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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Duo Boots, you need to be punished</title>
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				<title>Fruitful on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 02:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Fruitful</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;cough*worldwide shipping*cough*VAT removed*cough*message them first to check shoe size, they can run large in the foot*Coughing away here, don't mind me...
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				<title>Shoot and Groove on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 02:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Shoot and Groove</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really do adore those boots! Please don't tell me they ship to the US, or take US payment. I'd rather remain in ignorance (and so would my husband, probably, haha).
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				<title>Fruitful on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 02:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Fruitful</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Get them Shoot and Groove! Show us how they look on and make us lose all reason, buying them in the end anyway!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Shoot and Groove on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 18:21:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Shoot and Groove</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Just wanted to pipe in and say . . . ohmygoshIwantthoseboots! Since I am apparently one of the few who actually *prefer* 4&#034;+ heels, I say-- give them all to meeee!
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				<title>Aziraphale on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/duo-boots-you-need-to-be-punished#post-401659</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 16:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hehehe, that's funny. Is it a breach of etiquette if you derail your own thread?  I'll have to add that to my learning curve.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Fruitful on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 06:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Fruitful</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Elisabeth, yes there is a whole 'nother etiquette online, and I think the absence of tone  makes for 2 possibilities (both with problems!). One is to overcompensate with friendliness, politeness, and deference, which I see on a lot of female-dominated boards. The other option is to assume we are all big enough to take a message for its content and not read intent into it. I see this more on male-dominated boards. As you noted, sycophantism and insincerity is a pitfall of the first, while sounding callous and adversarial can be a problem the other way! An advantage of the first is feeling safe and cared for, but it can be at the expense of frankness (and more importantly, humour!) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I find online behaviour fascinating and each forum I visit is like a little ethnographic study  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  Like any community, working out the (tacit) rules is part of the experience.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And yes, it makes me cautious about what I post. So I don't want to write something involved when I'm tired (which is, like, all the time).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;There you go, I derailed my own thread! Breaking my own forum etiquette.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Aziraphale on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 04:51:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fruitful, I'm new to the online forum thing, so I understand what you're saying about being forum stage fright -- or, at least, I somewhat understand.  I'm not an introvert at all, and I seem to have no problem rambling on either in real life or in print (!!), but I'm often hesitant to answer because it's so easy to have your tone misinterpreted.  Or at least I feel like I come off sounding somehow different than I do IRL, with a tone I don't intend.  I try to write exactly as I speak (editing only for off-colour language), and I since I don't want to sound sycophantic or insincere, I think that sometimes I overcompensate and come off as too flippant.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;There's a whole etiquette to forum posts and replies, and I'm still climbing the learning curve.  The first time I posted a question, it was in the comments section of Angie's blog, and I cringed when I realized how inappropriate that was.  I hadn't even realized there is a  forum that exists for just that purpose!
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				<title>Nidhi on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 04:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you should go to them with your feedback!&#060;br /&#062;
Lovely boots though!
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				<title>Fruitful on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 04:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Fruitful</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for all your replies ladies  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  I should totally feedback Duo about it, but I've got a feeling they are just responding to what Angie points out - this phenomenon is everywhere. :(&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Anya I know they &#034;could&#034; work. But I know what my feet like and it's amazing the difference a centimetre makes. I think I could wear these but they wouldn't be go-tos.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It frustrates me that there is no middle ground (except in our wonderful comfort shoe lines like Dansko and Naot).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;BTW I'm sorry I took so long to reply back to my own post lol - it's not like I haven't been here - does anyone else get forum stagefright, where they feel under the spotlight after the exhilaration of starting a conversation wears off and they face the daunting task of responding in a coherent fashion? I think I do this a lot online. Then I think &#034;oh those people must think how rude she is, asks a question then doesn't bother noticing when we answer...&#034; Maybe it's part of why I gravitate to forums in the first place - it's socialising that introverts can cope with. Sometimes  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Aida on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 21:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;(I'm stocking up on 4&#034; heels while there's so many around!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  )
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				<title>Anonymous on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 17:06:04 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, those are really nice boots. I mean, now i lust for them. But maybe if you tried them on,  they could be ok, 9.5cm  with maybe 2cm of platform could make a decent wedge.
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				<title>Beth on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 16:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so glad to hear it's not just my imagination!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;When Talbots (TALBOTS, of all places!), started selling their high heels in the 4&#034; range, I knew I was doomed. I have feet of iron, but 4&#034; are just not practical.
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				<title>rae on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 15:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Agreed. I've only just figured out that my feet like heels, even for casualwear... I'm guessing it took so long to discover this because of the fact that there is no middle ground in heel height!
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				<title>Freckles on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 14:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Freckles</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Totally agree.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Grrr...
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				<title>Isabel on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 14:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How timely !!!   I totally agree with Angie...and you. I was looking for some summer wedges and things are either 3&#034; +  or flat.  Arghhhh !!!
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				<title>Angie on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 14:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not just Duo Boots - the entire Footwear Industry at the moment  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-sad icon-emoticon-sad "></span> 
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				<title>bj1111 on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 13:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;modgrl...i say you rock those thigh high wedges.  they're stable enough for motg and fun enough for date night! meow!!!
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				<title>modgrl on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 13:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;These are gorgeous!
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				<title>Deborah on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 08:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow.  What amazing boots.  Perhaps you should send them some consumer feedback  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Fruitful on "Duo Boots, you need to be punished"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 08:02:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Fruitful</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;for always making half of your boots overly flat, rugged and practical, and the other half mouthwatering yet too high for my daily life. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.duoboots.com/products/boots/detail/calf_fitted_boots/treska/1117/colour/38-tan_leather/variation/1/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.duoboots.com/produc.....riation/1/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;When are you going to learn to make boots that are just as sexy, still with a heel, but shave off say an inch?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Spankings all round!
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