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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Defining your style https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 26 Apr 2026 15:07:38 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Sal on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740748 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 19:39:33 +0000 Sal 1740748@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Smittie - Jackie O is perfect for you and you definitely need some large glasses.  I wonder if you could do the headscarf?  And thanks for the complement - I would love that bold striped dress.  And I love dressing up and wish I had more chance to do so :) La Pedestrienne - your pictures are great, and I can also see where you are going with your look.  Natural fabrics, tough practical textures, great hair and denim.   LaPed on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740744 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 19:34:45 +0000 LaPed 1740744@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ fun game! :) 1. Who are your style icons? The IDLF-Emmanuelle Alt spectrum, Jean Seberg, Zooey Deschanel, 90s riot grrl bands, old farmers 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? comfortable, confident, tough, smart, different, ready 3. How do you feel when you’re wearing something that’s not right? exposed, ridiculous, fakin’ it, trying too hard 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. crunchy, boho, zen, minimalist, architectural avant garde, classic/polished, kawaii 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. parenting and working with kids, arts/literary events, dirty chores, hiking/backpacking, weekend city travel 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. tomboy, backwoods, gamine, sporty, punk-prep, pixie, stripes, plaid, denim 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images the represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. Anonymous on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740668 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 17:14:44 +0000 Anonymous 1740668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Btw Kiwigal, I love your first two pictures and see these as very "you". I understand when you say you like "bold" boho--I like that too. Your third picture I see as your dress-up look. You are incredible in your glamourous looks. You are Queen Glamour on YLF! Anonymous on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740637 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 16:06:52 +0000 Anonymous 1740637@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Fun! I realized doing this how much I love Jackie O! Style icon: Jackie O, seventies era and vacationing looks How do i feel in good clothes: Confident, attractive How do I feel in bad clothes: sloppy, lazy, unattractive Styles I like but are not me: urban warrior princess, rocker Lifestyle: office work, cottage, activities with kids Style story: preppy, simplicity, knitwear, puffers, scarves Three images. I like how Jackie O is so casual and yet so put together. Notice the flip flops with her dress. Simple T shirts. Love the big sunnies. I really need a pair! Staysfit on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740487 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 02:41:55 +0000 Staysfit 1740487@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Farley looks like a gentle sheep. He's as close to bucolic as I get. Although there is a dairy farm across the street from my neighborhood. Oh, and don't let Farley's innocent look fool you, he's a sneaky glove and sock thief! Maybe he's more goat than sheep. :-) I had a hard time finding my three pics. I wish one of them included some more pattern/color. I need to keep looking. rachylou on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740484 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 02:23:20 +0000 rachylou 1740484@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Lol. Settles it. Have to go to NZ. Moth to flame There are free ranging cows in the hills above us. I take Lilypup out there and close my eyes and pray between cow gates. Also, sheep I can do. My first dream sheep, I'd call Groucho...hehe. Sal on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740481 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 02:12:47 +0000 Sal 1740481@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I see.  You would be terrified in NZ as we have wind, fog, rain, lots of cows and even more sheep...... rachylou on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740480 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 02:10:05 +0000 rachylou 1740480@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Re bucolic: we head for the hills or rocky shore quite a bit. I'd run away to the rustic coast and become a cheese maker if I weren't afraid of cows and fog Sal on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740471 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 01:30:20 +0000 Sal 1740471@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Rachy - I know, I would like to have a week just to be decorative and not have to put the rubbish out, walk across the fields, do the cooking, lift furniture in and out of my car - I could wear a bustle and ladylike gloves  That real life does get in the way of fashion!  And I think you do have a mix of punk/preppy and hipster about you.  Not so sure about bucolic? Staysfit - this looks and sounds like you.  I don't know a couple of those Style Icons - will have to look them up one day (Sarah Harris, Robin Roberts).  I think your looks are a great mix of confident, elegant and comfortable - they are not too fussy.  I suspect that (like me) you don't have great tolerance for uncomfortable or fussy looks. Staysfit on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740459 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 00:02:59 +0000 Staysfit 1740459@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love these questions!  I am going to take a stab: 1. Who are your style icons?  Robin Roberts, Gina Torres, Linda Rodin, Sarah Harris, Cate Blanchett, Kate Middleton, Joan Allen 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? Confident, powerful, genuine, comfortable,  3. How do you feel when you’re  wearing something that’s not right? Anxious, uncomfortable, insecure, fraudulent. 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. Romantic, Boho, Avant Garde 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. Recreation/exercise; Work; Leisure at home; Special events; Travel 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. Soft, Calm, Fresh, Classic, Polished, Light, Playful, Funky, Fun Serene Elegance; Genuine Composed 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images that represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. rachylou on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740444 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 22:41:00 +0000 rachylou 1740444@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Yes. It's time for a style definition examination! 1. Who are your style icons? This is tough for me right now (thus the need for an examination!). I have some all time favorites, but I no longer want to dress that way - the lifestyle is dead and gone. I'm inclined for this modern era towards the two Kirstens - Dunst and Stewart. (Ok, Stewart is a Kristen but whatevs ) Then there's Penny Rimbaud and Deborah Harry. 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? Chic, different, comfortable, stompy 3. How do you feel when you’re wearing something that’s not right? Fussy, generic, allergic 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. Classic, disco, sophisticated chic, architect, harajuku, colourful global 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. Walking the dog, errands, hard labour chores, bakery, cultural/political/brunch events (notice how I lump those together, hehe). 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. Prep, punk, hipster, backwoods/bucolic 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images the represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. Ya...looking and looking... I guess I almost miss the passive life, where you sit around looking at paintings and strike poses. I do a lot of physical, but not sporty things, so froth and flimsy have no place... I miss the clothes, but not the boredom. Hmm. Guess Quirky Waif is still doing Country Punk... Sal on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740425 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 20:26:01 +0000 Sal 1740425@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Look forward to your results Suz and Shevia. Sally - that sounds about right.  With last week I think you could add boho in too. Rio - again, that seems to sum up your style. I loved this phrase  "I'm aiming for a unique look with real longevity that fits my lifestyle and reflects my interest in fashion. It needs to feel contemporary and relevant without being too influenced by current trends."   If I replace unique with individual this absolutely true for me too. approprio on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740296 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 11:37:12 +0000 approprio 1740296@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ ooh fun game! I'll play... 1. Who are your style icons? Tilda Swinton, David Bowie, young Japanese men 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? Confident, comfortable in my skin, my best self 3. How do you feel when you’re wearing something that’s not right? Awkward and self-conscious 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. Polished and ladylike, fashionably casual, retro chic, art rock, baby doll grunge, urban hipster denim. I could go on forever! 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. Teaching class, running errands, working in the studio, professional engagements, small capsules for urban travel. 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. Timeless, urban, eclectic, androgynous, individual 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images the represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. I'm aiming for a unique look with real longevity that fits my lifestyle and reflects my interest in fashion. It needs to feel contemporary and relevant without being too influenced by current trends.  Sally on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740278 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 08:42:47 +0000 Sally 1740278@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love that first picture too and I can see the relationship between those pictures and your style. ok I'll play along. . Who are your style icons? Jennifer Aniston, Emmanuelle Alt, Blondie, Sophie B Hawkins, Kate Moss. 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? Funky, cool and confident 3. How do you feel when you’re wearing something that’s not right? frumpy, uncomfortable and unattractive 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. girly, romantic, gamine, 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. work- teaching, exercising-running/walking, weekend casual, night out with friends, lounging at home 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. simple, minimal, denim, boyish, trousers, grungy, casual, rocker 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images the represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. I am aiming for casual style which is practical yet professional if I'm at work which encompasses tomboyishness, edginess and sportiness. I like a minimal look that can go from work to running for a bus across town to meet friends. I'll try and add 3 photos now Jaime on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740264 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 02:48:44 +0000 Jaime 1740264@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ditto what Suz said. I love that first picture of Giovana Battaglia.  Suz on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740262 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 02:42:56 +0000 Suz 1740262@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This is fabulous, Sally -- thank you! I will give it a bit of thought and time and come up with some answers.  Sal on "Defining your style" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/defining-your-style#post-1740227 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 01:30:24 +0000 Sal 1740227@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I occasionally read The Online Stylist Blog.  This post caught my eye. <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.theonlinestylist.co.uk/style-defined/">http://www.theonlinestylist.co.uk/style-defined/</a> Here are some questions that can help you identify your style goal.  I have adapted it slightly to make it simpler and shorter, (less photos and descriptors at the end) 1. Who are your style icons? Cate Blanchett, Grace Kelly, Michelle Obama 2. How do you feel when you’re wearing your favourite outfit? Relaxed and confident and attractive 3. How do you feel when you’re wearing something that’s not right? Uncomfortable, unattractive and self conscious. 4. List some styles that you like but aren’t necessarily you. Arty,preppy,rocker, romantic 5. List the top five lifestyle activities you dress for. Work at home days, work meetings, gym/exercise, casual social occasions with friends and family, attending sports as a spectator. 6. Write down 5 plus words that you associate with your style story. simple, bold, casual, boho, elegant, sporty, colour, denim, fun footwear 7. Let’s get visual. Collate 3 images the represent the words, feelings and elements you’ve listed so far. I am aiming for boldly elegant with a sometimes classic, sporty, boho or bombshell edge depending on the occasion... How do you get along?