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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Drawn to it, but how would I wear it? https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 15 May 2026 15:49:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415729 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 15:04:46 +0000 Mo 415729@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thanks again for the thumbs up everyone!! I'm pretty excited to put them in action. Denise, sorry to hear you had a bad BHFO experience! These actually came from a different seller. The dress was my BFHO purchase. And, yes, we will finally be moving back home. The BF's mother is needing shoulder surgery and at 78, she can't do a Tahoe winter alone in such circumstances. So, at some point this month we will be packing it all up in the truck and driving, driving, driving lol. Deborah on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415641 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 09:49:16 +0000 Deborah 415641@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Mo I am very late to this one but just wanted to chime in and say these shoes are just stunning. I have nothing to add but agree that these could be very versatile shoes and will go with pants, jeans, dresses and skirts. Do have fun with them. CocoLion on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415636 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 08:42:29 +0000 CocoLion 415636@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Great find. I had a bad experience with BHFO and I'm still feeling negative about the whole thing. Very strong-arm approach to customer service and inflexible. On the other hand, I've had some great experiences with sellers and return to their stores. You are moving back to Tahoe? I am so excited for you! Sally on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415598 Sat, 03 Sep 2011 04:24:02 +0000 Sally 415598@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have a pair of these type shoes and I wear them all the time. They dress my jeans up and I wear with a mid length skirt kind of 1940s style. I get heaps of compliments on them. It really works with my lifestyle because I can wear to work and out and it dresses up something that would look quite casual otherwise. Mind you if you live a fairly casual lifestyle, they may not be as versatile Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415481 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 23:19:48 +0000 Mo 415481@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Just for fun: they look great walking away, too! I think I'm in love. <3 Thanks for sharing in my joy ladies :) They won't get proper wear until I'm back in CA, but that is suddenly happening this month so . . . not too long to wait! Aida on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415437 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 22:07:30 +0000 Aida 415437@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh they look great! Definitely works well with skirts/dresses (hope your eye keeps adjusting to this look ^^), and all the fall options mentioned above too. rae on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415335 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 19:04:54 +0000 rae 415335@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ LOVE these! I can see them with sweater/fleece tights and sweater-dresses, your wrap dress pictured above, slim black pants and a blazer, midis, vests, cozy tunics... ahem, I think they will see lots of use. Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415278 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 17:02:01 +0000 Mo 415278@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I imagined this outift with my dark gray leggings, but they were packed away. I had a lot of trepidation about bare legs with them. Still do, actually lol. But I can see them with leggings and/or pants all season no problem! Debbie on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415276 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 17:00:14 +0000 Debbie 415276@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Very cute shoes! I think you will get a lot of wear out these. ButterflyLady on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415274 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 16:56:13 +0000 ButterflyLady 415274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Malina - they are gorgeous, and love how you've styled them. I've just posted a 'keep or return' about something similar ... and was also thinking about with skirts (not that I have any skirts at the moment). Like you it's way out of my comfort zone (and you have legs that are slim and go on forever, and I don't!). Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-415270 Fri, 02 Sep 2011 16:49:56 +0000 Mo 415270@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Well, they arrived! I am a little bummed that they are 3 1/2" instead of 3 1/4". I know that doesn't sound like a lot, but 3" is my true comfort level. On the plus side, the tongue continues the low vamp, with it's heart shape, and so I feel better pairing these with skirt/dresses. I packed up all my pants and leggings in anticipation of moving later this month, so I was forced to put them with a skirt - ha! I could get used to these I know it's kind of uninspired to pair them with purple and black, but newbies have to start somewhere! And I'm a definite newbie at oxfords with skirts. Check out the fun heart details! Sara L. on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-412091 Sun, 28 Aug 2011 02:22:23 +0000 Sara L. 412091@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I learn so much from reading these posts. It never occurred to me that someone might read something like this and then try to snatch their item on ebay. I guess I'm too trusting. Anyway... great shoes and I think they would go with so many things as people here have suggested - jeans, skirts, dresses. cjh on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-412035 Sun, 28 Aug 2011 00:41:14 +0000 cjh 412035@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Mo, I wouldn't snatch those away from you! but I understand there are those who might. They are great, I hope you love them when they arrive. Zoe on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-411581 Fri, 26 Aug 2011 23:20:52 +0000 Zoe 411581@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Actually, Mo, I would believe it. I buy a lot of basic t's and boatneck t's from VS. Do get those shoes. They are smashing! celia on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-411210 Fri, 26 Aug 2011 13:14:23 +0000 celia 411210@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Those shoes are great and I'm totally on the team 'wear it with skirts'.Actually my first though was 'wear it with a midi skirt'. I think they would also look good with the grey cigarette pants. Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-411206 Fri, 26 Aug 2011 13:02:40 +0000 Mo 411206@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ RoseandJoan, thanks for the example! I know gals here wear them with skirts and dresses but it's so foreign to me, I will have to take baby steps lol. Zoe, the dress is by Victoria's Secret, believe it or not! I got it from BHFO sellers on eBay. <a href="http://www.ebay.com/sch/Dresses-/63861/i.html?_nkw=bhfo&_catref=1&_fln=1&_trksid=p3286.c0.m282" rel="nofollow">http://www.ebay.com/sch/Dresse.....86.c0.m282</a> And CJH, the shoes were also an eBay find. I wasn't ignoring you, just have heard that folks have had things bought out from under them and didn't want to risk that! I trust all board members I interact with to respect other's stalked items, but there are still hundreds of lurkers out there I've never met who just may want my shoe! I'm excited to have them for the fall and can't wait to get them in the mail! cjh on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410691 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 18:34:55 +0000 cjh 410691@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love the shoes, and seems like they would match all those outfits. Where are you going to find them? My try at the link says unavailable, and I did an internet search and couldn't find them. Are they in your store? RoseandJoan on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410690 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 18:34:07 +0000 RoseandJoan 410690@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think you have quite a few styling options Malina! I have a similar pair in black and they have been my go to heels for the last five years. I wear them with all types of skirts, dresses and trousers and espeically love to wear them with textured hose. It did take a little while for me to get used to how I looked in them due to the high vamp being less leg lengthening than the pumps I wore previously donned but now the cost per wear must be about 50p, I say go for it. Zoe on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410685 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 18:32:32 +0000 Zoe 410685@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think those shoes would be terrific with the looks you've shown here. Everyone else has given you great advice. Now you give me some, okay? Where can I find that dress? I've never found a wrap dress that works for me -- but I'm willing to try again with that one! Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410668 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 18:20:41 +0000 Mo 410668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hmm, offhand I could have substituted them in the blue jacket and skinny jeans pic above. And there's these? Ooh, and I plan on getting dark gray cigarette cords this winter, too. Thanks for putting me through my paces - I need to do this rather than just think 'those would be dreamy . . . ' lol! catgirl on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410640 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 17:37:57 +0000 catgirl 410640@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am all about you trying new things, as long as these gorgeous shoes are not orphaned! Why don't you come up with some outfits to post here as a mock-up of ways you could wear them? They definitely suit you as they are still very feminine for oxfords. Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410628 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 16:54:21 +0000 Mo 410628@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Okay, I will try and get outside of my box with a few dress and skirt pairings! Interestingly, I feel these are pretty much in line with my mountain/cold weather style. Perhaps since I've only been in FL since I joined here, only the warm weather side of my style has been portrayed? I am all about cute jackets and snazzy shoes to 'up' the jean factor when I'm back home Lori on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410620 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 16:36:21 +0000 Lori 410620@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I adore them Malina, and definitely could see you wearing them with the dress and the outfit you posted. They are KILLER in my book!!!! Angie on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410617 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 16:02:18 +0000 Angie 410617@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I definitely think so, Malina. I'm excited about this new look for you :) Great suggestions from bj. bj1111 on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410614 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:55:40 +0000 bj1111 410614@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ mo, what would justify the purchase would be frequency of wear as well as mixability. since you wear jeans so often to go out, i can see you rocking these for a dinner, a club, a music jam session. plus, i think it can transition your summery dresses into autumn even winter if you waterproof the suede. Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410593 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:25:43 +0000 Mo 410593@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hee hee, Una - yes, I am soooo drawn to the two tone, and even tri color, looks lately. I like to don a heel to go out at nights but need the warmth/coverage when it's cold and snowy, as I know you understand! I do have some deep berry and purple in my wardrobe along with blues and greens. My everyday bag is a purple crossbody come to think of it. Angie, do you think it could even go with, say, my blackberry colored wrap dress (pic 1)?? I have such a mental block about oxfords with skirts/dresses lol! pic 2 is the shoes I am essentially planning to replace with these. Angie on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410587 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:22:24 +0000 Angie 410587@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ With hose and skirts/dresses! So pretty catgirl on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410586 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:22:24 +0000 catgirl 410586@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, those are very Fluevog-like. Do you have these colors in your wardrobe? They would also work with neutrals or olive. That said, realistically when would you wear them? They are not casual or around the house shoes. You could probably find something similar but a litle less dressy. What is it you love - the two tone, the shape, the heel? Just trying to keep you on the straight and narrow! DressLover on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410584 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:20:50 +0000 DressLover 410584@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I think they would work with a variety of looks, especially dresses. Just don't wear them with ruffled ankle socks. Mo on "Drawn to it, but how would I wear it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/drawn-to-it-but-how-would-i-wear-it#post-410582 Thu, 25 Aug 2011 15:17:47 +0000 Mo 410582@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So I can't get these out of my mind <a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/harajuku-lovers-packard-oxford/3054201" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/ha.....rd/3054201</a> but, besides with jeans, I can't really picture how I'd wear them. I don't have pencil skirts or any office type attire. Is pairing just with jeans and leggings enough to justify adding them to the winter wardrobe? I am donating/selling my gray pumps I never wore and was in the market for a bootie in replacement when I stumbled on these. Would they work with dresses?