https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1 Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 08 May 2026 08:11:30 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-934652 Fri, 17 May 2013 03:01:45 +0000 Day Vies 934652@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Mesmerizing! I love this dress. I love you in it better WOW!&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-934474 Thu, 16 May 2013 23:54:44 +0000 Carole 934474@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm late here, Suz, I did see your post earlier and was reluctant to give my 2 cents because I feel sort of "off" lately. It's extremely flattering but the fact that it doesn't feel like you makes me hesitate. I sympathize with the quest for "the dress" having just gone through the process with my MOG dress. It's good to have a back up plan and hopefully the perfect dress that "feels like you" will appear, and lets hope it's soon! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-934473 Thu, 16 May 2013 23:49:12 +0000 Anonymous 934473@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Wow! You look so pretty in blue, and that cut is doing some amazing things for your figure.&nbsp;<br /><br />This dress is ticking all of the Dramatic Classic boxes, the sheen, the substantial/rich fabric, clean/narrow lines of the silhouette,&nbsp;the geometric design, the color blocking, asymmetric neckline, but IKWYM about the 'is it me' factor. I feel it looks best with out the jacket because of the neckline, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do if it's cold. The plot thickens! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932818 Wed, 15 May 2013 13:02:34 +0000 Archer 932818@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Did you try is with black sheers or did this look too bombshell? https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932812 Wed, 15 May 2013 12:35:13 +0000 Elizabeth P 932812@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh my!&nbsp; Late to the party, but still feel I have to chime in and say how much I love this.&nbsp; You must be so relieved to have at least found something, even if it's a tad outside your comfort zone.<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932800 Wed, 15 May 2013 12:22:07 +0000 Anonymous 932800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Suz, what you see as "fit issues" are the result of you capturing a still image of the dress. i think that type of fabric and cut of dress tends to photograph that way. Unless you are concerned about how the dress photographs, I see no fit issues at all. Bust is fine, waist is fine, the wrinkle at the waist is just your hips Missyeeee... IMO, LOL. No worries! Perfect backup! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932796 Wed, 15 May 2013 11:54:25 +0000 Mona 932796@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Suz, the colour and fit are extremely flattering on you. I know you are thinking about keeping it as a second option which is a great idea. But the fit is lovely and I told you, you look absolutely gorgeous in blues. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932793 Wed, 15 May 2013 11:31:11 +0000 krishnidoux 932793@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I like it too, but... to my eye, it is not long enough for the event. Something below the knee would look better suited to the occasion.&nbsp;<br /><br />Of course you are stunning in it, and it showcases your great body.&nbsp;<br /><br />But... for a gala, where you will receive an award,&nbsp;I would do a different&nbsp;length&nbsp;especially with heels.&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932791 Wed, 15 May 2013 11:25:12 +0000 Sveta 932791@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Late here but wanted to say that I really like it on you. This is a good backup option and the color is gorgeous on you -not too much at all. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932759 Wed, 15 May 2013 07:22:26 +0000 lyn67 932759@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Love&nbsp;this one, too! Fits you perfect,&nbsp;but the taupe israelian dress is more you Suz...(?)<br />(now off to read other's comments) https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932736 Wed, 15 May 2013 05:00:15 +0000 Ariadne 932736@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I do really love this for you, Suz. &nbsp;If you find something even better, hooray, but if not, like you said, you're more than well covered!&nbsp;<br /><br />PS - I didn't have a chance to comment on the thread, but I loved your Banff outfits so much. &nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932674 Wed, 15 May 2013 02:32:22 +0000 Suz 932674@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Una, I was really hoping to avoid black. I can wear it, but it's not my best colour and feels especially unfab for spring, somehow. But maybe I should reconsider. Susie, Shevia, Sarah and Sarah, thank you!&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932656 Wed, 15 May 2013 02:09:15 +0000 sarah 932656@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hah, I was going to say what Angie said, but of course she beat me to it. You're sorted as far as this dress is concerned. Now, fingers crossed for the other options. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932644 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:55:56 +0000 Sarah A 932644@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It sounds like you have things sorted, I really think this looks lovely on you (if it is a bit of a reach stylewise)... I am glad you have a plan and dont have to feel terribly stressed if you dont come by another perfect frock for your big event.<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932607 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:26:27 +0000 Jaime 932607@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ The colors and shape are stunning on you! I do see what you are concerned about with the "is it me?" factor, and I am holding out high hopes for the AP&nbsp;dress that has yet to arrive, but you would you do look smashing in this! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932605 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:23:21 +0000 Suz 932605@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thanks, Beth Ann and Angie and Sara and Caro!&nbsp;<br /><br />I do think the flash makes it seem more...flashy!...than it looks IRL, especially by candlelight, one can only assume.&nbsp;<br /><br />I feel well sorted now -- at least I won't be going naked to this event! And I still have a bit of time to look for something different.&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932604 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:23:20 +0000 Susie 932604@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it looks fantastic on you and it is very flattering. You look gorgeous in blue. While it may be a departure style wise, it is still relatively simple in design. And the shine is appropriate for a gala. What you said about about the sit test is important. Not being distracted by something fussy means you can relax and allow your warm personality to outshine the dress. </p> <p>I don't think you would be settling if you choose to wear this one....YLF! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932602 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:21:43 +0000 catgirl 932602@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think you would adore the Pappell dress I linked. &nbsp;It's like this dress in matte black. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1/page/2#post-932600 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:19:37 +0000 Beth Ann 932600@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Late to the thread, but I do think you look stunning in this dress.&nbsp; Satin never photographs well, you know, and the shine can be lovely in a banquet hall with nice lighting.<br />This is an extremely flattering and lovely dress, but it's true it's not speaking your native style language.&nbsp; This same dress in matte blues or in shiny tonal taupes would be an absolutely perfect find.&nbsp; That said, I think this is far better than a backup, and the fact that it's a little bolder than typical for you could be a good thing in this environment.<br /><br /><br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932599 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:18:30 +0000 catgirl 932599@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You have to wear this somewhere!<br /><br />I gotta say yay to girdling in the right fabric. &nbsp;Stretch girdling is awesome - that Papell dress I suggested made me feel nicely held together, like a well-fitting bra for my whole body. &nbsp;Stiff girdling makes me crazy, like a tight woven shift dress with no give.&nbsp;<br /><br /><br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932587 Wed, 15 May 2013 01:09:59 +0000 Angie 932587@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I support the decision to keep it as back up! <br /><br />As far as the fit goes, Suz - definitely not too big on top. And the back fit is not a problem at all. Cause: stretchy fabric coupled with your waist indentation. Forget about it! And you won't notice it at all in motion :)<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932526 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:49:29 +0000 bj1111 932526@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good decision to keep as back up. I also like the girding effect these dresses have. I find it comforting and oddly i am more confident because i can forget about my pooch.</p> <p>You may find it protective for another reason. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932525 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:49:03 +0000 unfrumped 932525@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It is more than good enough! So, okay to.keep.eyes open, especially for purchasing(as opposed tk being able to borrow something for a special occasion, in case another dress just feels like the one &nbsp;you would wear over &amp; over. No one there &nbsp;will know whether you've &nbsp;deviated from your style! While it may be a bit more maximal-- I understand the satin issue- the more sophisticated colors help as does the " simple" maximalness , to.me ( not a print, no ruffles, no bling except the satin. And you are right, another dress may look more.minimal but &nbsp;be more confining or feel weird on.An appropriate neckline.plus length are hard to come by. Usually something has to give, so it offen comes &nbsp;down to &nbsp;priority list. This dress has a very posh but elegant look. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932518 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:47:08 +0000 Caro in Oz 932518@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think it looks lovely but I was also going to ask does it feel like you?<br />There is something about the boldness - colour &amp; fabric that doesn't seem like something you would choose/love. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932509 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:43:24 +0000 MNsara 932509@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You are stunningly beautiful in it!&nbsp; It is a gorgeous dress, and I have no problem with the satin shine.&nbsp; I bet IRL, without flash, it is just normal satin shine.&nbsp; Further it's sleeveless and knee length, and you're quite tiny, so there's really not that much there to shine!<br /><br />The color and fit are wonderful as well.&nbsp; The tonal pattern and piecing are tasteful and flattering.&nbsp;&nbsp; I like it's current length actually for elegance.&nbsp;<br /><br />I'm dying to hear what your thoughts are!&nbsp; It sounds like it might be out of your comfort zone, but I hope not.&nbsp; As long as you're not striving to find a little BLACK dress for this gala, this one is striking!! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932480 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:31:01 +0000 Suz 932480@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ ETA: Laura, definitely <b>not</b> too big in the top section. I can hardly do it up there (sort of a first, for me -- and made me wonder if I should size up, but I don't think it would fit elsewhere in that case!)&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932474 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:28:13 +0000 Suz 932474@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thanks so much, everyone. I so appreciate your comments. Here are my own thoughts:<br /><br />#1 I agree that the fit of the waist in back is perhaps slightly off -- again - I am short-waisted. And there are no Petites dresses to be had in my neck of the woods, and even if there were, they'd be too short for me, because I'm not petite height. I do think the effect might be exaggerated because of the way I was standing and also because it's so shiny in the flash -- IRL my husband didn't notice anything like that, and he usually does.&nbsp;<br /><br />#2 Angie has put her finger on it. It does not feel like "me." I think it is because of what Ceit &nbsp;and Sona&nbsp;said. I am not crazy about the satin. Also, I am unused to wearing something quite so body con. It's a bit like being girdled (which I guess it is, quite frankly!) Or maybe it is the combination of the two. I do wear my tube skirts without a thought, after all. But they're not shiny. I feel a bit as if I am dressed for a prom, which doesn't seem right.&nbsp;<br /><br />Having said that, I think this dress is worth keeping in reserve in case my other options do not work out. Here's why:<br /><br />a). Despite the fit issue noticed by a few of you, it fits better than almost anything else I have tried and does not need alteration. That is a major plus given my time constraints and my uncertainty about Wonder Woman East's ability to do a complicated alteration on a relatively&nbsp;expensive item.&nbsp;<br /><br />b). Colours are pretty good, if somewhat on the bold side for me.&nbsp;<br /><br />c). I like the asymmetrical neckline and think it suits me.&nbsp;<br /><br />d). Despite the girdling effect, once it is on, it's surprisingly comfortable to wear because it has a lot of stretch. I did the sit test. It doesn't ride up and it falls back into place immediately on standing -- doesn't get all wrinkled and stuck, as some body con dresses might.&nbsp;<br /><br />e). In some ways, that girdling might turn out to be a sort of advantage. You tend to need to feel a bit protected in these situations. Dress as armour, and all that.&nbsp;<br /><br /><br />In other words, I am still holding out for something better, but in an emergency, I figure I can pull this out of the closet and make it work. I still have time in my return window, so I'm going to hang onto it for now and see what else I can find.&nbsp;<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932468 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:25:46 +0000 DonnaF 932468@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This dress really flatters you.&nbsp; If I saw it on a hanger, web site, or in a catalog I am not sure that I would have thought of you. . .So how do YOU feel in it?&nbsp; It is asymmetrical, but not what I would call androgynous or princely.&nbsp; Follow your heart on this one. <br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932452 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:18:07 +0000 Sona 932452@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ its too satiny I think. I love the back shoulder detail but it does not scream Suz to me. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/gala-possibility-1#post-932451 Tue, 14 May 2013 23:16:17 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 932451@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It's a super-cool design, I must say. From the pics, though, it looks like it might be a little big in the top half? From all the details that might be something that would be hard to fix with tailoring. <br />