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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M</title>
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				<title>pastrygirl on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 20:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>pastrygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What?! I didn't know there were Frye stores!! Now I must go to Boston someday to visit both the Frye and Fluevog stores.
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				<title>K. Period. on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 20:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;:) &#038;nbsp;I love SuperK! SuperK away to your heart's desire. &#038;nbsp;Sounds like you have this all sorted. Hooray! &#038;nbsp;Nothing like the group brainstorming.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>minimalist on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 18:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kim, that works. I can order from Frye directly; shipping/returns are free in December. Before I do that, I'll call the closest Nordstrom's and ask if they can special-order several sizes. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And Zapotee, I'll call the flagship store if only to hear how things work and get some positive vibe. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Claudia, good term to know. I wouldn't have done that. Frye seems to have done a pretty good job at maintaining prices (at least for USA-made items) around the net.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;SuperK (may I call you that), good to know about home pick-up. I suspect its advantages would be tempered by local delivery issues. Where I live, FedEx and UPS very often leave door tags claiming attempted delivery ... without even ringing the doorbell. Waited on steps all afternoon to catch UPS guy, who showed up at 6:30 with a door tag but didn't have package on the truck. Can just imagine how they'd handle a &#034;pick-up.&#034; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Returns are hugely annoying, but actually, I have a friend with Asperger's (major strengths there, loves details where I just get bogged down) who's handled return shipments for me in the past in exchange for homecooked frozen meals. Forgot about that. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For delivery, I'll ask bf if I can have them sent to his office. He's really tired lately, has a lot on his plate and is still under the weather, and on top of that his car was broken into last night, so I hate to add anything to his list. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Really wish there were package stations here; they're so practical!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks so much, all!
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				<title>K. Period. on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 16:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, do you have the ability to order multiple pairs at one time? &#038;nbsp;Zappos carries the Logger. &#038;nbsp;They also carry the&#038;nbsp;Sabrina, but not in black. &#038;nbsp;If you can order multiples, I&#038;nbsp;suggest this: the time and energy to go to a brick and mortar store is a lot more than to purchase online. &#038;nbsp;Zappos is super easy for shipping and returns, both of which are free. &#038;nbsp;You can even return via home pick up if you don't want to drop at a UPS pickup site. &#038;nbsp;I would order the Loggers&#038;nbsp;in the size range (your regular, up one, down one)&#038;nbsp;that you thought would work. &#038;nbsp;I would also&#038;nbsp;order the Sabrinas in brown in the size you thought you would wear. &#038;nbsp;Pay close attention to the Zappos reviews, which I generally find very helpful with highlighting fit issues (fits large, small, narrow, etc.)&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;Then wait until you receive them all and try and return in one swoop. &#038;nbsp;If the Sabrinas win your heart, contact Zappos and see if they have them in black, but if not, order them from Frye. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If you really break down the time commitment, a single order and return&#038;nbsp;takes less time than hunting for the shoes in a B&#038;amp;M store. &#038;nbsp;BTW, have you seen the &#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.6pm.com/frye-heath-heel-bootie-smoke-antique-pull-up&#034;&#062;Frye Heath booties&#060;/a&#062; at 6pm.com? They look similar, but are marked waaaay down. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Liz A. on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 16:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Never had a term for it, but so guilty of showrooming myself...
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				<title>Claudia on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 15:42:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Claudia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Maybe it was a policy&#038;nbsp;to discourage&#038;nbsp;&#034;showrooming&#034;&#038;nbsp;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Showrooming&#034;&#062;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Showrooming&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 14:18:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Weird!&#060;br /&#062;
They have Frye stores here, independent stores. Perhaps it is worth calling one of the NYC brick and mortar stores. They are nicer.&#060;br /&#062;
I have been at this store personally. They are really nice. Give them a call:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.thefryecompany.com/frye-flagship-stores/soho-nyc-flagship/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.thefryecompany.com/.....-flagship/&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Kim on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 12:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Perhaps you could order 3 sizes (your regular, your upper limit and your lower limit) all in one order to cover the bandwith/energy costs. &#038;nbsp;Then you are sure to get your size, and if you like the boots the returns could probably be done together. &#038;nbsp;Even if you went to a brick and mortar store you'd still have energy costs (gas, bus, etc.) and no guarantee they have your size, or the style you want will fit their either.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That would work if Zappos will ship them altogether. &#038;nbsp;Not as good if they all ship to you from different locations. &#038;nbsp;Not sure, as Zappos doesn't ship to Canada at all, so I have no experience with them...(probably a good thing! LOL)
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				<title>E on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 06:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>E</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Amy, that makes sense! I like to have my essentials/basics in order too, and I finally feel like I have my shoe wardrobe pretty much sorted, so next year I think I'll save up for a colourful pair or two!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  (All of mine at the moment&#038;nbsp;are sensible neutrals.) When I was reading about wardrobe building I stumbled across a sewing concept called the '6 pac'; the idea is to sew (but could buy) 6 basics/essentials a season and by the end of the year you've got a backbone to support your fun/fluffy clothes. I loved that idea &#038;amp; it really crystalised my thrifting/clothes shopping strategy; now that I have pretty much all my favourite stuff (skirts, blouses, cardigans, skinny trousers, toppers, tights, socks, etc.)&#038;nbsp;in grey &#038;amp; navy blue&#038;nbsp;I don't have any problems putting outfits together. I've almost finished a taupe set too!&#038;nbsp;This is&#038;nbsp;the &#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://ejvc.wordpress.com/seasonal-6pac-collections/&#034;&#062;blog post&#060;/a&#062;&#038;nbsp;of the&#038;nbsp;sewist who originated it in case it helps you too. (Although the strategy seems to assume people prefer to dress in 'columns of colour' whereas I feel best when my clothes are broken up more, so I don't worry about that aspect of it.)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I look forward to when the right words come to you and you post more on 60L. I've been mentally composing/musing about a post in my head about wardrobe-y stuff for the past week, hopefully it'll come together &#038;amp;&#038;nbsp;I'll get it typed up soon!
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				<title>rae on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 05:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My first thought was Zappos, too. Large selection of Frye, and very very reliable with fantastic service.
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				<title>minimalist on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 04:59:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's not so much the price of shipping/returns as it is the bandwidth/energy costs of returns.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;E, I haven't done a &#034;60L wardrobe&#034; post yet, not sure how to phrase it. I'm not currently living out of my pack (and clothes weren't the bulk when I was) but I'd feel better about keeping the high-heeled ankle boots I adore if I had essentials solidly covered.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Frye sells through their site, but most of their sales are through independent retailers. They just sell to them -- they don't keep track of which stores carry their lines. So a small shop might only carry Veronicas or something vs. Amazon or Zappos who have more&#060;br /&#062;
comprehensive stock.
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				<title>E on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Weird! Can you they tell you the outersole measurements (length &#038;amp; width) of the sizes you're deciding between? That way you could compare it to your other shoes &#038;amp; foot measurements&#038;nbsp;&#038;amp; it might help re: likelihood of fitting right first time. It will at least tell you if a shoe is too narrow, which is usually my challenge (I have narrow heels but a broad forefoot).&#038;nbsp;I almost always only order shoes online from places with free shipping both ways (my new Fryes were from 6pm.com&#038;nbsp;so return shipping would've cost money&#038;nbsp;but I'd tried other Fryes on before and the laces make fit easier so I was pretty confident in being a 7), because it's just so tricky. I was so excited about my Aurora shoes because they have you send in cardboard tracings of your feet &#038;amp; then send you the appropriately sized shoe! :D&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't think you're in the US, are you? In which case I don't know shipping policies for overseas. But as an aside, did you do a post re: your 60L wardrobe? I'm guessing it refers to your backpack (mine's a 38L but I'm not living out of it full time). Because I'd love to read more of your thoughts on that.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Greyscale on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I sympathize - I hate shopping for jeans or shoes online because I know I'll need to try a lot before something works. But, places like Zappos or Shopbop&#038;nbsp;make it easy. And the reviews at those sites should tell you if the sizes run big or small so you can try a few pairs at once. I know that I go up at least half a size in Fryes (I'm usually a 6.5, and their 7 seems to fit me, though I don't own any).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It's frustrating that they weren't more helpful. Some shoe brands have lists of boutiques that stock them. I guess Frye is big enough that they're sold all over - I know the upscale little shoe boutiques around me often have them.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I really like that first pair.
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				<title>JAileen on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 02:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have you tried Zappos? I don't know if they have those particular boots, but they have free shipping both ways.
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				<title>minimalist on "Frye won&#039;t divulge where to try/buy in B&#38;M"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 13 Dec 2013 01:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Called Frye today (number on site) to ask which local retailers stock their USA lines. I'd like to try on the boots pictured below.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The customer service representative who answered said that she couldn't give me this information. She suggested &#034;big department stores&#034; and named four. Really? CSRs aren't given access to inventory information, or it's a policy for some other reason, or part of a distribution agreement, or they'd rather sell through their own site, or what?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I've tried on other Frye boots at NR, and was not consistently wow'd. But I need a nearly-every-day replacement to my still-gourdorfull Sanitas, and ideally it should be the elusive 60L-wardrobe boot. Fryes get a lot of love around here, and I don't have the bandwidth to manage the drama of a Wesco order, so I want to try these. (Wish the workboots didn't have the contrast sole.)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Do I really have to have these shipped to try on? Most long-time YLFers seem fully accepting of shopping by mail, so my hesitation probably seems absurd. Are there ways of increasing the likelihood of the right fit the first time?
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