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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Black Tie HELP!</title>
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/black-tie-help/page/2#post-1749270</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 17:57:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love #1 on you. That's my favorite. If it proves too difficult with the hem alteration, either of the others would work beautifully, too. You are seriously stunning in all of them. I second Vix's idea of blue shoes as a possibility; I could see a beautiful midnight blue satin with the rose gold.&#038;nbsp; You could pick up the color in a sapphire-like jewelry at your neck, wrist, or ear. 
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				<title>rachylou on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 17:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No, it has to be #1. Any shoes, any bag. The dress is the whole show, nothing else matters. Lol. It's FABULOUS.
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				<title>lpr200 on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 17:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love #1, and can't wait to see what you accessories you add
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				<title>harmonica on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 14:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Late to the party. #1 is gorgeous! I really like the idea of burgundy shoes.
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				<title>Muffin on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 14:28:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Muffin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Last night I ordered some shoes from Amazon and will have some time today to look locally.  Will see if I find anything in burgundy, dusty rose, nude, bronze, etc--thank you for opening my eyes to more possible solutions.  I would like to have it all settled to I can get the alterations under way.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I do think I would like #2 in black better too.  Curious to see how the smaller size fits but I definitely don't need to be adding 3 dresses
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				<title>peacechick on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 10:58:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the romantic feel of dress #1 but I also like #3 very much. The slightly padded shoulders make the dress out of the ordinary and it also fits you really well. Going to go against the grain and vote for #3!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I suspect #2 may look pretty good in black, if you ever want to try it for another event.
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				<title>approprio on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 10:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>approprio</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote #3. Utterly gorgeous, knocks the other two out of the park IMHO.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>lyn67 on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 10:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Awh, all 3 are beautiful-really, but didn't realized the white is also a sequin dress! Nr 1 is more classic and is also &#038;nbsp;my fave, too-color and neckline is very elegant, but I would think to keep them all, if having other events, as they are quite a great fit, and each suits you really well!:-)&#038;nbsp;
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&#060;p&#062;(Nr 2 is a tad more covered, so &#038;nbsp;can be worn to opera or a little less formal event, too-. Nr 3 is the most trendy, to me, and white is always super elegant, radiate confidence and is outstanding, if you are comfortable with that!!!)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 05:59:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not taking comfort, costs, alterations into it, I think #1 is the most special, although I like you in #2 also.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Looking forward to seeing you in the completed outfit.&#060;br /&#062;I haven't worn anything that fancy in years.
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				<title>bj1111 on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 05:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Actually I also like #3 -/ my second choice.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 05:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Chiming in again. I think dusty rosy mauve accents could be pretty and like the burgundy suggestion Suz made too. Accenting with matte rose gold pieces, blush, nude, or a deeper more coppery than rose color could work also. Maybe something a bit bronze or pweter-y.&#060;br /&#062;
It looked great on you, look forward to seeing it styled. I have those Jcrew earrings, so pretty.
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				<title>Muffin on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 04:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;More #1 votes, but a few for the white one too (sadly I can understand being in the minority vote today...and this has proved a good distraction).  I very much appreciate each and everyone one of your kind words and input!!!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The bright gold #2 will go back.  I will try on the smaller size just for curiousity sake when it arrives.  I may hang on to the white one for a bit and run it by husband and a few friends.  I do like it quite a bit and will have future reasons to wear it (&#038;amp; the price was great!).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Suz, burgundy is a really interesting idea that I hadn't even considered!  I will bring the dress to the stores when I look.  I do have a gorgeous pair of nude pumps but worry that they aren't special enough.  Not sure why this is a worry because they really won't be seen but I just have this idea in my head that it should be an evening shoe/sandal.  I will try them on with the dress and see if I can be satisfied (and one less thing to purchase).  Off to look online!
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				<title>Greyscale on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 04:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote for #1 too! What a great color. Red carpet worthy.
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				<title>Liz A. on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 04:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1! &#038;nbsp;The color and cut are stunning on you.
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				<title>Vix on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 03:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Muffin --&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Ooooh, you're not making this easy!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love how the white NR find looks on you; so elegant and flattering. However, I could say the same about the rose gold and from the photos I think the color is better for your skin and hair.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You might need to get some IRL eyeballs on these....&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As far as accessories, I think any color that works with your coloring and the dress would be fine with #1. A brighter green or blue, maybe?
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				<title>shedev on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 03:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shedev</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 is absolutely stunning.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 02:48:30 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I actually like them in the order you're wearing them.&#060;br /&#062;
The Anthro dress is gorgeous.
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				<title>JAileen on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 02:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 1 best too.  It looks wonderful on you.
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				<title>Echo on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 02:20:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Echo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, I am not in the popular vote here, but the white one is just stunning on you - so, so flattering.
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				<title>Sara L. on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 02:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I prefer the first one and the third one. I think that white dress is extremely flattering on you.
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				<title>Suz on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 01:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All three are lovely on you but my favourite is #1. Gorgeous. I'm also really attracted to #3, although I agree that the fabric seems &#034;thick&#034; somehow.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For footwear...hmmm. Maybe a bright...nude for you would work too although perhaps not very exciting. Still, they will mostly be covered.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wonder if a sort of burgundy would work?&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Pat_P on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2016 00:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Pat_P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;While all three are very nice, I love #3!
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 23:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>chewyspaghetti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the white one best, and the original one second.
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				<title>bj1111 on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 22:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 by a lot!
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				<title>Muffin on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 21:41:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Muffin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you all for taking the time to chime in today!  I guess it goes to show you should always go with your first instinct--dress #1 seems to be the clear winner.&#060;br /&#062;
Funny Smittie that you commented on &#034;thickness&#034; of the white dress, there are some kind of strange (but pleasing for whatever reason) thick shoulder pads and maybe the pattern of the sequins (and being white) adds to this.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And thank you Texstyle and Smittie--will start a serious search for nude, gold, and bright rose out for shoes &#038;amp; clutch.  I'll be back to post more as I find options!
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				<title>binkle on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 21:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes on #1!  The neckline and fabric are so interesting, I think you could get away with no necklace, or just simple pearl strand.  Gold or ivory/warm-toned clutch?
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				<title>Mirjana on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 21:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mirjana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with others #1 is the best choice. You look so elegant, gorgeous.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 21:21:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My favorite is dress #1.  Looks fantastic with your hair!
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				<title>texstyle on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 20:52:12 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also really prefer dress #1. What about nude to you shoes or an unexpected bright rose?
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				<title>Anonymous on "Black Tie HELP!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2016 19:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the rose gold one on you best (#1). I like the white one too, but it seems thick, or something.&#060;br /&#062;
I can't help with the accessories and shoes! Maybe gold works with rose gold? I don't know.
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