https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 11 Apr 2026 18:40:12 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278493 Wed, 24 Aug 2022 13:58:56 +0000 JAileen 2278493@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The pink one is lovely. &nbsp;And the one with the neck part is very nice too, &nbsp;but don’t wear a necklace with it. &nbsp;That does not work at all, IMO. &nbsp;The long navy one is nice, too. &nbsp;The black one has potential for other events. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278434 Wed, 24 Aug 2022 04:39:40 +0000 Joyce B 2278434@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like 9 or 12 for wedding and the light dress for dinner.<br /> I love your navy dress but being in CA could it feel too dark for there? From what I have seen, CA= happy colors but that may be my thing only. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278416 Wed, 24 Aug 2022 01:57:43 +0000 Indigoprint 2278416@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All your looks are Fab so you cannot go wrong whichever you choose! Maybe bring options for how you feel on that day.( sorry I am influenced by feelings probably more than I should)<br /> More than one option is a strong testament that reflects an effective wardrobe...well done! You will look FAB! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278290 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 14:47:47 +0000 Angie 2278290@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Staysfit</b>, love how your Mama is getting involved, and has an opinion ;)</p> <p>Nice that you can wear what you want too! Let us know what you decide. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278283 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 13:39:53 +0000 Bijou 2278283@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look beautiful in everything! I would go with the option that best suits the weather. The DVF wrap dress is gorgeous and looks to be a good travel dress, I would take that as an option just in case the weather ends up being cooler than expected. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278275 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 12:16:30 +0000 lyn67 2278275@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just scrolled down so not reading others to be as impartial as I can-but you really cannot go wrong with any of these-but if you asked my personal opinion I will say so:<br />-great dresses (all 4!), but generally much preffer the looks without a necklace (except the last one with the V-neck-where feel&nbsp; is not competing with the neckline)<br />-I really like the first 2 dresses- my fave is the&nbsp; first-and find it edgy and somptuous (but no necklace and no shrug, if possible).</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278271 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 12:01:40 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2278271@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a lovely lace dress! But if you won’t be comfortable in it, psychologically *and* physically, then it’s not the one for this event. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278267 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 11:44:27 +0000 Staysfit 2278267@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ANewMindset, thanks, that’s very sweet of you! It is truly a privilege to be in this situation.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278264 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 11:30:52 +0000 ANewMindset 2278264@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look great in every option. This is a good problem to have!!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278261 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 11:12:57 +0000 Anonymous 2278261@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like #7 for the wedding and #9 for the dinner. To me the pearls compete with the neckline too much. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278259 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 10:44:09 +0000 Staysfit 2278259@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jenni NZ, either I will take pictures or I will ask my mother to do it, &nbsp;She has become a fabulous photographer as a second “career”. &nbsp;I do have some lighter shoes although they have high heels so I am hesitant,&nbsp;</p> <p>Vildy, thanks for the info about Chabad. My cousin told me it’s fine to have bare shoulders and to wear whatever we want. My stepmother has become very involved with the Chabad where she lives since she retired. &nbsp;She always wears a long skirt, long sleeves and either a wig or a hat when she attends any Chabad event.&nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>I realized this morning that another of my dresses is almost fitting me again. (I have been slowly losing the Covid weight I gained by using Michael Gregor’s WFPB How not to Diet/How not to Die suggestions). I doubt it will fit me well by next week, which is too bad because I think it could be the best choice among my dresses for this type of event. &nbsp;In fact, I originally purchased it for my FIL’s wedding (second marriage after MIL’s death) which DH and I decided not to attend at the last moment (long story). &nbsp;I can get it on and zip it up. &nbsp;I can sit and bend. &nbsp;I think it’s still too snug around my middle. &nbsp;Maybe some shape wear would help! &nbsp;LOL! &nbsp;I may try it again in a couple days to see what happens. &nbsp;<br /><div><br /></div></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278255 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 08:31:02 +0000 Jenni NZ 2278255@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Staysfit could you take pics eventually of what you do choose and post for us? I would so love to see the final outfits.<br /> BTW if the Max Mara gets worn I also wondered about lighter coloured shoes with it?<br /> You have so many lovely choices! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding/page/2#post-2278215 Tue, 23 Aug 2022 00:01:53 +0000 Vildy 2278215@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Got no opinions and just wanted to say you are spoilt for choice and look amazing in all. Chabad is pretty good at meeting you where you are. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278211 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 23:48:00 +0000 The Cat 2278211@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>#12, the DVF dress, is my favourite for you. So beautiful and elegant! #7, the blush dress comes second. With this lovely dress colour, consider wearing metallic shoes instead of black. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278208 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 23:30:57 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2278208@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Without sweater </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278207 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 23:30:13 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2278207@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the DVF for dinner and the Zero + MC for the wedding </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278199 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 21:56:00 +0000 Karie 2278199@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>#9 for the wedding (I prefer it w/o the pearls), #12 or #7 for the rehearsal dinner (if it’s cooler, #12; warmer, #7) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278193 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 21:44:57 +0000 Minaminu 2278193@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Staysfit, if the botton of the MaxMara dress would have been in a pencil skirt, then maybe it would have looked conservative but I like the flared edges of the skirt, it shows that a good classic can also be fun :)&nbsp;</p> <p>You can always add some accessories fitting with the ceremony (i.e. a clutch bag, light coloured shoes, a nice hat if it is customs to wear it).</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278183 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 20:34:23 +0000 RobinF 2278183@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So many pretty choices! I like the Z&amp;M for the rehearsal and the blush dress for the wedding. I prefer the Z&amp;M without the pearls or sweater. Something about the lines along your shoulder makes it look like it should be alone. Could you bring the DVF in case the weather is chilly? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278180 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 20:05:40 +0000 Jenni NZ 2278180@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>To me you look most amazing in the Max Mara, something about it lightening you up? So I vote that for the wedding and the DVF which also lightens you up, for the dinner. I find the Rachel Comey a bit dark for you but better with the wrap and shoes. I personally prefer something less dark in colour for a wedding although have worn black myself to a wedding once years ago when I had limited options. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278178 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 19:59:47 +0000 Staysfit 2278178@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My mom just voted for the Rachel Comey for the dinner and MM for the wedding. &nbsp;She thinks I should find a warmer cardigan in case it’s cold, rainy or there is a/c. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278177 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 19:52:22 +0000 Sloper 2278177@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>#7 or #12 are my favorites - Max Mara and DVF. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278171 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 19:25:31 +0000 Staysfit 2278171@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh my! &nbsp;Four good options…MM, ZM, RC, DVF…in order of how easily I could hunt out the letters on my keyboard, not in order of my personal preferences. &nbsp;I am eliminating the slip dress, the Athleta dress, the wide crops outfit and the EF dresses. &nbsp;I have a few days to consider which I prefer and also how to pack them….</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278170 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 19:15:06 +0000 rachylou 2278170@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m voting for the Zero + Maria. Because it’s lively and joyful </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278167 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 19:03:18 +0000 phoebe 2278167@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>10 for the wedding and 15 for the dinner but not with the shoes pictured</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278164 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 18:52:46 +0000 cat2 2278164@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the blush dress for the ceremony and the raspberry for the dinner. I’m old school and don’t wear black to weddings. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278162 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 18:43:59 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2278162@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Meant to say the MM dress in 10-11 is my absolute fave. (Though the DVF &amp; others are all very nice too). Lmk if you ever decide to pass it on. For keeping it neat while you travel, have you seen Eagle Creek’s “folders”? They do that sort of thing well. There’s a link to them in my packing post. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278160 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 18:41:13 +0000 Anonymous 2278160@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fun fashion show! My faves are #7 and 12. I vote for #12 for wedding rehearsal dinner for night ensemble and #7 for the daytime wedding. Enjoy the events :)<br /> (Updated with new pic numbers.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278157 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 18:36:33 +0000 Cardiff girl 2278157@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>#10 for the wedding and either#17. Or#1/2 for the dinner.You have a really good figure and should show it off not hide it away.Whatever you choose have a great time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/decision-time-which-to-wear-to-wedding#post-2278147 Mon, 22 Aug 2022 17:54:13 +0000 Staysfit 2278147@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, I’m glad you like the DVF wrap. &nbsp;The silver shoes with low heels will work with the wrap dress. &nbsp;It’s easy to pack, doesn’t wrinkle, and doesn’t require a topper so it may be a good option, especially if the weather is cool or if we are indoors instead of outside. &nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>I am still waiting to hear back about whether we need to cover our shoulders for the event. I had forgotten about the Z&amp;M dress and when I tried it on really loved it. &nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Suz, I may try the RC dress with the light silver metallic topper I paired with the Z&amp;M dress. &nbsp;I don’t have anything more tailored that would work. &nbsp;I like the idea of having a back up dress in case it’s cool.&nbsp;<br /><div><br /></div><div>Slim cat, I like the idea of hair tint. &nbsp;I had not considered blue. &nbsp;I have considered emerald teal (light teal). &nbsp;I don’t have time between now and the day I leave to add any tint to my hair. &nbsp;I could consider it in the future. &nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Janet, the Z&amp;M dress reverses, &nbsp;I didn’t show the other direction here because I liked it this way with the shoes. &nbsp;I added the pearls because I thought the black looked too stark against my face. &nbsp;You have an artist eye, I am going to see if I have another pair of shoes I like with the dress other than sneakers….LOL</p> <p>Indigoprint, the Linea Paolo navy shoes are very comfortable and so cute right! &nbsp;They were a lucky find when I was shoe shopping in July.&nbsp; I love them. That must be why I wore them with almost all of these outfits except the Z&amp;M dress. &nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Minaminu, I absolutely love the Max Mara dress. Do you think it reads too conservative? &nbsp;That was my other reservation.</p> <p>SF, thanks. &nbsp;I also love the DVF Abigail dress. &nbsp;I have three of them and it is my typical go to dress for the formal receptions hosted by DH university department. &nbsp;The other patterns, one with an ivory background which I thought inappropriate for a wedding, and the other purple with full length sleeves, were not as good for this occasion. &nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div>Update, MOB texted me back and says bare shoulders are okay! &nbsp;:-)<br /></div><div><br /></div><div>More responses to your feedback later, I have to attend to something….thanks everyone!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></div></div></div></div> </p>