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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Exposed bra straps</title>
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				<title>Anonymous on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps/page/2#post-702712</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 15:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it's disgusting and sleazy.
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				<title>Deborah on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps/page/2#post-702617</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 11:59:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I may be in the minority, but I really have zero tolerance for bra exposure:(.   I will refrain from going into why etc but it may have something to do with being a neat freak lol
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				<title>RB on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2012 11:44:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RB</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cheryl, I agree with you.  It's fun and sexy to see a colorful bra strap.  It can actually add to a nice look of a tank top.
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				<title>teeandcee on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 13:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>teeandcee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;As with others I like the look as long as it's intentional. I can't do it as all my bras are beige plus IMO I'm too old. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I remember that outfit on Sex and the City. It was a gorgeous 1920's flapper dress. At first I thought it looked horrible with her bra all &#034;out of the closet&#034; like that but by the end of the episode I'd fallen in love with it. Not that I'd ever be able to pull it off.
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				<title>Janet on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 13:02:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Makrame, try Wacoal. I found a couple in Nordstrom in the whopping 7 bras on the sale rack in my size, and they are quite nice. I've seen some styles in teal, burgundy and bright blue. Natori might have something as well -- I have a burgundy bra from them.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps#post-638033</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 06:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ManidipaM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have to say I got quite the eyeful of 'how NOT to show your bra(strap)' on cruise in Asia last week --- there was, and yeah I'm being judgemental here, the young lady in the white floral strapless summer dress and the black bra, where the back of her dress was lower than the bra's, making for more bra than bodice and which did *not* look so hot to me. Or there were the several ladies of all ages who seemed to think a nude bra and a racerback top were made for each other --- and no, these weren't swimsuit coverups. Some of these were worn to formal night dinner!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Of course, same cruise also had the young mom with three kids in tow, in a sheer cream crotch-length dress that showed more than just VPL (more like the *seams* on her undies, not just their colour, were on show), which I thought might be a bit much in the middle of the afternoon at the daylit cafe :-/ But then I berated myself for being both judgemental and old-fashioned... and am still here, still ambivalent and berating self...!
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				<title>goldenpig on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps#post-638014</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 06:07:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well I'm always a little embarrassed if I realize my bra strap is showing. But, in my two main arenas (work and MOTG) the &#034;lingerie look outfit&#034; doesn't exactly seem appropriate, since I'm not Madonna.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>  But I do have a magenta bra...hmm, now you've got me wondering...
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				<title>fashionlady on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 05:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>fashionlady</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;alas, I agree with you.Maybe some people think that's attractive. It's their's thoughts. We can't control, but we can make ourselves placid. It's not necessary to be affected by others. Be yourself.
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				<title>nicoleb on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 00:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nicoleb</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do it! But i make sure it looks intentional (or at least i hope it does). I have a pretty colored magenta bra that i let the straps show on an all black/grey outfit or a racerback tank with the same color palette in it. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wouldn't do it with a nude color bra though. To me there's....no point? *shrugs*
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				<title>Angie on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 23:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here is where I stand on the matter: &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/28/guidelines-for-acceptable-bra-exposure/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/.....-exposure/&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Makrame on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 22:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Makrame</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Does anyone have recommendations for a good supportive bra (D cup and above) with brightly colored straps?  I have decided that the only bra that provides optimal shape and support for my clothes is Chantelle Rive Gauche, but it mostly comes in a a variety of shades of beige.  I am hoping to get some in black or dark brown during NAS but still that's not much variety.  Not that I am planning to expose the straps but if they do show, I would like it to look a bit less underwear-like.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps#post-637736</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Also being judgemental  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  it is a look I have seen sported by very young women just back from Ibiza...'it looked good with my bikini so I thought I would try it to the local pub' yes but  it's 8 degrees and drizzly.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Of course, it can be traced back to Carrie Bradshaw and I think Britney sported the look pre meltdown
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				<title>Suz on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps#post-637734</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 21:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't like them to show unless they're obviously meant to show. Wow, that's profound! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't mind a peek of a colour-coordinated strap. But I prefer not to let my boring ordinary ones show. And that would be most of my bras!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 20:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I go to great lengths to make sure my bra straps don't show. My thoughts are that a bra strap that's the same color as the top is less noticeable and not a problem. The straps of a regular bra, however, look tacky.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 20:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know:) I do have to shift resources to avoidance of vpl. A girl has to prioritize lol.
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				<title>Aziraphale on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:56:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I remember watching a Sex in the City episode where the character Carrie wears a pretty but normal shape bra with a backless dress.  It was clearly deliberate, and Carrie was all about cutting-edge NYC fashion.  I can't say I'm a fan of that look in particular, but I will admit that it IS a look.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As for bra straps showing, I'm in agreement with the majority.  If the strap is black or coloured, it's fine (especially if it's a pretty bra strap) but a visible utilitarian nude bra strap looks less than fantastic.  Nearly all of my bras are black and quite often, especially in the warmer months, my straps peek out.  I'm not too bothered about it.  I'm much more focused on avoiding vpl.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Mo on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I saw my first (the regular bra under a criss cross backed dress) 10 years ago at a wedding!  So I know it was purposeful.  In Humboldt, CA - so maybe the hippy factor was at play?
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/exposed-bra-straps#post-637600</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:30:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Okay, I'm about to be judgmental... EW.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Never seen that strapless top with bra combo around these parts, either. Perhaps I'm not looking hard enough.
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				<title>Mo on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I admit to wanting to keep mine under wraps if at all possible.  But then, I don't have a bright multicolored bra collection.  Nude, black and white basically are it, with one floral CK that has spaghetti straps.  I try and wear the CK with thin tank or spaghetti tops.&#060;br /&#062;
IK, I have seen regular bras worn with strapless tops, and with crossback tops, on purpose.  I don't like it.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:22:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Who wears strapless tops with a bra?  I'm baffled.
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				<title>rae on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with you, but I prefer a shown strap to be colored. A nude strap showing doesn't look intentional, I guess.
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				<title>Diana on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 19:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't mind as long as they are pretty!  No plain, boring, industrial looking nude straps.
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				<title>Astrid on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:56:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Astrid</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Julie, I agree! Regular bras under strapless tops just look bad.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie has blogged about this subject Dana.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;When wearing a tank or shell I will co-ordinate my bra so that if the straps show I can relax. I feel more comfortable allowing the strap to peek a little than yanking at my top all day long.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I do really, really, really detest regular bras worn under strapless tops  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-sad icon-emoticon-sad "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;On a post from the past , Angie said: &#034;Showing your bra strap is fab in my book IF it’s colour coded with the top. I am wearing that right now actually. I’m wearing a sleeveless black top that’s cut close to the neck. My black bra straps are completely visible. Looks like I’m wearing another top. My nude bra strap wouldn’t look so fab but black on black is fine. &#034;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-bra-straps&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....bra-straps&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
and&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/28/guidelines-for-acceptable-bra-exposure/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/.....-exposure/&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Inge on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:43:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I too have no problem whatsoever with a pretty bra strap showing.
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				<title>christieanne on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It doesn't bother me on others so much as on myself but my bras are more of the ugly nude strap type (I wish they made my size in a cute strap variety) so I am not showing that. It's one of those things though that can be ok on some, and cheap and tawdry (rare usage of that term by me) on others.
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				<title>celia on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are not missing any genes.Bra straps are part of the look in summer in Europe too.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "Exposed bra straps"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 18:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ManidipaM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I find I dislike white and 'flesh' tones showing --- they somehow read more as 'underwear' to me than black or colours, even neutral colours like grey or darker browns being good. And sometimes it's fun to see an intentionally perky or pretty strap peeking out, if the context is right (not in a boardroom, then) --- a friend of mine has rivets on a purple strap, another has yellow flowers that make up the strap, and I quite like to see some denim and wide lace (the only exception to the 'white under wraps' so far, for me) and clear neon ribbons.
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