https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 15 Apr 2026 01:51:48 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2191271 Fri, 30 Apr 2021 15:23:22 +0000 Zaeobi 2191271@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol true - I suppose the more layers you have to put on, the more cumbersome it may feel. </p> <p>Haha yes, check yourself first by all means! Thank you. Whether other people are looking at me or not is not my main concern when dressing the way I do, but comfort is - like I mentioned with the 'sticky elbows' thing, that's a personal preference. I doubt anyone else would notice (or even care) if my inner elbows were sticky </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2191203 Fri, 30 Apr 2021 08:05:53 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2191203@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Is there any season when having to wear clothes doesn’t feel like a chore, lol? I’m way into telling people to “lower your gaze” if they think someone else is wearing too little. You look very classy and comfortable in your covered-up looks. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2191178 Fri, 30 Apr 2021 03:10:46 +0000 Zaeobi 2191178@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks <b>@suntiger</b> &amp; <b>@rachylou</b>. I think you've hit the nail on the head as to why I often shy away from drape - I'm still trying to figure out my Kibbe Type (Soft Classic? (Theatrical) Romantic? Who knows, lol?) but whichever type it is, I know it's one that requires more 'polish' in order to look 'pulled together' (as you said). Others can pull off the 'artfully disheveled' look, but there's nothing 'artful' about it on me </p> <p><b>@Helena</b> I never thought smart casual (or at least not 'home &amp; exercise only') jogging bottoms would be a gap my closet needed to fill, but I guess I can thank COVID for that Thank you - I'm wearing another one of these cropped cardigans in chartreuse today. So glad I duplicated - they add arm coverage in hot weather, but without the bulk </p> <p>I totally get that - sun damage isn't fun! Is the sun quite strong where you are, too? Don't worry, I'm not looking to shame anyone who would rather have part of their legs/ arms/ whatever out in the summer. Just that those of us who prefer to cover up more tend to have a hard time finding appropriate clothing in the summer (I actually do most of my summer shopping off-season, so that I can find modest-for-me pieces for cheap lol). Practical is the most important thing for me too (especially in a season where even having to wear clothes can feel like a chore - although I guess winter can feel like that too, if you have to deal with pulling on snow boots every morning &amp; whatnot ) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190973 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 14:22:56 +0000 Anonymous 2190973@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like both versions! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190971 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 14:17:04 +0000 Helena 2190971@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Echoing others; these all look great but the first two are particularly fab (my favourite is the jogger style). Love the colour of your jacket too!</p> <p>Team covered up high five - although I do wear shorts and t's for practical-to-me purposes, I prefer covering up even in the summer; more comfortable for me and I like the extra sun protection too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190862 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 03:18:14 +0000 rachylou 2190862@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These are superb. Perhaps my most favourite yet. They feel complete and pulled together, which can be a challenge with drape imo. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190180 Tue, 27 Apr 2021 00:35:11 +0000 Zaeobi 2190180@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Interesting - thanks for the feedback! Yes, I think wrists &amp; ankles might be two of the points I need on show in order to add structure (the other being the base of my neck - unless my shoulders are well-fitted, in which case it's JFE without). I think you're right that the wide legged trousers feel more 'artsy' - I usually wouldn't wear them to work, for example, unless it's with a much quieter top half (like a long sleeve top tucked in). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190060 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 15:17:22 +0000 slim cat 2190060@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think harem pants has more structure, less volume overall and slightly more feminine for the reason of showing slim ankles - it's very cute on you! Wide leg pants are fun in a slightly more relaxed way and easy to play with changing accessories like shoes, bags, jewelry, hat, etc.<br />I like both on you . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190042 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 13:55:33 +0000 Zaeobi 2190042@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, ladies! It's interesting to see the difference in opinions between the wide legged trousers &amp; the harem pants. If you feel one way or the other, would be interested to know why (if you're willing to share) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190039 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 13:26:58 +0000 kellygirl 2190039@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The jogger style in 1 is fab but the widelegs are even fabber on you. Love the voluminous legs with the cropped sweater. So chic! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190033 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 13:17:15 +0000 Star (Lise) 2190033@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All look good but particularly love the first pics. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190027 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 12:55:51 +0000 Zaeobi 2190027@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>@slim cat</b> You too can pull it off! Like <b>@shevia</b> said, it just takes a little experimenting with structure at key points to identify your JFE (Just Flattering Enough) angle </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190026 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 12:54:05 +0000 Zaeobi 2190026@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>@Sloper</b> Thanks, the hat is from Sol a Mer, the result of some serious internet sleuthing - it's actually a UV protective (completely opaque), water resistant style which even has a secret stretchy band that can hold your card etc. I've worn it hiking &amp; the ties stay in place without digging in. I have another in coral red too </p> <p>They accidentally sent me a final sale version that's one size too small, so have been thinking of putting it up in the forum in case anyone is interested. Glad you like it </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2190011 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 12:10:17 +0000 Zaeobi 2190011@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>@smittie @Bonnie @Jenni NZ</b> Thanks for the vote of confidence Cropped toppers are a relatively new silhouette for me (a few years) but I like them </p> <p><b>@Jenn</b> I'm a pear shape too - I used to shy away from the wide legged look because I feel it emphasises the difference between my top &amp; bottom even *more*. But the Great COVID Casualisation has made it easier to find ankle cuffed pants that aren't thick jogging bottoms, which help to temper the volume a little </p> <p>Thank you <b>@Angie &amp; @FashIntern</b> - I think the trouser jeans aren't necessarily 'bad' but they're a bit of a predictable choice (possibly even a little dated with the long top, re: <b>@Sally's</b> comment about tucking instead?) I still can't seem to part with then whenever I try them on though (they've made it through 10+ years of culls, so there must be *something* still drawing me to them, but I just can't figure out what!) </p> <p>I think my modesty preferences are a mix of my cultural upbringing but also (as I'm slowly realising) just part of my innate personality too. I've tried experimenting with shorter clothes but I just don't feel comfortable in public like that (TMI perhaps lol but having to shave my legs just to wear a skirt is too much effort for me! And I know many people like t-shirts or tank tops in the summer, but for me there's nothing worse than the being a walking oil slick in the summer &amp; then feeling that sweat rub against me when I bend my elbows I don't know if that makes sense to anyone else lol but I think I just have fairly sensitive skin - I squirm just seeing folk here sit on public transport in short shorts). No judgement from me towards anyone who prefers to dress differently, of course - I just know I'd be miserable if my thighs were sticking to a train seat or I could feel my forearm suction itself to my bicep every time I want to pick up my bag or something :P</p> <p>I grew up being forced into wearing uncomfortably sequinned &amp; starched shalwar kameez that would always scratch against my skin, so now I like to prioritise my comfort. Also I don't tend to burn in the sun but I will sometimes develop little milia &amp; redness instead since moving here. Keeping myself covered in the harsh sun feels sensible here at least (in Brazil, the sun felt different - don't know how to explain it but I would often just tan a golden brown colour instead. Think it might be the city pollution?) </p> <p>Long story short, I just feel more comfortable covered up but in my way (for example, waist definition is generally frowned upon culturally - if I'm wearing high waisted pants, I'm expected to cover up the crotch &amp; peaches with a long top.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189956 Mon, 26 Apr 2021 03:18:49 +0000 Jaime 2189956@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fantastic! The need for structure at key points resonated with me. I like how the cropped cardigan provides it without disrupting the vibe of the whole outfit. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189918 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 23:51:30 +0000 Sally 2189918@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great looks.&nbsp; i think you really suit the harem pants and wide leg pants (the wide leg pants being my favourite).&nbsp; I like the jeans too but prefer semi-tucked for some reason...I think that is a bias of mine.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189910 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 22:30:23 +0000 slim cat 2189910@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Harem pants and wide leg ones - wish I could wear those with similar results .<br /> Fab looks on you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189896 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 21:24:16 +0000 Jenni NZ 2189896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>They all look good! I love the cropped cardigan over longer top though so my eye is drawn to that rather than the bottoms.<br /> I think my preference is harem pants first, wider pants second, jeans third. Same order as the pics. But truly they all look good. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189877 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 20:24:58 +0000 Sloper 2189877@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes to the harems and wide legs with this top and cropped sweater.&nbsp; And love the hat too! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189876 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 20:21:15 +0000 Bonnie 2189876@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All versions are great but my favorite is the harem pants. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189843 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 18:45:44 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2189843@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Awesome! The third look is fine, but the first two knock it out of the park. You are a star ;)<br /> You mention the modesty requirement—is that environmental, or your own wish? (Or it could be that you agree with your surroundings). Either way, you do this so well!</p> <p>PS: glad to hear you are vaccinated. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189840 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 18:37:33 +0000 Angie 2189840@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ALL GOOD.</p> <p>I'm particularly loving the wide legs! #4 and #5 are a KILLER silhouette on you! My next fave is #1 to #3.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Zaeobi</b>, you rock draped looks - milk it </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189838 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 18:28:29 +0000 Jenn 2189838@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like the draped bottom/fitted top silhouette too. It could just be that it suits my pear shape and, like you, I usually prefer at least a bit of structure. My favorite combo here is the pants in #1-3. So good! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189834 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 18:18:33 +0000 smittie 2189834@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow!<br /> They’re all good, but I love the looser bottoms (harems and wide legs) on you!<br /> Great inspo! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/draped-bottoms-not-top#post-2189810 Sun, 25 Apr 2021 17:31:40 +0000 Zaeobi 2189810@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I realised that I had actually worn the outfit in photos #4-#6 *before* Angie made this post (for my first vaccine dose, since the cardigan is easily removeable for the jab). And whilst it isn't a fully draped or voluminous outfit (I need structure at key points (shoulder line, natural waist etc) to keep things from looking sloppy on me), I feel like there are perhaps some similarities from this to look #4 from the post (the shorter topper, longer tunic top (although mine is rounded rather than a sharkbite hem) &amp; wide legged non-stiff trousers. Draping done my way </p> <p>So I recreated the outfit with a few different bottoms, just to experiment with the visual effect:<br /> Photos #1 - #3 is with a pair of harem pants (the long cuffs can be rolled up to create volume in different places) &amp; photos #7-#10 are my trouser jeans (debating whether I should hold onto them or lean more into this draped/ curved/ looser bottoms look instead? Last photo is to show where the jeans waistband hits me in comparison to my hand at my natural waist) </p>