https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 25 Apr 2026 02:07:39 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1072358 Sat, 02 Nov 2013 20:50:06 +0000 Lyn D. 1072358@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Missed this Deborah.<br />I like the jeans you were wearing in the blue kimono pics, actually.<br />Did the Target ones come in different lengths? Too long and the roll can look bulky, and&nbsp;you can't wear un-rolled unless you alter, too short and they are non-PPL. unrolled, so not so versatile.<br />I have the latter&nbsp;problem with the Gap ones, but love them for the very light, super soft denim material and the slightly distressed look.<br />So you can probably achieve the BF feel by shopping your own denim collection,&nbsp;without actually buying, a sort of BF fantasy </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1072350 Sat, 02 Nov 2013 20:36:47 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1072350@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb - just saw your update. Glad you tried them and good for you for recognizing what you don't want </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1072238 Sat, 02 Nov 2013 17:04:07 +0000 Anonymous 1072238@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am actually decomissioning mine. I feel that I have given them a fair chance, but the only thing they do is to make me look larger, which is the antithesis of what my style goals are. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1072196 Sat, 02 Nov 2013 15:41:11 +0000 annaj 1072196@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I was so looking forward to your boyfriend style! I thought it may have inspired me to try them myself! Instead, I will stick to my skinnies and wait for other inspiration!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1071886 Sat, 02 Nov 2013 02:50:06 +0000 Mia 1071886@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Keep searching. &nbsp;I usually dislike a light wash jean but purchased a pair of bf's last spring because of the comfort and absolutely loved them. &nbsp;I found the light wash paired nicely with black which I know you love like I do. &nbsp;The light also seemed easier to dress up which seemed counter intuitive but they are fab with a &nbsp;white blazer and heels for example.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068764 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 19:38:24 +0000 HelenInCanada 1068764@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the darker ones, Deborah! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068639 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 17:34:29 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1068639@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie is great, isn't she? <br />I think you ought to try them! And if you don't like this particular pair, persist in looking, because there are SO many variations in fit and silhouette with them. I agree with Suz's advice to consider whether you want full-length or ones that will always be worn rolled shorter. For your first pair, that is. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068624 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 17:20:45 +0000 kkards 1068624@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>don't we all? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068618 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 17:17:53 +0000 Hil 1068618@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would need to see them on you Deb, but knowing your incredible style talent, you would likely rock them in a way that is totally Deborah! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068564 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 16:30:45 +0000 minimalist 1068564@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ROTFLOL @Angie's comment. What a headline, Deborah! </p> <p>My human bf has asked why I wear tight jeans, and said he can't imagine wearing anything that form-fitting; he likes the way they look, but guesses they're uncomfortable. I'm happy to try a looser cut (a bit like putting a sweater on bc your mum's cold), though I have no idea what to look for or what defines a BF jean besides looseness.</p> <p>Sounds like there's a Team Lighter Wash / Team Darker Wash thing going on ...</p> <p>Can't wait to see your BF pics, Deborah. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068552 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 16:23:24 +0000 catgirl 1068552@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My favorite wash is the sort of beaten-up dark blue that looks like a pair of old Levis.&nbsp; I was early on the BF wagon and the Gap ones were perfect.&nbsp; </p> <p>You may have to rethink some toppers as my usual long loose tunic looks with skinnies didn't go so well with BFs.&nbsp; Slouchy sweatshirts and more cropped/tucked looks with less volume worked better for me.</p> <p>You need 'em! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068503 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 15:30:02 +0000 Diana 1068503@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am a big fan of BFs and I really like them to mix up my jeans wardrobe a bit (although I do love my skinnies too).&nbsp; My personal preference for wash is actually for something lighter or dark with more distressing/fading.&nbsp; I do not like the uniform super dark blue wash on BFs; I think it's too formal and clashes with the more casual style.&nbsp; That said, I do have a pair of medium-dark wash SBFs (but they have some fading) and like them.</p> <p>Also, I think you need different pairs for wearing cropped/rolled and full length/ankle length.&nbsp; At least for me there is just too much length differential there for a single pair to work. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068487 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 15:14:23 +0000 annaj 1068487@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd try them, but I like a longer leg length for my jeans. I don't think I can get my head around cuffing them, and wearing them shorter. That's just not a "me" look. I still prefer my skinnies, which I buy in a longer length for "scrunch" around my ankles, but if I found the right pair of boyfriends, they'd be mine for sure! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068485 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 15:12:31 +0000 Angie 1068485@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You need several boyfriends. Tell hubs.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068380 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 13:55:53 +0000 amiable 1068380@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can see these looking so terrific with a black drapey top for a casual day. &nbsp;And like Shannon said - everything is worth trying on! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068353 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 13:33:28 +0000 Neel 1068353@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am yet to own one (mainly because of budget restrictions), but I agree that every woman should have atleast one (:D) for those days when she wants to feel a bit relaxed (and able to breathe better!). &nbsp;Boyfriend jeans, a dressy top and heels - an edgy bomb! &nbsp;:) &nbsp;They can be dressed up or down so easily!! </p> <p>Oh I prefer a darker wash. &nbsp;The lighter wash looks more casual IMO.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068324 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 13:03:55 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1068324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If there is one thing I've learned through YLF,&nbsp;<b><i>everything</i></b><i></i> is worth trying on!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068307 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:37:39 +0000 Anonymous 1068307@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like dark denim and my answer to the boyfriends is a pair of dark skinny sized up Paige jeans from the Rack. I like skinny boyfriends to not have to deal with the leg volume. I loved my Kut Catherine boyfriends for summer. You might consider white. In fact, they are still in rotation and it's almost November. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068298 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:27:31 +0000 Elizabeth P 1068298@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>BF's (Gap) got me loving jeans again.. they are just so freaking comfy.&nbsp; Mine are long enough to wear down, and cover the ankles, and I can also roll them up.&nbsp; I also prefer a dark wash, and not too much distressing... hard to find!&nbsp; I say go for it, I love mine.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068296 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:26:15 +0000 rute 1068296@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>oh yes! Every woman needs at least one ;)</p> <p>Love nº 2 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068294 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:21:19 +0000 Suz 1068294@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>In a different climate from mine I consider BFs great for the summer&nbsp;(cool, loose, easy) and for summer I prefer a lighter wash. But then again...in summer it is too hot for jeans here! So I passed along my very light wash BFs to my daughter.&nbsp;</p> <p>I currently own a slouchy skinny (like a slim BF) with distressing and a mid-faded wash, and a darker wash (with some fading) full length BF. These are more useful for my climate.&nbsp;</p> <p>I'd consider when you'd be wearing, whether you'd always wear rolled or if you need full length, as well as the degree of bagginess that feels right to you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068281 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:12:08 +0000 Thistle 1068281@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Worth trying on for sure! I have found them less versatile in the cold months as I am not willing to expose any ankle skin. But I think you are headed into summer, and these could really work for you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068279 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 12:09:53 +0000 Aquamarine 1068279@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I purchased a skinny boyfriend jean in a light wash last Spring and wore them to death. They were very casual, however. I found them so versatile that as the temperatures cooled here as we approached Fall, I went ahead and got the same ones in a dark wash. They do feel more polished and would probably work better for your style.</p> <p>Here are the ones I bought (shown in the darker wash). They bag out significantly while wearing them, FYI.</p> <p><a href="http://www.zappos.com/jag-jeans-tommy-skinny-boyfriend-in-blue-crush-blue-crush?ef_id=UnD3CAAABfIoi3fe:20131030120944:s" rel="nofollow">http://www.zappos.com/jag-jean.....30120944:s</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068262 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 11:33:24 +0000 Glory 1068262@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I usually prefer the dark wash in jeans. However this past spring I purchased the ON light wash cropped BF (Angie suggestion). I figured it would be a great way to try the trend without an investment.&nbsp;<br />I ended up&nbsp;really enjoying them and wore them much more than I thought I would. However, I am a WAHM and I did find them quite casual. I have put them away now because of the wash, and they are cropped, and it is pretty cold here </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068256 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 11:24:26 +0000 Anonymous 1068256@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think they are worth a try! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068253 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 11:22:46 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 1068253@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've never gotten on board with the BF jeans look but Claire's recent pic with the okalas has me wondering.&nbsp; This is an absolutely "me" thing but I find that although I prefer a slightly looser fit to a very tailored fit, the more exaggerated loose fits seem to work best on a very slender frame so I have left them to my slimmer sisters.&nbsp; Perhaps I should open my mind to the possibilities though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068248 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 11:16:39 +0000 Deborah 1068248@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Debra, thanks:). I will have a look at the Sussans ones too;) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068243 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 10:59:45 +0000 Debra 1068243@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow....you got my attention with that headline :)<br /> I'm with you, I really like the look of BF jeans and the casual easy style but I haven't found any that I like on me.<br /> Sussans have some I was planning on trying, but they are a light wash too.<br /> Good luck </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/do-i-need-a-boyfriend#post-1068226 Wed, 30 Oct 2013 10:11:50 +0000 Deborah 1068226@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well boyfriend jeans that is! We seem to slow on the uptake and while Gap has had them, very few of our stores have had boyfriend jeans ... until now.</p> <p>I saw these I the Target catalogue and I think I will go and try them on Friday.</p> <p>I see a lot of BF jeans in lighter washes on line but I have a strong personal preference for darker wash. There is another wash avail which is lighter (called cornflower blue) but that's too light for me. </p> <p>I just wondered what your preference was as far as wash on BF style jeans, and can you see this style working for me. I was pretty sure I was giving this trend a miss but I like the look of these, and it have started to enjoy semi tucking so I'm giving them another thought.</p> <p>Thanks for your thoughts:)</p> <p>xxxDeborah </p> <p>UPDATE: &nbsp;I so appreciate everyone's input:) &nbsp;I tried a few pairs on yesterday and it was a bust! &nbsp;I really don't think the look is for me. &nbsp;Not particularly flattering for me and I just don't like myself in that 'silhouette'. &nbsp;Fun to try tho. &nbsp;xxx</p> <p></p>