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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?</title>
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				<title>The Cat on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-you-have-a-motto-or-phrase-to-live-by/page/2#post-2272499</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2022 07:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>The Cat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#034;Just as you want men to do to you, do the same way to them.&#034;--Jesus Christ (in Luke 6:31).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#034;Commit your way to Jehovah: rely on him and he will act in your behalf&#034;.--Psalms 37:5.
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				<title>Lisa W on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-you-have-a-motto-or-phrase-to-live-by/page/2#post-2271519</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2022 14:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa W</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#034;Comparison is the thief of joy&#034;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Such a fun post and thread for me - I love slogans (mottos, et al) and this one is from my 2022 NY Resolutions.&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>Bijou on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-you-have-a-motto-or-phrase-to-live-by/page/2#post-2269764</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2022 14:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've really enjoyed reading these quotes. I don't have a personal motto, but take inspiration from different quotes from time to time. The ones that are resonating with me at the moment are:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Life is full of endless possibilities; and&#060;br /&#062;Don't let other people define who you are.
&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>rachylou on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2022 19:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;RandJ — you know, along those lines, I’ve found Cher’s *Whatever* from the movie, Clueless, freeing in all sorts of ways.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Your daughter is not alone in that anxiety. One of my boss’s daughters hasn’t returned to school in person because of it. She hangs with us at work now.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-you-have-a-motto-or-phrase-to-live-by#post-2269580</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2022 16:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My daughter has really been struggling with anxiety and had been unable to engage in every day tasks since coming out of lockdown.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Due to sheer determination on her part and some timely support she has started to say &#034;screw it, I'll do it&#034; and it has had such a positive impact that I have adopted it too. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have far too many barriers in my head and my daughter's moto is helping to gain perspective
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				<title>Jules on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2022 13:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This isn't a guiding principal so much as a way to keep pushing through the day when I am feeling overwhelmed or &#034;depression exhausted&#034;...&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#034;Just Keep Swimming&#034; - Dory, Finding Nemo
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				<title>Carla on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 23:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My longest held motto (I have a coffee mug and a pillow!) is: &#038;nbsp;Keep Calm And Carry On!
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				<title>JAileen on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 14:32:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;If I had one, it would probably be, “It could be worse.” &#038;nbsp;Instead of focusing on the bad, there are usually good things to focus on.
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				<title>Janet on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 12:34:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lately mine has come from something I talk about in presentations I give on photographic seeing:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Open heart, open mind, open eyes.
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				<title>Aquamarine on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2022 03:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lately this has been my motto: “Right now, it’s like this.” Similar to Jenn’s, helping me to stay grounded in the moment.
&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 23:02:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love that one UmmLila!
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				<title>MsMary on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 19:38:38 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;When we were first married my husband and I made a list of rules for life. They don't all hold up, but I think these do:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;Be kind&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Use it or loose it&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Have young friends&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Look where you want to go (that's a bicycling thing -- as opposed to looking at the obstacles between you and where you want to go)&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;No chair noises (i.e. no sighing, moaning, groaning when getting in or out of a chair -- it makes you seem old!)&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Assume good intentions&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;People are not improvement projects&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>UmmLila (Lisa) on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 18:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like Jenn's but this one is speaking to me lately.
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				<title>MsMaven on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2022 22:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lots of wisdom here. Thank you to all who contributed. I'll get back later to each of you. Trying to catch up--just back from anniversary trip to Santa Barbara. 57th.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Helena on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2022 15:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Jenn, that is a perfect breath prayer/mantra. I shall be reciting this today!
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				<title>Jenn on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2022 00:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mine recently has been, “right here, right now.” That is, don’t live by dwelling on the past (depression) or fearing the future (anxiety).  Continually and repeatedly find the present and live where you are.
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				<title>Carla on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 18:59:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like Angie’s one about expectations. &#038;nbsp;I’ve tried to go through life with ‘reasonable’ or ‘realistic’ expectations - maybe even reduced expectations, and been delighted by outcomes far more often than I’ve been disappointed.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Cardiff girl on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 18:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cardiff girl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;When times are hard ,remember all this will pass,or another way of saying the same thing,in a years time this will be just a memory.l think it helps to remember how small our daily concerns generally are in the great span of history.l find it helps to bring perspective if not comfort.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 17:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not a motto but sometimes when I wake up crabby  I remind myself that I’ve woken up on the right side of the grass. Leads to a smile, which is a better way to start the day.
&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Carla on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 17:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;“People are more important than things.” &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Laurie on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 16:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love a lyric from a song whose title I can't remember - &#034;time exists just on your wrist, so don't panic...&#034;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(Oh Suntiger....I know, I know, I know...)
&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>LJP on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 14:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shoulders back, core engaged, chin tucked.
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				<title>Helena on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 12:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Suntiger, sending huge love xx
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				<title>Anonymous on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 11:21:41 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#034;Nolite te bastardes corborondorum&#034; (from the Handmaids Tale, which I just started reading).
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				<title>Bonnie on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 04:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Be Kind, Learn Something New Every Day, Keep Moving, and Relax the Back!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Helena on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2022 00:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do, I have two actually. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;One is the &#034;golden rule&#034; as expressed so beautifully by so many of the worlds wisdom and spiritual traditions.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And the second is the question &#034;What would Love do?&#034;
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				<title>cat2 on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2022 22:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I confess that the Survivor motto got me through umpteen years in a competitive work environment:  Outwit.  Outplay.  Outlast.  I will need to retool for retirement!
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				<title>April on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2022 19:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm paraphrasing here, but close enough:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;If you have more than you need, don't build a higher fence, build a longer table.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;/b&#062;This one isn't a proverb, just something I've been saying to the younger women in my life right now: &#034;Create the world *you* want to live in, and create the soul you want to live with.&#034;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;b&#062;&#060;/b&#062;&#060;b&#062;&#060;/b&#062;&#060;b&#062;&#060;/b&#062;&#060;br /&#062;Finally, my old office in an elementary school had the following hung on my door: &#034;Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.&#034;&#038;nbsp; Plato (though attributed to many later folk who were probably quoting)
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				<title>Sloper on "Do you have a motto or phrase to live by?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jun 2022 19:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#034;Attitude of gratitude&#034; helps on particularly rough days.
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mine is cliched, but has been borne out again and again: &#038;nbsp;&#060;b&#062;Don’t judge a book by its cover.&#060;/b&#062; &#038;nbsp;When I look below the surface, I am constantly amazed!
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