https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 20:55:45 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235337 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 03:21:11 +0000 Deborah 1235337@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Una you have hit the nail on the head.&nbsp; The styling is contrived :)&nbsp; Maybe I need to try stying it without too much thought and see what happens? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235326 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 03:09:29 +0000 catgirl 1235326@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Without reading other comments, I feel this is styled to be you as much as possible - but it doesn't have that sense of ease I associate with your aesthetic. It looks a little more contrived than I'd expect. That is not a bad thing at all, but it is something I noticed - perhaps I'm wrong?</p> <p>Off to read comments now! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235313 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 02:39:50 +0000 Karie 1235313@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the dress! It's not your usual style, but that's OK - it's good to switch things up now and again. I think I would prefer it with lighter stockings, though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235283 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 01:55:40 +0000 columbine(erin) 1235283@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I thought it was an interesting departure for you and really liked how you styled it.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235269 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 01:11:18 +0000 Deborah 1235269@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Dana, and I really appreciated your earlier comment too.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235268 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 01:09:54 +0000 Caro in Oz 1235268@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah interesting Deborah - I did get that you weren't convinced about the dress for you. It is very flattering &amp; I would love to see you make it yours, but if it becomes too hard then I'm sure you will&nbsp;let it go&nbsp;:) The flower placement doesn't bother me personally, but you could look on it as an opportunity to&nbsp;change your name to Eve </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235266 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 01:08:57 +0000 ironkurtin 1235266@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the fact that you felt this dress wasn't you, yet you styled it so stunningly, is a real testament to your fashion sense. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235253 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 00:41:53 +0000 Deborah 1235253@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lyn no need for guilt at all.&nbsp; And we have met in person and I think that adds an additional dynamic to understanding someone's style as we have experienced an extension of what we know&nbsp;of one another's character and personality on line.&nbsp; The dress still has a question mark over it for me:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235249 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 00:35:29 +0000 Lyn D. 1235249@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Guiltily slinking back.......... It was my way of saying that I felt it isn't completely YOU Deborah, but you set the bar so high that anything less than perfection is picked-up by those of us who have the pleasure of knowing your Fab style.<br />For work-needs it is absolutely fine of course, and a thoughtful gift from your stylish Mum. &nbsp;xx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235242 Mon, 28 Apr 2014 00:17:15 +0000 Deborah 1235242@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you all so much for your feedback on this dress.&nbsp; </p> <p>So, here is the background : My mum gave me this dress!&nbsp; And unfortunately I have certain associations with how my mum dresses:)&nbsp; She actually dresses very well, is more on the classic side and in my mind dresses 'very differently' to me.&nbsp; So I guess what I am saying is that I don't want to 'look' like my mum (with respect).&nbsp; The dress is new and mum has worn it twice and feels the neckline is too low for her.&nbsp; It is a good quality garment from a store that caters generally to 'older' ladies:)&nbsp; </p> <p>For those who suggested that a more abstract floral might be better, I think I agree with you.&nbsp; The floral is not 'in your face' but it's still a little traditional.</p> <p>As far are style evolution goes, I do feel in some ways this is a step backwards (for those who don't know my previous employment dictated a more conservative and classic wardrobe) however as I mentioned&nbsp;'classic' is&nbsp;still required for certain occasions, and I wont deny classic&nbsp;still figures subtly in my&nbsp;style persona.</p> <p>Angie, if I may single you out, thank you!&nbsp; I am quite fascinated by what makes a look 'ours'.&nbsp; So playing with this dress which&nbsp;is so not something I would choose for myself was a fun challenge.&nbsp; &nbsp;</p> <p>Given the positive support for the dress, I will hold on to it for the moment and I will try some other stylings.&nbsp; Diana I have a drapey black jacket that I will try with it.&nbsp; Golden and Caro I will try with nude hose as I think that might create a better balance, but maybe still wear the booties?</p> <p>And Lyn now all I can see is the flower LOL.&nbsp; </p> <p>Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts.&nbsp; This has been an interesting exercise and I may now post some alternate stylings before making a final decision on the dress.&nbsp; This iteration, as some of you picked up doesn't quite 'feel like me'.</p> <p>xxx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please/page/2#post-1235226 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 23:45:46 +0000 Caro in Oz 1235226@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love it on you. I'd like to see a photo without the belt &amp;&nbsp;with tights (something lighter weight)&nbsp;&amp; a pointed toe shoe. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1235220 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 23:39:29 +0000 NDMom 1235220@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Deborah! &nbsp;I think you look great in the dress. &nbsp;I would love to see it in a photo of how you usually pose though....could that be throwing if off some people too? &nbsp;Anyways, I really like it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234981 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 18:07:53 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1234981@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really love this on you and feel with the rest of the styling all in black, it still has your edge to it. &nbsp;It is a great way to do floral in a less in your face way. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234974 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 18:03:56 +0000 Scarlet 1234974@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It looks really wonderful on you, and I like the way you styled it. I can't see a downside except that you are so&nbsp;neutral I wonder if it doesn't make you happy. By the way I wouldn't worry about the pattern placement AT ALL. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234960 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 17:47:37 +0000 Anonymous 1234960@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like the dress and think the overall look keeps enough of your style&nbsp;while working for the purpose you want it for. The lines in the pattern actually really remind me of the lines in the tree picture on your wall. So maybe that's helping me see it as "you"! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234952 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 17:40:48 +0000 MsMaven 1234952@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is a great way for a non-floral person to add it to your wardrobe. &nbsp;Nordstrom has a similar style that I am seriously considering. &nbsp;Nothing like a change now and then to keep things interesting.</p> <p>I don't think the flower will be noticeable while you are wearing it and moving around. &nbsp;I didn't notice it at first, and I am sensitive to print placement. &nbsp;I considered a Kay Unger dress for an upcoming wedding, but darn, there is a big flowering thing drawing attentions to places I'd prefer not to highlight. &nbsp;I noticed it right away. &nbsp;</p> <p>I like the dress on you, but if it continues to make you feel uncomfortable, it won't get worn. &nbsp;At least that is my history. &nbsp;"When in doubt, toss it out." &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234934 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 17:15:43 +0000 Vicki 1234934@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Count me as a fan of this dress, Deborah! &nbsp;I love it, because the wonderful black detailing "is Deborah" and the floral fitted nature is an exciting departure into a new territory that works beautifully on you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234923 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 17:07:51 +0000 MovingFashionForward 1234923@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like it, and to me it looks very you actually. It is not your average floral, is it? To me, it is floral done your way. In fact, I think it masterfully marries the two aspects I have seen of your style -- the avant-garde edge and the classic. I think it's fab.</p> <p>Sarah </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234899 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 16:49:33 +0000 rabbit 1234899@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the way you have styled it, and love the black framing on the dress. &nbsp;That said, I think a similar dress with a more abstract or watercolor or unusual&nbsp;floral print in the panels would read closer to the 'edgy/artistic' I associate with your style. &nbsp; &nbsp;I like the tonal lines, but &nbsp;not the print of the flowers over them so much, but I get very picky and subjective&nbsp;about prints so grain of salt. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234833 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 15:24:21 +0000 Angie 1234833@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The sky has fallen down again. Debs is wearing a coloured floral. &nbsp;I LOVE the non-black addition, Debs.&nbsp;</p> <p>I think the frock is&nbsp;a killer good move. Why can't this be part of Deb's evolving style? She's styled it with her "Deb Touches". Perfect. Well done.&nbsp;</p> <p>I vote Killer to the power of Killer.</p> <p>I might need to recover. xo</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234730 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 13:29:02 +0000 Golden 1234730@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the outfit a lot, although it's different than what you typically wear I still see you. I am not loving it with the booties. I would like to see a nude leg and a pump, or even possibly a tall boot? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234728 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 13:27:46 +0000 ironkurtin 1234728@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't really care if this is your usual style, I like it on you very much. The black panels on the sides and the obi belt give it a very Deborah edge IMO. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234726 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 13:27:14 +0000 abc 1234726@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Now I can't un-see the flower Lyn mentioned - grr</p> <p>My first take was what Suz mentioned about lighter hosiery. </p> <p>Overall it doesn't read as typical "you" but if the dress code is more conservative then this is a good interpretation. I agree a bigger more abstract pattern in gray and black and maybe eggplant even would seem more you but there is nothing wrong with this at all. Just a bit different than what you're used to (and I think prefer). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234715 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 13:20:09 +0000 Diana 1234715@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like it but I do think it is a more classic look for you. Wondering what it would look like with a drapier topper and no belt. I want to see more movement. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234698 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 12:57:09 +0000 kkards 1234698@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>well i like the dress, but, and this may be just me, go back and look at the photos. don't look at the dress, look at you, imo the way you are standing and holding yourself reads to me like you are uncomfortable. so, will you wear this? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234690 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 12:43:10 +0000 Suz 1234690@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, Lyn....that was a devilish comment!! :)&nbsp;</p> <p>I like the dress and you look terrific, as always. I do think it could work well for you in a more conservative work environment. For myself -- I feel the lightness fights a bit with the quantity of black so I might lighten up the hose or something &nbsp;-- but of course that would depend on the time of year and you are moving into autumn.&nbsp;</p> <p>And while I think it <b>could</b> work, it won't if you don't feel fab in it. I&nbsp;see what are saying&nbsp;about the print being not "quite" one that transitions as you might like. Or it may not be the print alone -- it might be the combination of predominantly light colour, structure, and print. Maybe looking to change up one or two of those elements in each item&nbsp;vs. all three at once would be a better way to evolve your style back towards a more modern classic business-ready version for work purposes?&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234671 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 12:15:59 +0000 Jaime 1234671@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can't get past the pattern placement after Lyn's comment. It looks good but I don't love it for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234667 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 11:57:38 +0000 kerry 1234667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, yes, yes! Fantastic dress - fits you beautifully. You've styled it so that I think it's still Deborah. A perfect expression of how to try a trend (floral) your way. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234666 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 11:57:20 +0000 carolbee 1234666@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deborah, I really like the overall print, but not sure about it as a dress, maybe its too much dress. I think it would be brilliant as an asymmetrical hem tunic over leggings? But that's not the intent is it? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/floral-subtle-your-opinions-please#post-1234656 Sun, 27 Apr 2014 11:31:12 +0000 Debra 1234656@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmmmm I still see this silhouette as you even though there's no drape.<br /> I really like the way you have styled this simple dress, the addition of the belt, jacket, tights and boots have made it yours and I think it resonates your edginess in a more conservative setting.<br /> I'm just not sure of the pattern.....and after reading Lyn's comment that's all I'm seeing.....sorry......lol </p>