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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?</title>
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				<title>rae on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 17:01:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, yes, I gave them away. I do still have my gold glitter pumps.... too garish for the military?
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				<title>Angie on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 15:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Rae, you have LOADS of pumps, don't you? Or did you give them all away? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Fuchsia sounds fun  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Thistle on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 14:09:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 with black shoes. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My dad was military, but that was 30 years ago, so not sure how much it has changed. Back then, it was very conservative.
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				<title>rae on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 04:57:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks, everyone! Black jacket it is!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Angie, my only pumps right now are fushia suede with a wooden heel. I will play around with it and see if I can make them work... maybe if I end up finding the right belt? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If not, I am feeling good about the black shoes. As many said, they are more substantial, wintry, and covered. Almost like a peep toe pump. They were also inherited from my BFF, so it will make me happy to wear them for a special day.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Ariadne on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 04:15:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ariadne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous outfit!  Definitely black + black.  I can't get over your new hair--it's wonderful.
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 02:30:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Black &#038;amp; black imo.
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				<title>Debora on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2012 00:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debora</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes!!!! Black jacket and black shoes. You nailed it - I salute you!
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 21:06:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks like the group has spoken and you know what to do Rae - just wanted to chime in to say I think you look stunning in that dress!
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				<title>Lisa on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 21:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also vote black shoes and jacket. They have a more authoritative look.
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				<title>Vicki on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 20:05:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are so gorgeous, Rae, and I LOVE your new haircut.  I'm voting black, too, and your idea of a sequined belt really sparkles!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 19:59:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the black jacket and black shoes because they look more substantial and winter-y to me (the shoes). And yes, they look lovely with your hair. A belt with some sparkle would be fun!
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				<title>Mo on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 19:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ditto on the black shoes, black jacket.  Shiny skinny belt could be fun.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 19:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another vote for black jacket.  I like the black shoes better than the red because the more closed/substantial shoe seems to balance the top better. A bit of sparkle in belt or bag or jewelry would be great--play with stuff you have to see what adds the bit of dressiness or &#034;specialness&#034; to the more tailored items, but I like the clean-lined look--the dress and jacket look great on you.
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				<title>texstyle on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 19:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>texstyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Since it's honoring the military I think wearing a bit of red/white/blue is a good idea.  But even beforeI thought of that I was leaning to the red shoes because they add a slightly dressier vibe to me, I really like the red shoes with a red belt in this instance - either jacket works with that combo for me.
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				<title>deb on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 19:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Black shoes, black jacket vote here.
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				<title>JR on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JR</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The second jacket is beautiful, but I don't think the colour combination works quite as well.  I don't find the black shoes too boho.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;All that being said, you can't go too far wrong with any of these combinations.  You do dressy conservative surprisingly well.  Do you wear earrings at all?  Sparkly earrings could be nice here.  Or a sparkly clutch, seeing as you are trying to add a celebratory note.  Or a rhinestone brooch on the lapel...
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another vote for black and black!  A bit of bling would be great, too.  And this is the first time I've had an opportunity to say that I love your hair!
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				<title>Angie on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely the black jacket. How about pumps instead of sandals? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My thumbs are up for a sparkly skinny belt!
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				<title>Suz on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous! I love the black jacket and shoes best. And sure...a bit of sparkle in the belt wouldn't hurt!
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				<title>Emily on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Black Shoes, Black Jacket is my vote.  Very ladylike and pretty.
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				<title>Claudia on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Claudia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 with black shoes.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love the style and fit of the dress on you, and the color is one of my favorites. YLF!
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				<title>MsMary on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Team Tuxedo Jacket and Black Shoes!  YLF!!
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				<title>rachylou on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All combos would make great outfits, but because you said we're talking military - I'd go with the lace jacket and red shoes. I find the black shoes too bohemian.
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				<title>Sona on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:34:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sona</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote for black shoes, black jacket!!
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				<title>rae on "Change of Command or &#34;Change Your Plans&#34;?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 18:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Please excuse my lack of makeup and pedicure action... &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Here are my ideas for my upcoming attendance of a military Change of Command ceremony (held on my birthday). As suggested by the forum, I chose a conservative dress with a high neck and low hem. Tried it with my dressier blazers: a tuxedo jacket and this lace &#038;amp; sequined jacket (waving at MaryK!). &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Do either of these work? I can layer my dressy Karen Millen coat over either of these options. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If I go with the black jacket, I'm thinking it might need... I dunno, a sequined belt or something? A little touch of celebratory spirit. I am also leaning toward the black shoes to bookend my hair.
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