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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2</title>
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				<title>Bijou on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:36:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you to everyone. OK - so onto day 3 - which will be colourful because whilst I love neutrals, there is lots of fun to be had with colour.
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				<title>Brooklyn on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 10:12:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brooklyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Almost missed this because the forum is SO busy at the moment! Anyhow, you look sensational, especially in the white dress.
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				<title>Angie on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 16:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I loved your write-up, &#060;b&#062;Bijou.&#060;/b&#062; It was heartfelt, soul searching, humble, honest, accepting, conclusive and strong. I was quite touched by it.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;KILLER x3.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You are the epitome of the Playfully Pretty and Powerful Professional. You throw in a bit of quirk, lots of drama, fun details, softness as well as hard edge, maximize, adorn, and always look pulled together, interesting and just darn right LOVELY.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Kathie on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 16:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kathie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love all your sheath dresses! You've mastered feminine, yet powerful.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 15:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful.  I especially like the white dress and wish I could find a basic white sheath dress.  You do look like a Hitchcock heroine, which were beautifully dressed.
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				<title>anchie on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 15:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Absolutely stunning. I want to be you  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>gryffin on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 15:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bijou - the first dress is so david meister with the perfect seaming.&#038;nbsp; I am jealous and you wear it so well.&#038;nbsp; You have amazing coloring because you wear so many palates well.&#038;nbsp; Awesome!!
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				<title>Jaime on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous! I like the comparison to Hitchcock's heroines. The black dress with scarf, the white with the pearls, the animal print jacket - it is all fantastic!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You could step into a Hitchcock movie with no problem at all. &#038;nbsp;So perfect! &#038;nbsp;You're the queen of neutral elegance.
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				<title>ChristelJ on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ChristelJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your style is so clear in all these; bold, pretty and smashing!  The neckline on that black dress is wonderful and so perfect with the scarf.
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				<title>taylor on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Classy bombshell ...seems perfect .&#060;br /&#062;
You look gorgeous!
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				<title>Bijou on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 14:04:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Janet&#060;/b&#062; - the cape is great with jeans and black boots - so I could see you rocking one of these!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;TG&#060;/b&#062; - thank you - the quotation is very cute, it took me quite a while to work out what it said as the font is rather small.
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				<title>Helena on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What Katerina said .... Classy bombshell! Gorgeous. And I love that quotation.
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				<title>Janet on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You have the most killer professional style! I covet that cape thing but have zero occasion to wear it.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Bijou on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;UmmLila&#060;/b&#062; the way you dress you seriously do not need an office to look elegant.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;RobinF&#060;/b&#062; - yes the bags are lovely - it is probably lucky that I cannot buy them here in Australia and have to travel to Japan to get them!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Lyn67&#060;/b&#062; - thank you so much -&#038;nbsp; I do have a great life and would not change a thing, but when you live with two doggies, there are plenty of non-glamorous experiences. Of course the love, fun and cuddles make up for the more messy aspects of dog ownership.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Gryffin&#060;/b&#062; - you were the inspiration for outfit one!
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&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Katerina&#060;/b&#062;, it is interesting as my preferences are moving to a more classic styling which has been inspired by the Hitchcock heroines. I am lucky that Cue clothing fits me so well.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Katerina on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katerina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Absolutely delightful! You look like a movie star. I love your very feminine, elegant style. It is unique and gorgeous. So modern and yet like a Hitchcock heroine glamorous.... All the pieces from Cue - sensational. And the Japanese handbags - wow.
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				<title>gryffin on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>gryffin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gasp, I die!!&#038;nbsp; You are the epitome of elegance!!!&#038;nbsp; Wow, hits head on floor being transported to ER!!&#038;nbsp; Just wow!!
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				<title>lyn67 on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, Bijou-You Do Have The Most Glamorous Wardrobe (and perhaps Life, too:-))from them all! Especially love the 2nd Day outfit!
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				<title>RobinF on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 13:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hah, what UmmLila said! Very elegant outfits! Love the bag too.
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				<title>UmmLila (Lisa) on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 12:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>UmmLila (Lisa)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;See, now you make me wish I worked in an office after all, so I'd have an excuse to dress in such an elegant way all the time.
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				<title>Bijou on "Challenge - being &#039;me&#039; day 1 &#38; 2"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 12:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The BEING ME challenge had me stumped a little, because it made me reflect upon when I was not me, which I have decided is not very much. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;One of the gifts that YLF has given me is the permission to dress to please myself and wear what I like. I think my style has become more signature because I am not so bothered about trends and will only wear them if they appeal to me and not feel compelled to be fashionable. Paradoxically, this attitude has probably meant that I am dressing in a more fashion forward way than ever before!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My job is an Accountant at a large professional services firm - I work with clients and work with different teams on engagements. I have to be ready to rush out to meeting without notice if my clients have any urgent issues, so I dress up most days assuming that an important client meeting is likely to occur. Fridays I can wear casual dress but often opt not to do so because I like dressing up and my home life is pretty casual.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;For Day 1&#060;/b&#062; - I decided to try a combination that was more the old me - going back to black. In my teens and early 20's I wore black almost exclusively. I wore black at this time of my life because I looked very young and thought it made me look older, more interesting and sophisticated...when in reality it just made me look like a young girl trying to fit in with the herd at university. Never mind, I felt fabulous in my black and that was all that mattered, and I still do. Black holds a certain magic for me, sometimes it is nice to revisit the younger me.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Little black dress with white stitching by Cue. This dress is very comfortable and was great because the weather was 37C. I wore this with a tie neck scarf (with a green dragon print) by Rixo, a cropped cape jacket by Cue and black sheer hose and black suede pumps by Paul Green. My office is chilly, so the cape jacket was welcome and I like the additional coverage that it gives the dress, that is quite open on the top. My bag is by Samantha Thavasa Deluxe, a Japanese brand and bought 5 years ago in Tokyo. This was the start of a rather obsessive collection...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Day 1 night&#060;/b&#062; - Client dinner at an outdoors restaurant. Gold lace dress (old - Moss and Spy), leopard faux fur jacket (Cue - new first time worn), nude hose and black suede pumps. Clutch by Karen Millen.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Day 2&#060;/b&#062; - today - decided to go for the opposite end of the spectrum - little white dress (Cue), grey jacket (old - Armani), nude hose grey Paul Green pumps, worn with a string of pearls. I love this white dress, once again a sheath by Cue and for me a little white dress is as much of a wardrobe essential as a little black dress. I always feel very polished and crisp in white. My bag is another Samantha Thavasa Deluxe bag - this one in ice blue. This bag I baby somewhat give the very light colour, purchased again in Tokyo 3 years ago. It is sort of a ritual that when we travel overseas I get a new bag.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love the motto on the front:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#034;Living your life with confidence is always the best accessory. To all the lovely ladies....Samantha Thavasa Deluxe&#034;.&#038;nbsp;
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