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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Guy update</title>
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				<title>Adelfa on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update/page/2#post-1036477</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 23 Sep 2013 01:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Adelfa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;appreciate the updates :-)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>cinnamon fern on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1036143</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 22 Sep 2013 13:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cinnamon fern</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is too bad. &#038;nbsp;Does that ever develop over time for you? &#038;nbsp;I think people vary on this a lot.
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				<title>annagybe on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1035952</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 22 Sep 2013 00:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I didn't feel any Ooooh, Aaaaah sparks.
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				<title>cinnamon fern on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1035947</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 22 Sep 2013 00:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cinnamon fern</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;(Channeling my bff). &#038;nbsp;He sounds nice. &#038;nbsp;But is there PASSION?
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				<title>Mander on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1035929</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 21 Sep 2013 23:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like a good time!&#038;nbsp; I only really know Neko Case through her involvement with New Pornographers but heard a few free downloads that I enjoyed.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This guy sounds at least more promising than some of the others you have been out with.&#038;nbsp; Hope he lives up to that!
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				<title>Scarlet on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1035832</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 21 Sep 2013 20:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Glad you had fun! I wouldn't worry about the age.
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				<title>Jenava on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1035764</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 21 Sep 2013 18:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I did not know about this! &#038;nbsp;We need to catch up...yeah, I know, you texted me yesterday...I had a long day and was being a hermit.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;He sounds awesome and I like that he's older.
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034625</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 09:03:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Glad you had a nice time. Did he seem old to you? If he did then maybe it's better to concentrate on the friendship side of things  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  If he didn't then all is good.
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				<title>MsMary on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034554</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 04:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;50 is young!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>lyn* on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034533</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 03:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Glad you had fun! :3&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I hope you guys will be able to meet up again - if it doesn't work out romantically, at least you will have gained a cool friend to try new food with!
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				<title>Janet on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034521</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 03:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Excellent! All of that sounds promising to me. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As for 50... well, I feel like a happier, healthier, more productive person at nearly 50 than i did at nearly 40, or nearly 30. I love what CC wrote about aging -- I would be interested in reading that book!
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				<title>Ariadne on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034496</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 02:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ariadne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like a possibility that's worthy of further exploration! &#038;nbsp;Fingers crossed for you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love Neko Case. &#038;nbsp;Fox Confessor is one of my favourite albums. &#038;nbsp;She just released a new one that I haven't had a chance to listen to yet.
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				<title>Classically Casual on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034462</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 01:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Classically Casual</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;On the topic of age, I recently read &#060;i&#062;Counter Clockwise My Year of Hypnosis, Hormones, Dark Chocolate, &#038;amp; Other Adventures in the World of Anti-Aging&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/i&#062;by Lauren Kessler, which I wholeheartedly recommend as&#060;i&#062; &#060;/i&#062;a fun &#038;amp; informative read on the science of aging.&#038;nbsp; Basically she was a human guinea pig for a year trying out different strategies to turn back the (mainly) internal clock.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;One of her findings was that after the age of 40 or so, chronological age is meaningless.&#038;nbsp; What matters are all the biomarkers, such as lean body mass, strength, etc. that contribute to how successfully we age.&#038;nbsp; She writes about going across country to a high school reunion to see people she hasn't seen since she graduated.&#038;nbsp; (She's coy about her own age, but seems to be 50ish).&#060;br /&#062;At any rate her fellow classmates, the same chronological age as she is, appear to be anywhere from mid-thirties to their 70's. Some are excited about the present &#038;amp; future, others only talk about the past. You get the picture.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You'll soon be able to determine if your friend's stamina &#038;amp; energy levels match your own as well as all the other factors to consider.&#038;nbsp; As always, good luck!&#060;br /&#062;&#060;i&#062;&#060;/i&#062;
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				<title>donnat on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034458</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Sep 2013 01:19:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>donnat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like you had fun. Hopefully more on friday.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034339</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 21:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm 48 and my husband just turned 60. &#038;nbsp;Never been an issue.
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				<title>rachylou on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034295</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 21:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That sounds like a really nice night. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My bf is 57? Can't remember (my bad). I'm 44. It's all good.
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				<title>Debbie on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034251</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 20:11:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Anna this sounds good! You have things in common and he's nice. Great combination.
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				<title>kellygirl on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034228</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 19:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm almost 50 and I can attest that it's really not that old. Sounds like he has a lot going for him--appreciates food, listens to&#038;nbsp;NPR, likes going to concerts. Hope you can meet up with him again!
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				<title>Kristin L on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034226</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 19:25:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It sounds like it went great! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I hope Friday goes well for you.
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				<title>Mo on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034216</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 19:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;FWIW, my guy is 53 and I'm 43. &#038;nbsp;As witnessed by my recent photobomber WIW with him, age is really just a number if you feel and act youthful. &#038;nbsp;But, I will say he's mentally preparing for retirement (in career moves, etc) while my mind is not nearly in the same place yet. &#038;nbsp;Just one small way I see the age difference rear up.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like the sounds of things so far! &#038;nbsp;Hope you guys have some more good times ahead of you.
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				<title>Diana on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034207</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 18:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;He sounds promising so far!&#038;nbsp; Adventurous with food is definitely a plus in my book.&#038;nbsp; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And maybe the fact that he's older is a good thing.&#038;nbsp; After all, you seem to have had your share of dates with irresponsible man-children lately.&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Ornella on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034205</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 18:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ornella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All pluses, no minuses in my book. The fact he's 50&#038;nbsp;- who cares and what &#060;b&#062;exactly&#060;/b&#062; does it mean? Old? Old is the state of mind. Also the body depending on&#038;nbsp;how one looks after him/herself, and that's it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Good luck on Friday.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>pil on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034194</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 18:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>pil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All in all it sounds like a successful evening, good!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;When you say he's 50 it makes me think of my brother. He was someplace and ended up talking to a couple of young gals - not in a weird way. One of them asked how old he is and when he answerd &#034;50&#034; she responded &#034;Sh*t!&#034;.
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				<title>AnnieMouse on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034192</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 18:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AnnieMouse</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;@AnnaGybe: I found her by accident a few years ago at a festival. I was disarmed by the earthy angelic nature of her voice, and her bawdy humour in conjunction. It's pretty far outside my usual stuff, but I couldn't stop listening to her once I found it :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Fox Confessor and Middle Cyclone are really solid works. I hope you enjoy them!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034191</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 18:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Adventurous with food, listens to NPR -- sounds promising!
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				<title>rae on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034185</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like a lot of good things so far - hopefully the schedules can intersect reasonably often to see if something is there.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>annagybe on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034156</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;She was good. I felt bad because I really didn't know her stuff. I downloaded her last two albums only a few days ago and could only listen to them on the bus so I barely had a feel for her stuff.
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				<title>Suz on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034155</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I like all the pluses on this list, Anna. It sounds as if you are cautiously optimistic. Smart place to be.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Glad you reported. I was thinking about it yesterday and wondering how things had gone.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>AnnieMouse on "Guy update"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/guy-update#post-1034148</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AnnieMouse</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, that's nice! At least it wasn't a miserable bust. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;But the important bit:&#060;br /&#062;
How'd you like Neko?!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>DonnaF on "Guy update"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 16:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Crossing my fingers!&#038;nbsp; I love the *adventurous when it comes to food* part.&#038;nbsp; Sounds like he is game to try new stuff; so much better than stick in the muds!&#038;nbsp; At a minimum, it sounds as though he's at least friend material and that you can trust your friends.&#038;nbsp; (Seriously, my two blind dates made me question whether the friends who set us up actually hated me since the guys were seriously weird and b- - - ugly.)
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