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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Born Arletta: K/ R?</title>
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				<title>RunnerChick on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 17:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RunnerChick</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for weighing in! I'll post pictures with outfits soon (sorry, this is a work-from-home day, and I am still in my &#034;writing&#034; sweats.) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think some of my confusion might come from the fact that  this is a new type of shoe for me, and I do not yet know how to style them. I did read Angie's post about flat oxfords, and that gave me some ideas, as did your comments. I hear what some of you are saying about chunkier heels and more masculine profiles, but I actually like the softer, slightly sweeter look of this shoe. I also like the velvet laces (Diana, yes, they did come with those)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Janet, the high vamp shoes in a dark color takes a little getting used to, agreed, but I have black hair and long-ish legs, so I'm feeling encouraged to try this shoe with skirts and dresses too. I think it might less flattering but more edgy, if that makes sense, and some days all ALL about the edge, flattery be damned. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Shiny - love the idea of wearing it with tights and a girly dress (that's what I do with my Steve Madden Troopas) for an unexpected twist.  Plus, with black tights, I can create a longer leg line. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Diana - I'm going to look at your outfit posts to see how you have styled them. These are the charcoal color (they look less black IRL). &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks for all your comments - I am excited about styling these shoes, and think I am going to keep them.
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				<title>Diana on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 12:17:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I have two pairs of these so you know I am going to like them.  I love the retro Victorian feel of the velvet laces, but they should have come with regular laces as well - at least mine did.  I have grey with black velvet laces and gold with regular beige laces.  I wonder if you might prefer the grey color?  It's a little lighter and more RATE.  I did not get black because I wanted a more distressed, RATE look.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wear mine with everything.  Pants and skirts/dresses.  They are my ballet flat substitute.  I even wear them with ankle socks and a dress sometimes, although I know that is not going to be everyone's cup of tea.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 12:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love them.
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				<title>Janet on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 12:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a similar pair -- actually Born but another style that's even more &#034;jazz shoe&#034; because I wanted a very lightweight Oxford for summer. Mine are a sort of champagne metallic, which I like much better with skirts and shorts for the low contrast with my pale legs (I find it hard to wear black high-vamp shoes with shorts or skirts). In fact I wore them yesterday with a sleeveless blouse and a skirt for a casual errand day. I got compliments on them too,&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;However, since it sounds like you're not planning on wearing these with bare legs, maybe you could post a picture with an outfit you'd be more likely to wear with these shoes? I think they'd be cute with jeans.
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				<title>cjh on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 12:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have them in brown.  Wear them all the time with dress slacks for work.  I admit I would probably not wear them with jeans or skirts, but I have lots of shoes.  Long ago I left behind the concept of having all purpose shoes.
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				<title>shedev on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 03:15:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have Borns that look like these, but they are more of a pewter than black. I wear them with pants. I love mine.
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				<title>catgirl on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 03:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've admired these on Diana but I personally prefer my oxfords to look like men's shoes - in fact, I had a pair of men's wingtips in law school that I wore with everything.  It really depends on your personal style, I think.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love the Frye Carsons and they have some other cool versions of oxfords too...
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				<title>Jaime on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Like very much in principle but need to see outfits as a whole to really see how they work. Would wear them with dresses for sure.
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				<title>shiny on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 02:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a pair just like that (less the laces). And I do wear them with dresses sometimes. In fact, I wear them even with formal dresses. They are the best shoes to wear to get to a formal event in winter (ice and cobblestones and such) and then swap into heels once you get there. Or not. Because they have kind of a &#034;thing&#034; which is adorable with formal dresses and tights. Unexpected menswear/super girly combo look. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So give them a try. Dark tights and your most girly-girl dress.
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				<title>sarah on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 02:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I like them - they're very similar to the Miz Mooz Histerics that a lot of us have purchased. I just posted recently about dyeing mine, but that's only because as a blonde, I have trouble wearing all black shoes. I wear mine with skinny jeans and trousers.
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				<title>Krista on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 02:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Would you be willing to post a photo of them with a pair of pants you might wear them with (ooh, that's terrible grammar there - sorry!)?  It's tough to make a judgement with a bare leg...
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				<title>Marley on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 02:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmmmm . . . the lace looks like a ribbon - is it?  That may be contributing to the jazz look of the shoe.  I have seen black oxfords that are a little more substantial (that is, clunky - thicker sole and heel) - which I think are more attractive than these!)
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				<title>RunnerChick on "Born Arletta: K/ R?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2012 01:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;They feel amazingly comfortable. Worth every penny. But I'm afraid they look a little jazz shoes. I know my ankles are skinny and I probably will not wear them with skirts or dresses. What do you all think?
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