https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 16 Apr 2026 05:05:05 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night/page/2#post-1370036 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 21:37:58 +0000 Sal 1370036@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have had that problem with camera flash and bra issues. &nbsp;In real life it looks fine....just as well I am not a celebrity </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night/page/2#post-1370022 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 21:12:09 +0000 Gigi 1370022@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I know I'm too late to help you out, but I wanted to say that I prefer the pants outfit to the dress, so I'm glad you picked that one. Like goldenpig said, the second outfit reads more "grown-up sexy" than the first, which is a little less dramatic. You look gorgeous! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night/page/2#post-1370016 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 21:03:05 +0000 smiles33 1370016@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, alaskagirl. I think some of the anxiety was also wondering how people would react. There was weird drama (isn't there always?) with certain people and then there's the fear that maybe it would be a painfully awkward event. &nbsp;The fact that we laughed SO MUCH made it really fun. I couldn't believe how friendly folks were and I tried to talk to as many people as I could. &nbsp;So it all worked out! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night/page/2#post-1370012 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 20:58:23 +0000 catgirl 1370012@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh so glad you had fun! And you look absolutely great... The pressure to look like we haven't aged a day is so unfortunate but it's there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night/page/2#post-1370006 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 20:55:22 +0000 smiles33 1370006@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm back! We had a WONDERFUL time (like 10 times better than expected as we were all a bit anxious and nervous about it)&nbsp;and I'm so glad I didn't do the dress. There were 3-4 ladies dressed to the nines (e.g., strapless red dress with 4" Louboutin heels!) but most of us were "dressy casual" and I felt like I fit right in. &nbsp;It was still incredibly hot but the breezy top wasn't constricting at all.</p> <p>Of course, I see this morning on Facebook that the camera flash made my navy top sheer! &nbsp;YIKES. You can totally see the outline of my beige bra. &nbsp;</p> <p>Oh well. It all came together in the end, though&nbsp;I missed my makeup appt. &nbsp;There was a major accident on the freeway (3 of 4 lanes closed) and I almost missed&nbsp;my&nbsp;hair appt. &nbsp;They still took me but as a result,&nbsp;I missed the pre-reunion drinks/appetizers with my girlfriends at a nearby restaurant. &nbsp;</p> <p>Anyhow, thank you all for your feedback!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369962 Sun, 05 Oct 2014 20:04:58 +0000 Sal 1369962@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hope the reunion was fun. &nbsp;Both outfits are great, so pleased it all was coming together for you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369426 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 23:54:41 +0000 Anonymous 1369426@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look fab in both outfits. It's probably too late to comment now but wear the outfit that makes you feel most confident. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369382 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 22:14:31 +0000 unfrumped 1369382@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like both but agree with goldenpig that the pants outfit looks just right for an evening "smart casual " event like this, whereas the dress is more sedate. The main thing I always think is, wear something you look great in!&nbsp; (and feel comfortable, so you'll be relaxed and confident). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369360 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 21:17:31 +0000 goldenpig 1369360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look great in both! I prefer the second outfit with the fluid top and skinny jeans. It feels more sexy/sophisticated rather than just pretty, if you know what I mean. I'd wear the first outfit for a daytime event like a wedding, but the second one at night, it sounds perfect for a reunion. Have fun and stay cool! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369340 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 20:22:48 +0000 DonnaF 1369340@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do I recall that you're in South Bay/Silicon Valley?&nbsp; Uh, the temp. range sounds about right, even if I have you confused w/another Fabber.&nbsp; FWIW, from high school reunions I've attended in the East Bay, your second outfit (with the pants) hits the right note and the first may be a bit overdressed.</p> <p>The guys may not be worrying about their outfit and their shoes, but they ARE worrying about their hair, or rather their lack thereof.</p> <p>Have fun! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369223 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:35:27 +0000 smiles33 1369223@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, ladies! &nbsp;I think the safe choice is the pants and top, since it's more casual. I have spent way too much time agonizing over this to begin with! I want to look polished and almost effortless (though clearly it hasn't been that easy!). &nbsp;</p> <p>Moreover, if I have styled hair (I'm planning to leave it all down, getting a blowout to add more volume and some loose curls)&nbsp;and a full face of makeup, that's going to be a lot and perhaps push the dress over the top?</p> <p>Thanks for letting me ramble on here! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369209 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:16:16 +0000 jackiec 1369209@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like both outfits! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369205 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:13:18 +0000 Diana 1369205@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think they both look great. I like the gold shoes with the navy dress. I think I'd decide based on how casual/dressy you want to be, but I don't think you'll go wrong with either look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369202 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:10:06 +0000 smiles33 1369202@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, Staysfit! I'm so grateful for feedback. My girlfriends are still waffling (some are thinking they still want the top, jeans, heels look despite the heat).</p> <p>The wedges are an interesting pale gold,&nbsp;Cole Haan's Camila wedges. &nbsp;See this stock retail photo. &nbsp;I thought it would help make the outfit a little more casual but also offer a pop of brightness since it's such a dark navy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369194 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:07:22 +0000 Liz 1369194@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First, you're adorable. You look great, and have nothing to worry about.&nbsp;</p> <p>The photos are too dark on my screen to really see the details of the clothes, so I can't really comment on which would be better. Both seem great! I'd wear the one that you seem most comfortable in. It sounds like you would prefer the pants, but worry that the top isn't flattering? Truly, you look great in either. Wear the one that you will feel most confident in. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369192 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 16:05:21 +0000 Staysfit 1369192@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like the dress and think that would be great for your warm weather. I love the detail around the collar, it's very pretty.&nbsp;It's hard for me to tell about the espadrilles along with the dress, I trust that you say they are gold, because on my screen they look off white, and that may be a bit casual also. &nbsp;If they are gold, I think they would be fine. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1369188 Sat, 04 Oct 2014 15:56:04 +0000 smiles33 1369188@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ok, I need some advice. &nbsp;The event is tonight! &nbsp;It is still painfully hot (80+ degrees at 7 pm and we are meeting up&nbsp;at a restaurant with&nbsp;an&nbsp;outdoor patio) so I'm leaning toward a dress now. &nbsp;Here are some photos of me in a simple Boden dress (which I'd accessorize with my gold espadrille wedges and a gold clutch) and one of me in a "fluid"&nbsp;navy blouse with skinny black pants and strappy heels. &nbsp;The latter outfit seems more casual, but&nbsp;I feel like the fluid top is not flattering, though. &nbsp;I still have time to go shopping (but that feels a little desperate).</p> <p>Honest opinions, please? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1366497 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 20:57:35 +0000 Sal 1366497@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, sorry I don't have pics. &nbsp;I am always in such a rush for these events I never have time. &nbsp;Something I should change.</p> <p>I would definitely wear the pants and heels, with great hair and make up the top can be quite simple and you can probably get one on Saturday morning when you have time.</p> <p>I don't always abide by this rule but I sometimes think the hair and makeup are more important than the clothes - and now try and spend the time on these aspects even if wearing a fairly simple outfit. &nbsp;I think this is being in my 40s and I cannot quite rely on youthful looks to get me by &nbsp;(lol)</p> <p>We had a 20 year reunion 5 years ago and it was actually a very happy relaxed evening...so much fun...and no "look at me, I am so successful" type behaviour. &nbsp;It was a while back so my look is not what I would choose now exactly but it was a black layered floaty tank tunic with black trousers (flowy bootcut style) and I cannot remember the shoes at all? &nbsp;While I don't think black is my best colour it does seem to be my safe fall back option!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1366446 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 19:42:24 +0000 jackiec 1366446@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh no! I'm so sad they cancelled your order! Wish I could lend you mine. How about black? That would be nice with black pants..... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1366217 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 15:20:37 +0000 JAileen 1366217@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My 40th was this summer and I skipped it, after enduring the 10th, 20th, and 30th. They begged me to come, so the event would break even. Whatever... I had a separate get-together with my close friends the week before. </p> <p>My impressions:<br /> 10th: Look at me I'm so great.<br /> 20th: Look at these pictures of my kids.<br /> 30th: Wow. Didn't think some of these people would live this long. Sadly, some didn't, having lived hard lives, fueled by drugs.</p> <p>As for your outfit, I think the most important thing is to wear something in your comfort zone. Wearing the black pants and a fluid top sounds good.</p> <p>I hope you have a good time. Be sure to bring lots of pictures of your children! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1366193 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 14:45:43 +0000 smiles33 1366193@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Cheryl: I've got that handled--made appts at Dry Bar for a blowout and Sephora for a makeover (which I haven't done in years since I normally don't wear makeup at all). One of my high school girlfriends observed, "I'm sure the guys aren't stressing at all about what to wear and they don't even have to worry about hair, makeup or nails!" None of us know what we are wearing yet and it's just days away! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1366047 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 07:27:29 +0000 Cheryl Glasgow 1366047@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>And you can always concentrate on an update of make-up and hair if finding a top you are comfortable with doesn't happen.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365998 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 04:45:35 +0000 smiles33 1365998@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ugh, Nordstrom canceled my order! They sold out of the ivory and the other patterned tops are beyond my comfort zone (and not the best colors for me). </p> <p>Back to the drawing board!</p> <p>Clearlyclaire: I'm glad you had fun! I've seen photos from my college friends who went to their reunions and some folks really dressed up. I just think a more relaxed vibe fits my school/community, even though I have some cute sheath dresses that would be great if it were a more business/formal event. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365953 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:38:50 +0000 Anonymous 1365953@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You'll have fun, it's so worth it to go. I just went to my 30th and the attire was all over the map. I wore a printed knit dress I already had and ballet flats. I'm SO glad I didn't rush out and buy a whole new outfit; that would have been overkill for my reunion.<br />Your black pants and strappy sandals sounds perfect. And you just bought jackiec's white top? Wear that with your diamond earrings and you'll be all set. If you have a clutch, that will keep if from feeling too corporate. I have a large semi-casual&nbsp;clutch that works for both day and night, so you might consider one of those if you don't have one. The new top can go to work with a blazer or cardigan on top after the reunion. You gotta love that! Cheers! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365941 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:17:50 +0000 smiles33 1365941@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh wow, so many replies! &nbsp;I&nbsp;just got back to my laptop (was at the park trying to read on my iPhone earlier this afternoon) and&nbsp;have so much to comment on!</p> <p>alaskagirl: I haven't been on the&nbsp;boards long enough to figure out whose style I admire/would like to emulate. I&nbsp;need to click on more WIW threads!</p> <p>jackiec: that top is awesome and&nbsp;I just bought it! It looks fantastic on you and gives off the right kind of&nbsp;vibe: not fussy but not too minimalist either, and I think&nbsp;very stylish&nbsp;and relaxed! &nbsp;I can't believe it so budget-friendly!</p> <p>Diana: my one blouse/button down&nbsp;shirt is a very structured classic white button down, so a bit tapered to me&nbsp;and not flowy at all! &nbsp;But I'm totally willing to invest in some new&nbsp;pieces, especially if they can also be work-appropriate.</p> <p>alaskagirl (post 2!): I think a&nbsp;little black dress is overly dressy. I grew up in Silicon Valley (back when the&nbsp;big tech companies were HP and Apple, not LinkedIn, Facebook, etc.!)&nbsp;and&nbsp;folks here are super casual as it is. &nbsp;If I were in SF, I'd&nbsp;consider a dress, but I think most people will be in pants/trendy jeans. I<br /> don't think I have a "fantasy me" and there isn't even a celebrity I&nbsp;would emulate. &nbsp;To be perfectly candid (and this is a bit embarrassing),&nbsp;I've always liked "Posh Spice" Victoria Beckham's sexy interpretation&nbsp;of classic silhouettes. &nbsp; Or, while I don't watch the show, everything&nbsp;I've seen of Kerry Washington's wardrobe on Scandal has caught my eye!</p> <p>ummlila: I think embellishments&nbsp;might be too dramatic for me, but thank you for suggesting it! &nbsp;I'm still&nbsp;coming to terms with bolder style choices and think I need more time to&nbsp;transition beyond my very safe conservative choices thus far.</p> <p>staysfit: I *think* I'm deep&nbsp;Autumn, even though I love Winter colors. I should start a post and ask folks.&nbsp;Deep saturated colors like&nbsp;dark purple and navy are my two favorites (not&nbsp;including black). &nbsp;I wear black and I am sure it's not the most flattering&nbsp;color, but it's been so easy. &nbsp;Well, that's why I'm here--to expand my&nbsp;horizons and learn about what colors and styles are more flattering!</p> <p>kiwigal: do you have photos&nbsp;here?&nbsp; I need to go search WIW to see some outfits. &nbsp;Your&nbsp;outfits&nbsp;sound great and your style sounds like the type I might like very&nbsp;much!</p> <p>Joy: I'm glad you had fun at your&nbsp;reunion! &nbsp;To be honest, I was reluctant at first (the 20 pounds I've put&nbsp;on since high school being one reason), but then I decided to just do it since&nbsp;so many of us have gained weight (thank you, Facebook, for letting me see my&nbsp;classmates!) and we had some great times in high school. &nbsp;Citron sounds&nbsp;WAY too bold for me, but I like the idea of simple clean lines.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365828 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 01:10:20 +0000 Anonymous 1365828@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just got back from my *cough* 50th *cough* reunion. I don't think that you can go wrong with great fitting slim black pants and a fluid top. One of the most outstanding outfits I saw was dark wash skinny jeans, heels, and a gorgeous citron colored silk long sleeved button-down tunic shirt with full back detail. It was worn untucked and the movement was a big part of the appeal. The shirt had fabulous drape that had to be silk rather than polyester.<br /> Whatever you wear, relax send have fun. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365818 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 01:04:00 +0000 Sal 1365818@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think pants and heels is a great idea, however a dress is always fun. &nbsp;But an evening dress is less versatile than a evening top.<br />At the moment my go to evening looks are:</p> <p>black/gold/green/pink kimono jacket (mostly black and gold)<br />Black pointy heels<br />jeans<br />Black evening tee</p> <p>In the weekend I wore<br />Black pencil skirt<br />Same black evening tee<br />Black pointy heels<br />Bold necklace (black, gold, silver - heavy)<br />My tee is sheer at the back so i wear a black bodysuit underneath</p> <p>I also wore<br />Black and white printed ankle pants<br />black heels<br />the same black tee</p> <p>None of these are super dressy, but elevated to the evening with hair and makeup and high heels and a clutch bag. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365807 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:52:28 +0000 Staysfit 1365807@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If you have autumn coloring I wouldn't wear black near your face. You would be better off with Ivory, or if you want something richer maybe Aubergine. I think keeping things simple is best for a class reunion. Some great jewelry, nice shoes and simple lines to your clothes. IMO People who add too much embellishment look like they are trying too hard at these type of events. I love the idea of a floaty top in a flattering neckline and color with your pants and some great shoes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365795 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:37:17 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1365795@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maybe a more embellished top -- sequins, studs or the like. I'm a fan of Rebecca Taylor for these occasions (one of her dresses worked well for my 30th) <a href="http://www.rebeccataylor.com/tops/embellished-neck-blouse/invt/rt614942b105&#038;bklist=icat,4,shop,rtshop,rttops" rel="nofollow">http://www.rebeccataylor.com/t.....hop,rttops</a> but here in finds also is a good possibility if your arms make you happy:</p> <p><a href="http://m.whitehouseblackmarket.com/store/browse/product.jsp?maxRec=12&#038;pageId=1&#038;productId=570114164&#038;viewAll=&#038;prd=Extended+Shoulder+Bubble+Hem+Surplice+Top&#038;subCatId=&#038;color=1179&#038;fromSearch=true&#038;inSeam=&#038;posId=6&#038;catId=cat210001&#038;cat=&#038;onSale=&#038;colorFamily=&#038;maxPg=1&#038;size=" rel="nofollow">http://m.whitehouseblackmarket.....#038;size=</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/dress-me-for-my-20th-high-school-reunion-this-saturday-night#post-1365774 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:17:48 +0000 catgirl 1365774@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sure, you can't go wrong with a simple black dress, but do you think everyone will be wearing that? Don't do something super out of your comfort zone as you may already be feeling awkward enough at a reunion (I know I will).&nbsp; </p> <p>Did you have a "fantasy you" to spin off?&nbsp; Again, any forum members you would emulate? Then you can solicit specific suggestions from them based on their own closet.</p>