https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 18 Apr 2026 13:46:01 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835409 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 01:50:09 +0000 CocoLion 835409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It looks good on you, but I agree it does not reflect your sophisticated style. I'd keep it as a placeholder until something better comes along. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835406 Fri, 01 Feb 2013 01:46:30 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 835406@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like it with the sweater an scarf and boots. I agree hat it's likely the shape that's a little discomfiting to you - I never wear flared skirts any more either but some flared-skirt dresses look good on me, if you get my distinction. I think it has to do with proportion and where the waist falls in the dress relative to how it would fall in separates. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835189 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 22:53:14 +0000 shiny 835189@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry, I've been gone for awhile, I am not so familiar with your style goals, but I did just go take a quick look at your recent WiW's to get an idea. I think this dress is flattering to your figure, but I fear it's too "cutesy" and not as polished and sophisticated as you are.<br /> For me, it's those poofy sleeves combined with the polka dot print. </p> <p>However, you can absolutely wear a more waist-defining dress with a flare skirt - I see NO apple here! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835073 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:30:04 +0000 Suz 835073@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It fits you well, it is pretty, and it's comfortable (so you may look easier in your skin when you wear it.) Also, it has that retro flair that many people find...how to say this...reassuring in a woman? It's feminine. </p> <p>But if your own style goals are not in that direction and it doesn't feel fab, then I say, find yourself a dress that's just as comfortable yet also feels more like "you." </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835070 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:26:47 +0000 Adelfa 835070@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Suz, that's hilarious. I'm sure people are clinging to all the reassurance they can get! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835068 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:26:07 +0000 Jules 835068@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well you look lovely and proportionate to me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835059 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:21:32 +0000 Adelfa 835059@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Jules, yes, I do. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835056 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:19:33 +0000 jess 835056@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>this dress fits you well and flatters your figure, no need to worry about this one x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835054 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:18:54 +0000 Jules 835054@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the waist definition and flared skirt are suggesting an hourglass. Do you feel too busty? You look great. Sounds like a practical dress even if it doesn't have full happiness factor. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835026 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:59:11 +0000 Adelfa 835026@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>wow Sylvie, Una, and Thistle, rachylou, this is very helpful!</p> <p>My initial thoughts on why I don't like the dress much is that as an apple, I'm uncomfortable with defining my waist this much. Secondly, I just don't wear flared skirts. I wear straight skirts, and I'll accept pleats or gathers in a skirt if the material is super thin and falls straight down.</p> <p>Una and rachylou, I think you're on to something. I'm uncomfortable with the combination of traditional styling and conservative pattern. If the polka dots were only bigger I think it might be better. I feel very straight-laced in this dress (though it is super comfy). Not me!</p> <p>Talk about practical though. Machine wash and dryable, comes out of the suitcase without a wrinkle, and is good for days when I don't want to think much. And I know everyone else thinks I look good, which on some days can be a comfort! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-835016 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:52:54 +0000 rachylou 835016@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Eh, it's not an awful dress by any means, but I don't feel like it's you at all. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-834997 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:42:48 +0000 Thistle 834997@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow, it is a gorgeous dress on you! Super figure flattering and very feminine. Just lovely on you.</p> <p>Not sure why you don't think it's fab. It truly is gorgeous on you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-834995 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:41:41 +0000 catgirl 834995@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Adelfa, this dress is lovely on you. What I see about it is that it is "mainstream" in the sense that it seems like a piece that will appeal to a lot of people because it is not wild, edgy, or out there - it's a pretty dress that fits well in a great color. Does that make sense? You may want it to be more __________ (funky/avant-garde/unique)? Still, it is rare to find a well-fitting all purpose dress! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-834986 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:35:11 +0000 Sylvie 834986@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I see why you get compliments on it. It fits you very well and accentuates your figure. Plain and simple, you just look good.</p> <p>What doesn't appeal to you about it? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/fab-perception-discrepancy#post-834972 Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:28:35 +0000 Adelfa 834972@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've never felt sure about this dress. Yet it is hands down my most complimented piece of clothing and I don't know why!</p> <p>Material is black with lavender dots. Pic 3 is dress styled as a skirt with cardi and scarf. </p> <p>What do you think of the dress on me? Do you have any pieces that the world seems to like quite a bit better than you do? </p>