https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 17 Apr 2026 04:11:44 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943652 Wed, 01 Aug 2018 10:57:28 +0000 Chris987 1943652@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great advice Angie I’ve looked at them in person and they are truly gorgeous. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943257 Tue, 31 Jul 2018 15:44:51 +0000 Angie 1943257@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Chris,</b> try to get a Furla on sale.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943133 Tue, 31 Jul 2018 06:31:01 +0000 rachylou 1943133@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes! I do tend to prefer a higher collar, altho in the heat of the bakery I wear scoop necks. Never considered darts! I’ve also learned to stay away from spaghetti strap dresses... or any straps less than two inches in width. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943123 Tue, 31 Jul 2018 05:20:18 +0000 Chris987 1943123@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Suz.</b>..it seems to be all about how slippery the fabric is, no other detail has been a good predictor of this and least not for me.</p> <p><b>Danskogirl</b> - I did see those sorts of things online and tried to make my own version for my bone hobo. The Brahman bag fabric/leather is very "bumpy" with it's alligator-like embossing so not sure something like this would stick properly but it's good to know about. </p> <p><b>Jaileen</b> I often use cross bodies for all the reasons you suggest, but I sometimes want a shoulder bag instead. And I wanted to try Brahmin.</p> <p><b>Joy</b> - I suppose I could contact Brahmin, but since I only liked the bag and did not love it I didn't really want to put any more energy into it. </p> <p><b>Angie</b> - if I could find a satchel with handles that fold down on a hinge so they are out of the way AND a not-too-thin longer strap I would definitely consider it! So far the ones I find like that have longer straps that are too thin or&nbsp; attachment points that are too flimsy, or the bags are too "structured" and quite heavy (like some Michael Kors ones). I do like the look of a satchel and do keep looking at them. </p> <p><b>calmwave</b>....I can see how a chain strap would be even more problematic than a leather one if it slipped. </p> <p><b>Rachylou</b>, hmm, I never had any idea about "sloping shoulders" until Angie observed that mind sloped a bit. Body types are so different in SO many ways aren't they. Sloping shoulders also seem to impact how necklines fit, do you find that too? I find that a lot of basic scoop neck or crew neck tops end up gaping just a little in front and I sometimes put in&nbsp; tiny darts to fix it.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Firecracker</b> that is fascinating and after all the bags I've looked at in say the past year, I totally agree on the "sweet spot" of shoulder bag strap width and strap length. I have another bag I'm considering that happens to be a cross body and if I keep that one I'll have to punch a few additional holes in the strap so I can wear it at a height that looks right to me. It's definitely a very personal decision, and like so many other wardrobe items, it's all about the FIT.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943116 Tue, 31 Jul 2018 04:37:40 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1943116@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I took a handbag-making class, and the instructor said she had experimented a lot to find her "sweet spot" for strap width on a shoulder bag. I think it was 2 to 2.5 inches for her. Also, she found she liked the strap to be a good length to just tuck the bag under her arm, not have it hang too low. What struck me was that these things do make a difference, and they can vary from one person to another. I think you are right that the smoothness of the leather, and also the stiffness, will play a role, too. It seems these are elements to take note of in the bags that do work for you, even down to measuring. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1943101 Tue, 31 Jul 2018 03:51:32 +0000 rachylou 1943101@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is the bane of my existence. I have very sloping shoulders. I just don’t wear shoulder bags </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942854 Mon, 30 Jul 2018 18:48:25 +0000 calmwave 1942854@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/member/danskogirl/">danskogirl&nbsp;</a>I was going to recommend the same thing.&nbsp; Haven't tried it myself but seems like a good idea.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>My problem is a lovely chain strap, that, despite my mostly square shoulders, refuses to behave and this gummy strip wouldn't do.&nbsp; &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942836 Mon, 30 Jul 2018 18:23:07 +0000 Angie 1942836@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maybe I can convert you Team Satchel anyway.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942386 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 19:15:29 +0000 Anonymous 1942386@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Those Brahmin bags are so beautiful. Have you contacted Brahmin about this problem? You can't be the only one this happens to. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942365 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 17:14:19 +0000 JAileen 1942365@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is one of the reasons I use a crossbody bag. The other reason is being hands free. The bag has to work, obviously, then the strap has to be long enough and wide enough. A 24 inch drop is long enough for me. I bought this Sak bag earlier this year and have used it nearly non stop. It is big enough that I can casually toss stuff in, has a zip closure, outside pockets, and of course a very long strap. It is also not precious. I used it to take a sweaty water bottle to an outdoor concert and didn’t worry about it. And since I got it at Macy’s, I bought it at one of its many sales. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942358 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 16:43:56 +0000 danskogirl 1942358@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've heard about this stick-on silicone strip that you can attach to purse straps. I've never used it. But maybe someone here has?&nbsp;<a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Purse-Gummy-ORIGINAL-Shoulder-Accessory/dp/B009ZT1QVE/ref=pd_sbs_121_1?_encoding=UTF8&amp;pd_rd_i=B009ZT1QVE&amp;pd_rd_r=1d3de05b-9285-11e8-97d0-034648083ec9&amp;pd_rd_w=0ae8O&amp;pd_rd_wg=jEIJb&amp;pf_rd_i=desktop-dp-sims&amp;pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&amp;pf_rd_p=8702255303818932494&amp;pf_rd_r=NY9TC0QB9CWWHQWFZ63Q&amp;pf_rd_s=desktop-dp-sims&amp;pf_rd_t=40701&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=NY9TC0QB9CWWHQWFZ63Q">https://www.amazon.com/Purse-G.....1_1?_encod</a></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942339 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 15:26:08 +0000 Suz 1942339@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm. I wonder if it has to do with length of handles and/or where the handle is attached on the bag? It would be worth comparing to ones where it does not happen for you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942324 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 14:36:43 +0000 Chris987 1942324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks <b>Suz</b>. Interestingly enough the two bags that have had this issue showed the issue immediately when I tried them on empty. So I didn't need to do any experimentation with a full/empty bag. Small miracles </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942302 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 12:00:38 +0000 Suz 1942302@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's frustrating for sure. Having said I don't have the problem, I remembered that I do have some double handled totes in which ONE strap is forever slipping off. Drives me nuts when it happens. Sometimes it's because the bag is too full but I don't think that is your issue.&nbsp;</p> <p>I imagine you'd have to try it on with stuff <b>in</b> it, and also with the items you plan to wear. Another issue is slippery tops/coats.&nbsp;</p> <p>I understand why it's frustrating because like you, I do not like to carry a daily bag on my arm or in hand, so it is shoulder bags or crossbody bags or knapsacks except for special occasions (when I will carry a clutch).&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942301 Sat, 28 Jul 2018 11:56:25 +0000 Chris987 1942301@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>karen13,</b> good idea, that's sort of what I did with the earlier bone hobo, but with a longer strip of a drapery header fabric. It worked ok but it didn't hold up to the abrasion of rubbing against my shoulder.</p> <p><b>LisaP</b> EXACTLY! I'm trying to figure out what combination of shoulder shape/bag fabric/bag design causes this, but it seems the only real answer is to "try on" a bag right away after buying it, even if you don't plan to use it until later, and if it slips, RETURN IT. Until I had the experience with the bone hobo last spring (and waited too long to identify the issue so could not return it) I never realized that bags could have this issue so now I check them immediately. I tend to have much more success buying bags IRL than via online ordering and I think this is one of the reasons. </p> <p><b>featherwitch</b>, yikes that sounds like no fun! Anything that gives you tendinitis is a no-go in my book. </p> <p>one other comment....I don't really NEED any new bags at this point but I'd love to add a few in specific colors and shapes, so I'm happy to wait for the right ones. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942173 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 23:05:18 +0000 featherwitch 1942173@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm one of those types with a slipping bag as well. My arm ends up always bent and hanging onto the bag. I actually ended up with tendonitis because of it! I'm back to cross-bodies because beating the tendonitis was so painful for so long!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942168 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 22:22:21 +0000 Anonymous 1942168@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You know, I have a really nice bag, bought last year, that is doing this to me, and making me unhappy &nbsp;Too late to return , but I'm not sure what lesson I'm to take away from it ....as I can't figure out what the problem is. &nbsp;I have good posture with fairly even and square shoulders, and the bag doesn't weigh a ton. &nbsp;Who knows? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942157 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 21:47:22 +0000 karen13 1942157@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Just a thought, but if you have any of those add on heel grippers that keep shoes from slipping, maybe cut a strip and apply to the underside of the strap? If it works it would probably only take a small piece to increase the friction enough.</p> <p>I agree it is super frustrating when this happens. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942155 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 21:43:34 +0000 Chris987 1942155@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Nina,</b> good idea about finding a substitute strap, but I wouldn't want to do that with this Brahmin bag...it would ruin the look IMHO.</p> <p><b>Suz,</b> I do have quite a few totes and hobos that do NOT have this problem so I guess that means my shoulders are not sloped too deeply. . Just another thing that might work and might not, depending....</p> <p><b>AviaMariah</b> you are right that the Brahmin strap is fairly stiff. I think&nbsp; the slipping off the shoulder also has to do with how "grippy" vs "slippery" the fabric is. I have a Vince Camuto tote bag with stiff straps that never slips at all.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Thistle</b>, good to know about Brahmin quality. If I liked that tote style I would definitely try it, but I just don't like carrying bags in my hands or on my forearm and very narrow shoulder straps (which this one has) tend to dig in.</p> <p><b>Style Fan</b>, yes the cross body is the surest bet for sloping shoulders. </p> <p><b>Kkards,</b> I'm in that club too! That hobo from this spring taught me an important lesson. Next!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942152 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 21:33:34 +0000 kkards 1942152@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m one of those people who will not suffer a bag that doesn’t work for me. next... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942136 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:43:54 +0000 Style Fan 1942136@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have sloping shoulders too.&nbsp; I am curious to hear what others suggest.&nbsp; I use crossbody bags for everyday running around.&nbsp; For special occasions, I carry a clutch. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942133 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:34:24 +0000 Thistle 1942133@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have sloping shoulders, and I love Brahmin.</p> <p>BUT!! I buy their totes. I need the storage. Yesterday, on a trip to the doctor, my Brahmin carried 4 picture books, 2 chapter books, 2 Kahshi bars, and a toy car.</p> <p>I find that these bags really go the extra mile and look great even after years of use. They have spoiled me a little. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942128 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:12:10 +0000 AviaMariah 1942128@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm not a bag expert but I have sloping shoulders too and it makes sense to me that a wider, softer strap would stay put better.&nbsp; From what I can remember Brahmin bags have a stiffer handle. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942126 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:04:07 +0000 Suz 1942126@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't have this fit problem because I have square shoulders, but I suspect a cross-body type strap would be preferable to a shoulder strap. Bummer!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942121 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 19:30:39 +0000 Nina 1942121@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm.. for items you cannot return, substitute the strap(?), wear it in hand... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942116 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 19:02:17 +0000 Chris987 1942116@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yup, I'm totally with you <b>Sterling.&nbsp;</b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942115 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 18:57:17 +0000 Anonymous 1942115@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have to recommend returning and looking for your next future bag.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/brahmin-bag-slides-off-my-shoulder#post-1942109 Fri, 27 Jul 2018 18:33:00 +0000 Chris987 1942109@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I haven't been posting much in several weeks, but did order a few things from NAS. I got a tan&nbsp;Brahmin shoulder bag, and I really like the color and texture,&nbsp;but the strap slips right off my shoulder. I have sloping shoulders, but I have quite a few shoulder and/or hobo bags that do NOT do this. It seems to be related to how&nbsp;slippery the fabric of the strap is, and it seems totally unpredictable until I actually try it. The Brahmin leather is in fact extremely slippery. I bought a bone colored hobo bag earlier this spring that had the same problem and I sort of fixed it by gluing a strip of drapery heading fabric to the inside of the strap, which looked ok and stopped the slippage, &nbsp;but the fabric started fraying at the edges so it was ultimately a failure.&nbsp; I now consider bags very carefully with this in mind. </p> <p>I looked at the similar Brahmin in a&nbsp;satchel style (one of Angie's NAS top pics)&nbsp;but it's not right functionally for me, since I do not like carrying a bag in my hand or wearing it over my arm. The detachable shoulder strap is a bit too narrow for everyday use IMHO.</p> <p>So, back goes the bag.&nbsp;As I said earlier, I really like it, but I&nbsp;hadn't quite fallen in love with it so&nbsp;I'm not sobbing. :-)</p> <p>Cross body bags obviously don't have this problem, and I do have some of them, but they are too small for me for everyday&nbsp;use.&nbsp; &nbsp;</p> <p>Has anyone found a way to deal with bags designed to be worn on the shoulder, that do not stay on the shoulder? The only solution I know of is return it and move on to the next possibility. :-)&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p></p> </p> <p>#1 the bag that slipped off my shoulder</p> <p>#2 the satchel style that is not right for me</p> <p>#3 the bone hobo that had the same issue</p> </p>