your results. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136800 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 16:47:29 +0000 Anonymous 1136800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb you are beautiful now and will still be beautiful with the shorter 'do' which I wholly endorse. You will rock it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136772 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 16:05:10 +0000 Angie 1136772@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>YES. I fully support the even shorter 'do. Going to be killer.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136685 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 10:28:46 +0000 Lyn D. 1136685@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>IKWYM about tucking behind the ear, and the longer the layers the more I find my own hair kind of pushing forward and I want to tuck but then don.t find it comfortable either!<br /> I like the way you are thinking of going with your cut- at the moment it might feel like a shorter version of same-old?<br /> Your inspiration pics look different in a way that could be quite arresting and fresh. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136682 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 10:25:45 +0000 Debra 1136682@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think that you weren't sold on your haircut straight away because it is not exactly what you had pictured. The picks you have posted are what you want......go for it, it will look fantastic and you will love it </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136679 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 09:54:38 +0000 Deborah 1136679@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sveta, I have had a lot of different versions of a bob over the years and I have had it cut with a concave, and also asymmetrical:) I really liked it but I think I need a change from the bob. The asymmetric bob is now SO popular, where as once it was a little unique:( </p> <p>Denise, thank you. I find Im at the awkward stage in life where I know I am no longer 'young' but I'm also not yet 'old' lol and while my intention is not to look younger, hearing that the change in hair cut might make me look younger isn't a bad thing to hear LOL. And very valid questions re hair type. I have fine hair but I have masses of it So my hair actually works extremely well with shorter cuts. So while it is not technically thick hair it tends to always look like it has a lot of volume cos there is so much of it.</p> <p>MsMaven, words of wisdom:) You are right, it will always grow back if I don't like it :)</p> <p>Echo, that is a lovely thing to say. My mum is indeed lovely and I think it's just that mother / daughter thing... silly.. but.</p> <p>Suz, you know I love drama:) I find I am torn between just doing what I want, which could very well be buzz cut most of my hair leaving a long swept fringe (a la Odyssey), and what I think suits my lifestyle. Jenna's do looks modern to me but still soft and in my line of work, along with my church work, I feel it is important to look approachable. I also live in a conservative town:)</p> <p>Shevia, I really appreciate your input as someone who has recently gone shorter. I think I am going to find I feel the same way. I am quite excited. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136662 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 06:41:54 +0000 deb 1136662@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love your new cut and hopefully tweeking&nbsp;it a little will make it feel more you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136638 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 05:23:25 +0000 Jaime 1136638@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First of all Deborah I truly love the new cut, and suspect I will love the tweaks also. I think it is exactly in line with how your style has evolved and suits you perfectly.</p> <p>I did relate to your feelings with shorter hair. Last year when I cut all my hair off and stopped coloring it it was quite a shocker. I felt super exposed and saw my mother in my face too in a spooky way. Anyway, my hair is somewhat longer now but still short and looking back I have no regrets. My hair now seems so much more me than the old way. I suspect you will feel the same sooner rather than later. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136632 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 05:08:12 +0000 Suz 1136632@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you look wonderful in the new cut. It highlights your amazing eyes.&nbsp;I also think you'd look lovely in the (very similar) inspirations, and I also think you'd look lovely in an even more dramatic cut if you wanted to go in that direction. I can see the virtue&nbsp;of both paths&nbsp;-- the dramatic cut would be consistent with the rest of your style. But on the other hand, the more traditional style offers an interesting juxtaposition to your style. So either way, you win!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136626 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 05:01:41 +0000 Elizabeth P 1136626@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I also love your new cut and echo what the others say re it not being at all aging or harsh on you. However I also really like your inspiration pics, and think those would look great too. There's not a lot of difference. </p> <p>I'm due for another cut soon, and am going yo take both your cut and Jenna's cuts to my stylist to se if they will work on me. :). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136618 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 04:42:37 +0000 Mo 1136618@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Like the update ideas a lot! &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136596 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 04:17:07 +0000 ManidipaM 1136596@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you aren't too far from #3 at all! Good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136591 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 04:11:30 +0000 Echo 1136591@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Personally, I love your new cut, although Jenna Elfman in pics 3 &amp; 4 has a fab cut, too. It looks to me like you have plenty of body in your hair to do well with the cut in the inspiration pics, and I also think it might be slightly softer than tucking it behind the ear (not that the current cut is at all harsh). Either way, I don't think you can go wrong. We are always the most critical of ourselves, but I guarantee you that no one else sees "older", or "less feminine" when looking at you. As for looking like your mum, she must be a very pretty woman. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136587 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 04:06:35 +0000 Beth Ann 1136587@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the cut as is, but I've always thought that Jenna Elfman had an amazing short cut.&nbsp; It's important to feel fab, and short cuts often take a bit of tweaking.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136582 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 04:00:07 +0000 MsMaven 1136582@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the new cut makes you look younger, so there!</p> <p>I"ve gone through the same process with shorter cuts--look less feminine, makes me look like Mom, blah blah. &nbsp;So I let it grow out, but lately I've been fantasying a short cut. The #3 and #4 photos are gorgeous and you aren't so far from them. &nbsp;I dream of such a look, but my hair is fine with no body, etc. &nbsp;I say go for it. &nbsp;Keep tweaking. The hair will always way grow again if in the long run it doesn't work for you. &nbsp;</p> <p>(Wondering if my hairdresser can do that same cut on me.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136580 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:56:51 +0000 CocoLion 1136580@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You know, when I saw the original post about your new cut I thought, it is a younger looking cut. &nbsp;It is trendier and it makes you look younger. &nbsp;But I didn't want to say that because I didn't want you to think the old style made you look older. However reading your concerns I was so surprised, as I really thought the opposite, so I thought I should speak up.</p> <p>Deborah do you have thick hair to sustain such a cut? &nbsp;I'm afraid if I tried something like this I would look immediately mousey as my hair is very fine and getting thinner all the time as I age. &nbsp;I don't have bald spots but thinner my hair is, especially with a side part. &nbsp;I suspect I would need to add a lot of product to texturize my hair into a modern style like this, but I'm silently researching and learning from others.<br />&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136575 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:47:16 +0000 Anonymous 1136575@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I also think that your new do actually makes you look younger and slims your face. The inspiration photos for tweaking also look very promising. Do what makes you feel fabulous because you are. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136568 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:40:41 +0000 Gigi 1136568@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it looks great as is, but it's not my hair. :^) And you've certainly given yourself time to adjust, so I wouldn't feel bad about wanting some tweaks. I can't wait to see the post-tweak pix! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136564 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:36:27 +0000 Diana 1136564@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb, I must have missed the original post but I think your new hair is great! Looks quite edgy and sophisticated to me. Like Sveta, I also thought of something asymmetrical for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136563 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:35:45 +0000 carter 1136563@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Honestly, I think you look younger. However I do see hoe the more jagged cut may feel ore like you. it'll be wonderful no matter what you do! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136561 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:33:37 +0000 Elly 1136561@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it will look lovely on you-- most mums aren't wearing bobs like that, but I think the new look will be great. Jenna Elfman and you are gonna be twins! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136560 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:33:26 +0000 Sveta 1136560@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I must have missed the new hair post but I really like your new cut, Deb. It is a big change to reveal one's face but I don't think it is aging. Opposite, I think it makes you look younger and brings more attention to your beautiful face.<br />I think you should go for a more dramatic and edgy cut: it will go well with your strong edgy style. Have you considered ore pronounced asymmetry or angled bob? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/hair-update-5#post-1136553 Sun, 12 Jan 2014 03:24:07 +0000 Deborah 1136553@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Fab Ladies! </p> <p>I cannot express how much I appreciate you all and how touched I am that so many of you took the time to comment on my new hair post.</p> <p>The cut has been a dramatic change for me, even though it may not seem that much different to everyone else:). Exposing my face more, has been the catalyst for some harsh self assessment and an internal dialogue that has gone something like this... The shorter do makes me look old.....I look like my mum...when I'm tired it really shows...I don't think I look feminine....blah blah blah! I don't share this for any response but more to just be open and transparent about my own inadequacies:).</p> <p>But your kind and generous comments have moved me from being so self critical to try and see what you see and after a week and a half, I am really feeling good about it.</p> <p>But, I feel I'm not there yet with the style. It's still cut in a pretty traditional bob which feels to heavy and drab, and I'm not enjoying pushing my hair behind my ears. I also feel I would like a little more hair around my face, so I'm booking in this week for some tweaking. Keeping the long lengths but some layering and shaping.</p> <p>#1 and 2 are some photos I have taken this week and</p> <p>#3 and 4 are more what I'm aiming for with the "tweaking"</p> <p>Fingers crossed;)</p> <p>XxxDeborah </p>