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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Going to try some moderation</title>
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				<title>rachylou on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/going-to-try-some-moderation#post-754607</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 20:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No probs! I know how it gets!
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/going-to-try-some-moderation#post-754461</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 18:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Do what ya gotta do Mo - but know you'll be missed when you're not around  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rae on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 18:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;An hour aday sounds great, mo. Happy you will still be here with me batting for team casual. Maybe someday it will feel productive to up the time once again.
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 18:26:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I understand the need to take a step back on occasion.  I have felt it too at times.  I do hope you find the balance you need.  I will miss your posts.  I remember how shocked I was to find out you weren't in your 20's after I had been a member for at least 6 months.  :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Take care.
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				<title>Parsley on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 18:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Parsley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mo, I totally understand the need for moderation!&#060;br /&#062;
As great as this place is, if you don't watch it, it can suck up a lot of your time.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Please know that you are a valued contributor, though, and will be missed, and please check back in as you feel is appropriate.
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				<title>Sara L. on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 17:36:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I understand the need for moderation.  I'm always very impressed by the forum members that are able to read and comment on every post.  I've learned that I can only spend a few minutes in the morning and at lunch on the forum.  I just don't have time beyond that and I get too concerned with what I'm missing.  I've just accepted that I can't read everything and even a short time in the mornings is enough to keep somewhat up to date and get inspiration.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 17:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You know, sometimes stepping aside is a good thing. I actually took a small hiatus, primarily because life got busy but honestly, I did it also because I was quite offended by a couple of behaviors I perceived in the forum,  and I realized I was getting the commentary here get to me. Stepping aside gave me some perspective. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I just read your OT post, and yes, you know we have talked privately about these things. You are not in your head, or at least I don't think so.  I have always been a huge Mo fan, I hope you know that. So if you ever don't see a commentary from me, be assured that in all likelihood, I'm loving your outfit.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Regarding WIWs,  It took me a while to post them and now that I do, I realize how hard it is to put yourself out there. It is sometimes upseting if you don't get much comments, I know. I think sometimes it has to do with just the amount of traffic at the time of one's post, sometimes there is no way to explain it. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As a rule of thumb, I always try to post, even if it is a small response, to as many WIWs, as I can, before I move on to the questions, K/Rs etc.  Sometimes I wish we had a &#034;like&#034; button like FB, so I can provide a little comment to everyone posting WIWs.
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				<title>celia on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 17:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Good :)&#060;br /&#062;
But I meant see you in pictures also.
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				<title>Mo on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 17:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   I'm thinking maybe an hour a day - some in the morning and some before dinner.  I won't be disappearing altogether!
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				<title>celia on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 17:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Balance is good, hope you still see you from time to time.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 16:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Take the time you need Mo but know you will be missed.
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				<title>catgirl on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 16:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aw, Mo - hope this isn't related to your OT post.  I'll miss you.  I just saw a blush tuxedo jacket in F21 yesterday and wondered what was happening with your blazer!  Don't be gone too long...
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				<title>Mo on "Going to try some moderation"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2012 15:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;On being here, that is.  Much like AJ, and Queen Mum before her, I'm feeling like my YLF time is becoming not helpful for my own personal growth.&#060;br /&#062;
I still have my jewelry challenge to finish for the month, so I will post those results, and of course a K/R for my satin blazer, but all in all, I aim to be more sparse around here. Gotta reset my balance  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>   Carry on fashionably!
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