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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Can you help me choose?</title>
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				<title>Deborah on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 10:49:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Just want to say thank you so much for your input.  I have made my decision.  Clearly #1 was a no brainer so that is my first choice.  I'm going to keep my second choice to myself for now - as a variety of views were expressed re #2 and #3;). What I will say is that both items will be in black.  Can't wait to show you and thanks so much for the encouragement.
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				<title>dashielle (Ann) on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 04:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>dashielle (Ann)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm late to the party (as usual) but since we have very similar tastes, I'm going with #1 and #3 in black. The leather blazer needs some flair to kick it into modern territory, to my eye. I'm not sure about the ties though...to me, they are a tricky proposition and need to be soft/narrow enough to not add bulk, otherwise I've been known to pin or clip to get the shape (in a pinch). I'm psyched for your endeavour too!
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				<title>Dee on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 04:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another vote for #1 as the obvious choice. Then #3, which I think could work welll with your wardrobe but would be more outside your norm. I don't see #2 as your usual style but I would be interested to see how you styled it!
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				<title>Jaime on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 03:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well #1 seems like a no-brainer! Tell us more!
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				<title>Echo on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 01:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Echo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, the first one would be the obvious choice, but I am not sure that duplicating the same look you favour in clothing in outerwear is the best approach. So I am going to go outside the box here and say that I prefer #3 because it provides just enough drape to mirror your style, but still has enough structure to counter that (which is more important in outerwear, IMO, because it can tend to look heavy anyway), and a lighter colour. And then I would go with #2 because I can really see the red structured jacket popping against a drapey, black wardrobe.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2015 00:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote #1 and #2!&#038;nbsp; I see this was your order of preference, too.&#038;nbsp; Let us know how they work out!
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				<title>Gigi on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 22:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Haven't read the other comments thoroughly, but my first impression was #3 in black, then #1. However, the zipper on #3&#038;nbsp;may be too hard edge for you; although you wear lots of edgy things like asymmetric cuts and the like, they're generally not &#034;hard&#034; like the exposed zipper is, if that makes any sense. So I guess I am on the fence between 1 and 3.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't like #2 for you because it seems way too classic and symmetrical, and there isn't much drape. I associate your style with asymmetry and drapey fabrics.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Congratulations on being asked to do this!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>AM on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 21:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Didn't read everyone's comments but #1 would be a definite. And for my second choice -- I'd lean toward #3 -- but if you want to explore a new area, then I'd choose #2 in black.
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 21:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Agreeing with Greyscale - a less classic blazer would be really fab.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 21:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote 1 and 3. Something about the cut of the lapel doesn't gel with me so much in 2, though I would need to see it in black really to make a final decision.
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				<title>Lyn D. on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 20:48:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;1 and 3- I can't see you in a classic leather blazer like the one here.
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				<title>Greyscale on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 19:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 obviously, and I guess #3 in black.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think you should get a black leather blazer, for sure, but not that one. Yours should be more like Emmanuel Alt's in the photo you posted: straight cut, thin lapels.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Mellllls on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 19:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mellllls</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i vote 3
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				<title>Day Vies on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 18:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Day Vies</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;1&#038;amp;3 are definitely you. Although I think #1 is most you, I think 3 would be fun for you to work with given the minimal patterns you wear and your emphasis on cut, texture and or drape. 
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				<title>Zibbets on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 18:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a fun opportunity for you!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like #1 and&#038;nbsp;#3. One is perfect. It will be fab with jeans, trousers, pencil skirt, midi skirt, full skirt or&#038;nbsp;skirted leggings.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm&#038;nbsp;not sure about the zip or the ribbed inside of the collar in #3. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The black leather blazer could be great, but it strikes me as possibly dated and potentially&#038;nbsp;difficult to style.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 18:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;1 and 3. I like 2, but I&#038;nbsp;think you might feel constrained by the cut and it doesn't have much &#034;edge&#034;. If you could only choose one, I think 3 would be my choice.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That's exciting!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Inge on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 17:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I second Denise:-)&#060;br /&#062;I too really like the idea of a leather blazer for you, Deborah, but would prefer a more modern one.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Let us know what you decide?
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				<title>CocoLion on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 17:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;First choice #1. &#038;nbsp;#3 Second choice. &#038;nbsp;#2 comes third.
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&#060;p&#062;ETA -- the belted jacket is the most trending silhouette IMO -- which weighs in my opinion.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 17:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was going to suggest 1 and 3 as looking most like your draped style, but 2 in black would be lots of fun to try.  I have a ( thrifted) black leather Gap blazer and it is quite versatile.  It also adds a texture to an all black outfit.
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				<title>Marilyn on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 16:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marilyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 is my favourite.&#038;nbsp; I love the shape and the drape.&#060;br /&#062;I also like the thought of a black leather blazer although it's pretty classic looking.&#038;nbsp; I think it might be a nice contrast with some of your drapey pieces.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 16:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with&#060;b&#062;&#038;nbsp;Meredith&#060;/b&#062; above --&#038;nbsp;the first thing I noticed about&#038;nbsp;#2 was that it looked a little stodgy&#038;nbsp;(except for the color) and&#038;nbsp;didn't seem to suit&#038;nbsp;your style at all. I'd be curious to see how you could make it work though.
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				<title>amiable on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 16:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>amiable</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think #3 in black too, but really like all three of them  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Thistle on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 16:14:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not reading anyone else's comments, here we go:&#060;br /&#062;#1&#060;br /&#062;#3&#060;br /&#062;#2&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would put three first IF it were black.
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				<title>Lisa on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 16:11:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote 1 and 2, both have structural elements that I associate with your style. &#038;nbsp;#3 looks a little softer versus the other 2 pieces.
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				<title>Meredith on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 14:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meredith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How fun! I like 1. Although I like the idea of a leather blazer,there's  something about the stance of the red jacket that seems not as current. I feel like if you're going to wear such a classic piece it needs to be a very modern version to work with the other things you own. But I don't wear many blazers. Anyone else have reservations about the stance?
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				<title>carolbee on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 13:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>carolbee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I haven't read any other replies.  My favourites are 1 &#038;amp; 3, I love wrap styles.  Having said that they are very similar, so perhaps pick your favourite out of those two plus #2.  How is this going to work, are you going to be photograhed out and about wearing them?  Will we be able to say we knew Deborah back when she was a mere mortal!
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				<title>Elizabeth P on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 13:42:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elizabeth P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm kind of with Carter on this one.&#038;nbsp; When I looked at them I thought #1 for sure (but is it different enough from other things you have?&#038;nbsp; it's so your style, it may end up being not unique enough, or already present in your wardrobe in some similar form to be worn much).&#038;nbsp; #3 was my second choice (not sure about the grey though, perhaps in black?&#038;nbsp; But then have the same possible questions as I have for #1).&#038;nbsp; #2 is beautiful, just seems more tailored and classic than I'd expect on you.
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				<title>lyn67 on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 13:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nr 1. Then 3. Both in black for you? But I love nr 3 in dove:-).
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				<title>carter on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 13:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>carter</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 and #3 would be great additions and a nice fit with your wardrobe. I just can't wrap my head around #2 for you.
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				<title>Sharon on "Can you help me choose?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 12:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's very exciting, Deborah. I think #1 is the obvious choice, of course. But I really like the idea of #2 in black. The colour will allow it to slot in to your wardrobe, and the more classic style will serve as an interesting juxtaposition to your softer, drapey clothes. The red is very dramatic, but I worry that having a strong colour will make the classic style more evident, and boss your other clothes around.
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