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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff</title>
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				<title>cheryl on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2022 20:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look lovely!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 11:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks great to me! I'm on team &#034;variety of pants silouettes&#034;  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Jules on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2022 11:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely fab! I like all the pieces and the styling feels very &#034;you&#034;. Colours are harmonious with your colouring (the black with your dark eyes and brows; lighter flowers that pick up your hair). All together this feels like a current expression of your personal style.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For me these remain classic fallback proportions that work for my body type, even if not the most current (re: suggestions to try a wider pant or tuck the shirt). I'm a bit of a block in wider pants with tucked shirts and sometimes that's ok, but other times I want the curves that skinnier pants provide.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Nomad on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 23:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Nomad</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love everything about this look, and I think the blouse is beautiful and flattering on you. I'd love to see how it looks tucked or semi-tucked (and taller boots could be fun, but not necessary to my eye), but I love your polished edginess. Personally, I really like the slimmer pants but I'm a slow adopter and haven't entirely caught up to the wider pants trend... and boots are my favorite clothing item so I like bottoms that show them off. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also, I love your hair!
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				<title>phoebe on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 17:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>phoebe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lovely, versatile pairing that seems so practical to have in the closet and suits you very well.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Ellemnop on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 17:21:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ellemnop</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;We have very similar body types, which makes for an interesting experience analyzing outfits! My first thought was that you look gorgeous, artful and a bit edgy. It wasn't until I imagined that I was looking at a picture of myself that I was able to identify with your flattery concerns ... darn that 'spotlight effect'!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I agree that wearing a more fluid pant and tucking or semi-tucking the blouse would visually shorten the torso to offset the high neckline. That might be enough to adjust for the neckline being not technically speaking your 'most flattering'. It would also give you an opportunity to increase the distance between the hem of the jacket and where your blouse ends, reinforcing the 'oversized jacket' look in a way that doesn't overwhelm your frame.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If you aren't too concerned with being cold, a cropped fluid pant could work nicely too, bringing some volume without the potentially overwhelming amount of fabric in a fluid full-length pant + high neck + structured jacket combo. Or scrunching/cuffing the jacket sleeves? Ankles or wrists out helps with structure!
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				<title>Jonesy on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 02:11:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The camera angle makes it a little hard to tell, but from what I can see the blouse and blazer look great! Agreeing with others that this color palette is beautiful on you.
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				<title>CVR on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 02:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CVR</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Since I have a short neck and a round face myself, I would like to say three cheers for the blazer. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;the blouse does nothing but deteract from the blazer
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				<title>Jaime on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2022 01:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks great - love the color palette on you!
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				<title>rachylou on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 19:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The blouse is very very flattering! Great with the blazer.
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				<title>Style Fan on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 19:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The colours are gorgeous with your hair.&#038;nbsp; Dark florals suit you.&#038;nbsp; I don't notice the high neck.&#038;nbsp; It seems to work.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have a very long neck and can not wear necklines like that.&#038;nbsp; They bother me.&#038;nbsp; I feel like I am choking.&#038;nbsp; Enjoy your blouse.&#038;nbsp; I wish I could wear it.
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				<title>Janet on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it! I think it looks great on you with the blazer. Love the idea of pairing it with wide leg trousers or jeans too.
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				<title>kellygirl on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Terrific!! Love this head to toe! Edgy and cool!!
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				<title>Kate on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful outfit and lovely with your hair. I think the collar looks just fine.
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				<title>Suz on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The pattern of the blouse is gorgeous with your hair. I think this would look fantastic with a more fluid pant, but the colour of these is great!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Lesley on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lesley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love it, I love your hair, and I have a short neck and round head, so this gives me hope for that kind of collar too!
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				<title>modgrl on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 17:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's a great suggestion Angie! I'm going to try the this look tucked into fluid-er pants next time. You're right about the blazer... it's as oversized as I dare right now... I'm not sure how I would do with a really oversized blazer because of my height.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Angie on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 17:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the blouse! Blazer looks fably fluid, not oversized. Nice combination of top and topper :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Have you got jeans or pants that aren't skinnies? Relaxed, with ease, wider. Try the look with those too. Try a bit of tucking of the top. Or a taller boot with the skinnies.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>modgrl on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 17:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks all! I'm going to try this look tucked into pants with some ease next time. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;@&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;https://youlookfab.com/member/ignorantawareness/profile/&#034;&#062;Zaeobi&#060;/a&#062;, the burgundy pants are from Target. They're cut like jeans but out of a chino type fabric.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Star (Lise) on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 17:18:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Star (Lise)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look stunning, suits you!
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				<title>Helena on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree, the collar looks good to my eye!
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				<title>Dee on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well I don’t see frump that’s for sure, to me its a beautiful pulled together outfit, great colour combinations that looks fab with your hair colour, but it really boils down to how you feel in it.&#060;br /&#062;Sometimes it’s our own perceptions that we just can’t seem to shake in order for us to feel happy with how we look in something.
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				<title>Carla on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks fab to me! &#038;nbsp;I do love a dark floral. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Roberta on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 16:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Roberta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like the blouse with the blazer - the vertical lines of the jacket draw the eye up and down.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is a very polished look and I love a dark floral!
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				<title>RobinF on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 15:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RobinF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I quite like the blouse and don't think the collar is unflattering. I have the same issue and find that I tug at it during the day but I wear them anyway.
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				<title>LJP on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 15:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Blouse and jacket look great - really lovely colours against your gorgeous hair. &#038;nbsp;I'd try them with a different pant - something with more ease and width, and maybe semi-tuck the blouse? &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Zaeobi on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 14:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Zaeobi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Those trousers are a gorgeous colour - where did you get them?? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The blouse looks good with the blazer but I'd try it without too, just to be sure - I have a similar issue with pussybow blouses (a high neck can sometimes make it feel like I'm just all bust &#038;amp; shoulders lol), so I feel you!
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				<title>modgrl on "Fab or frumpy? New to me stuff"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 14:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi friends, sorry for the bathroom selfies… it’s the best light at my new job. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I’m wearing a new to me Vince Camino blouse and trying out the oversized blazer look. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The good: I feel stylish, a tad edgy, and polished for work. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The bad: I love the blouse but I’m not sure if the high collar is flattering for my short neck and round face. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Let me know what you think.  I’m torn!!
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