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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Birthday shopping?</title>
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				<title>Anonymous on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/birthday-shopping-1#post-1550443</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 19:42:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Go fitbit! It's kind of like jewelry.
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				<title>Elly on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 19:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elly</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is like shopping with friends! Fun--- thank you all for the input. I'm leaning towards jewelry, because I will never get around to it otherwise.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>viva on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 11:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>viva</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy birthday Elly! I'm of two minds -- either indulge yourself for the day (spa/highlights) or get something you can use often to remind yourself of this special day (jewelry or lovely sweater). &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would dip into savings to renew your passport. That feels too practical for birthday money.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 07:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have a fabulously wonderful birthday (&#038;amp; spend the money on YOU).&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Ankita on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 07:22:35 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;HAPPY BIRTHDAY gorgeous! :)&#060;br /&#062;I'm with&#038;nbsp;Cheryle on this one - pamper yourself today and maybe even surprise yourself eh! Have a huge piece of birthday cake for all of us and have a beautiful day Elly... i vote take a short trip somewhere if that makes you happy, let your hair down, go to the spa for a body massage/mani/pedi/hi lights - the works!!!&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Sending a HUGE birthday hug and tons of love&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;xoxo
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				<title>Maneera on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 05:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Maneera</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Birthday, Elly! It's your bday here already!!!! Many many happy returns of the day, pretty girl! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Now, I am a huge fan of birthdays. I think you ought to do something TODAY.....celebrate life and pamper yourself with something that you'd love to have but don't usually spend money on. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If you're a big fitness enthusiast, I like the idea of the Fitbit. Mind you --- it's addictive, especially if you're competitive  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  If you want to do something girlie and fun, I like Cheryle's idea very much. Most things on your list sound too practical to be counted as 'pampering'! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Maybe think outside the box? Jewelry is a good idea too, especially if you don't want clothes or shoes or bag. Changing your hairstyle and a relaxing spa day also sound nice  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Have a fab day today, Elly! Happy Birthday again!
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				<title>ananthimathur on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 03:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ananthimathur</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's your birthday! Get yourself some goodies and jewelry is &#038;nbsp;the best idea. Although don't backtrack your passport work!&#060;br /&#062;You should definitely get a new look! Its your birthday, you should spend your money!!!
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				<title>Vix on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 03:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Treat yourself to something on your list you'll use right away! [So no passport since travel isn't even on the horizon, no parks pass....]&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Then treat yourself to a second thing to make up for past no-big-deal birthdays!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 00:53:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Birthday! Go have some gelato or a specialty drink or something that you love to eat but seldom have.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 00:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Treat yourself! You sound like a practical person, so I think some reckless abandon along the lines of 1 or 4 is just the birthday ticket. I'd recommend one of the choices in #4 because they're great reminders that life is impermanent and our best treasures are memories. But if you think you really won't enjoy those options or feel guilty, then get the Fitbit -- a fine  marriage of practical with treat.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Happy happy!
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 00:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am going to deviate from the list. &#038;nbsp;Birthday money is mad money and should be used for something that you want but wouldn't normally buy for yourself. &#038;nbsp;How about a gorgeous sweater in a color that you LOVE. &#038;nbsp;Or a new pair of jeans or boots. &#038;nbsp;Something fun and interesting that will remind you of your Bday when you wear it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Happy birthday Elly. &#038;nbsp;I hope you have a fab year and get the new job!!
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				<title>unfrumped on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2015 00:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Would you also like to play with a&#038;nbsp;new hairstyle and maybe would not go to a special salon except for birthday splurge? I like the pampering idea (spa day) even though there's no &#034;tangible&#034; thing, but jewelry is nice, too.
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				<title>Peri on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 23:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Peri</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I never get too tied down to the actual day either, as far as celebrating goes. But definitely get some nice little splurge right now! I've had the experience of &#034;saving&#034; play money for later and then it gets frittered away on something not special at all, that you don't even remember later. If it was something like $1000 I can see the point of being careful and thoughtful with it, but $100 is made for perfect, no guilt splurging.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would go with the jewelry or hair. The advantage of jewelry is that it lasts and every time you see it you are reminded of the fun of choosing it and that it was for your birthday.
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				<title>Cerinda on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 23:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cerinda</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hair or jewelry, I say, but no deferred gratification! &#038;nbsp;Celebrate! &#038;nbsp;Have a lovely birthday and a great year ahead!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 23:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Angie, Instant Birthday gratification sounds like a fabulous idea... Highlights will certainly do the trick. &#038;nbsp;Happy Birthday, my fellow Virgo&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Leighways on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 22:58:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Leighways</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;1/2/8 sound great to me ! You totally don't know me but happy birthday, I can totally sympathise with this situation - on my birthday, all my friends were on a school bandcamp. I had the flu lol. Actually, I still haven't spent my birthday money, come to think of it!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As someone with a fast heart, fitbits freak me out - I had one but was terrified every time my heart was irregular or over the recommended rate. I knew when I got it I had a fast heart, but seeing it in real time was a shock. But it did help me get walking again, loose a bit of weight.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My only tip is - don't get what you won't use! Passports are great and all but, no travel, no use.
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				<title>JAileen on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 22:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Birthday!  Mine is this week too.  Here's what I would do: wait until something catches my fancy. Of course for me, that happens all the time.  I hope you have a great day.
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				<title>Elle on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 22:46:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Birthday (minus one day)! &#038;nbsp;I vote to treat yourself to something fun now - #4 would be my preference &#038;nbsp;but if &#038;nbsp;#1 or #2 would make you happier, then go for it. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Angie on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 21:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Birthday! You are fab in many ways, Elly. Adore you.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You need instant birthday present gratification. Go get hi-lights.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jenn on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 20:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy early birthday, Elly! I think you should a little something to spoil yourself with your birthday money. That's what it's for! The jewelry or the Fitbit both sound like fun to me. Or saving for a splurge later, so long as you actually DO splurge!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 18:38:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy early birthday to a fellow Virgo! (Mine is on Friday.).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have the Fitbit Charge HR and I love mine and have been wearing it daily for the past 7 months. Whatever you decide to do with the money, I am sure your will be most happy.
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				<title>Dee on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 17:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;If money isn't tight at the moment, I vote 1, 4 or 6. I think that birthdays are one of the few times where you should do something just for you, in whatever way makes you happy.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 17:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Since you're not sure what to spend it on right now, save it for that perfect&#038;nbsp; &#034;aha&#034; moment.&#038;nbsp; Birthdays can be celebrated all year, right?&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>abc on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 16:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hope you have a great bday, Elly. &#038;nbsp;You deserve something special for you. &#038;nbsp;If not for your bday then when? &#038;nbsp;Spoil yourself a little and don't feel the least bit guilty. &#038;nbsp;I vote 1, 2 or 4. &#038;nbsp;I am a big fan of &#034;have passport, will travel&#034; but don't think you should spend your bday money on this.
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				<title>Alassë on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 16:44:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alassë</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Early happy birthday, Elly! I support the idea of a little birthday special-ness for a change. You have an excellent list of possible items. I like #1 best for a little something extra for your wardrobe, but which possibility most excites you?
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				<title>Elly on "Birthday shopping?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 16:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elly</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm spilling the beans--- my birthday is tomorrow. My SO works 6 12-hour days straight this week (plus an hour of commuting), every year and then is exhausted for a couple weeks. This year my girlfriends are both out of town on a trip I couldn't go on and my family is in the middle of a workweek and their crazy home repair project.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I never do anything special to celebrate-- it has been this way for years and just isn't a big deal. I usually get about $100 in birthday money and usually use it toward bills or put it in savings. I have a strong savings account already.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This year I've been considering doing a little shopping. Here are the options:&#060;/p&#062;
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&#060;li&#062;Do a small jewelry refresh and purchase some delicate silver pieces that I could wear in the neckline of t-shirts and some stud earrings to give my stainless steel &#034;diamond&#034; studs I wear everyday a break.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Purchase the fitbit flex for monitoring my heart rate.&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Renew my expired passport (no plans to travel).&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Go for a pedicure and a massage or hi-lights.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Save the money for shopping later in the season.&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Save the money for a day trip later in the month or at the end of October that may or may not happen.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Save the money for a parks-pass (mostly useful if I get the AZ job, the only NP in driving distance in CO I already have free admission to).&#038;nbsp;&#060;/li&#062;
&#060;li&#062;Save the money (for the potential move, for car maintenance?)&#060;/li&#062;
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