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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling</title>
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				<title>unfrumped on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 22:21:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I  have never heard of softening spray! Hmm, may have some people I need to use that on.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will look that up--thank you!
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				<title>Angie on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 22:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hear you. It's a BEAUTIFUL colour. Have you tried softening spray that you can buy at Nordies?&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The KS monk strap loafer is too casual. A really nice shoe, but not a substitute for the slipper flat if you know what I mean.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for input, Liz and Von. Thanks, Lyn D.&#060;br /&#062;
Angie, I  somehow missed it on your list. That is a great description --a hard shoe! That was super true of the SW Guything in the wicker-black combo--it was like walking in a rock! These are not nearly so, but it's true they do  not fit the soft leather test. I  have always been so determined not to fall into a trap of  : &#034;breaking in&#034; shoes that will turn out to be uncomfortable, but that color is SO fun I'm losing perspective!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Added photo of a KS buckle loafer because of color, and maybe leather is soft; I think it may meet the modern test, and I might   like it--I often find  that vamp feels unflattering on me, but nude might be less so. Wonder if anyone has tried it ?
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				<title>Lyn D. on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 21:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lovely shoes- I hope they work out comfort wise.
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				<title>Angie on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 21:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Those slipper flats are soooooo gorgeous, which is why they made my top picks list. I found them uncomfortable - and mentioned that in the roundup. But I &#060;i&#062;do &#060;/i&#062;have fussy feet and MUST wear soft leather. Many of my clients are fine wearing this type of what I call a hard shoe - so hence it made the roundup.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;They look stunning with your outfits, unfrumped. Makes them all look extra modern. The shade of iridescent blush is simply magical. If they were soft - they would be mine too.&#038;nbsp;I hope they become more comfy. xo&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ps. I bought white patent Salvatore Ferragomo loafers a month ago and they are very soft. So patent CAN be soft.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 19:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I could try to photo differently. I think the thing is,  the patent part is so successful as a nude that it disappears! How's that for a problem!
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				<title>Von on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 19:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Von</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the nude part, and how you're pairing it in all of the outfits, but the toe cap is throwing me off. Is it really that almond?&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Liz A. on "Delman loafer love, may need comfort-counseling"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 19:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like them in 4-6. I do think that a solid color skirt might change my mind.&#038;nbsp; Perhaps it's the conflicting &#034;patterns&#034; that's throwing the skirt looks off.
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;I&#038;nbsp;love these&#038;nbsp;Delman Oilslick nude slipper flats so&#038;nbsp; much I re-ordered a&#038;nbsp; half size up, then added inserts,&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;because they run narrow,&#038;nbsp; which was perfect for heel fit, but pooh for bunion.&#038;nbsp; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;span&#062;Quite a few of my shoes are patent or mixed—I seem to be the patent &#038;nbsp;magpie magnet. Online I thought I might not like the “oilslick” as being too flashy, &#038;nbsp;but as a nude it is kind of fantastic, because by being iridescent, it changes color so it seems to avoid appearing&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;too pink or too orange or whatever—it &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;adapts. &#038;nbsp;I've tried &#060;u&#062;lots&#060;/u&#062; of tans and nudes and all rejects.&#060;/span&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My dilemma (sorry I always seem to have one!) is that I might need to use &#038;nbsp;slightly different inserts R and L (which I think I can find easily) and wear them a bit for the R shoe (always the&#038;nbsp;problem foot) to loosen up more—it feels fine on carpet but a bit stiff on hard floor. I&#038;nbsp; have to be thinking whether patent will do that because is not as forgiving as regular leather, but the larger size has much more give and I think it will. But I have not tended to be a shoe breaker-inner before. The leather soles are &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;stiff, which is part of the issue but is helped a lot just when I tried&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;random inserts I had on hand. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love this style for toning down &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;pencil skirts, and the color&#038;nbsp;seems to be my &#038;nbsp;HEWI color for my palette and for summer nude hose,&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;for wearing not-black shoes with black or gray pants or with a lighter summer color pant. Probably the more modern of the stylings would be skirts or tapered pants (esp more tapered) , but I’d like to wear them &#038;nbsp;with wider trousers, too, just to have more options.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Pics are kind of random re: tops but: 1 &#038;amp; 2--2 summer pencil skirts; 3 &#038;amp;4 tapered pants; 5-6 wider trousers;&#038;nbsp; 7-AGL nude flats which are at present the&#038;nbsp;footwear I like most with skirt/nude leg&#038;nbsp;since I have not found a pale bootie or shootie I can wear.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;In the photos, the contrasting toe cap does seem to stand out more than IRL.&#038;nbsp; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;First, what do you think of the look itself, &#038;nbsp;and versatility? Then I will have to&#038;nbsp;see if&#038;nbsp;I'm comfortable with the comfort factor.&#060;/p&#062;
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