https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 19 Apr 2026 12:25:00 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173288 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 04:54:02 +0000 Anonymous 2173288@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>FI, I'm not baiting anybody. &nbsp;Why don't you stop stirring a pot that doesn't need stirring? &nbsp;Nobody likes to be stereotyped. &nbsp;Period. &nbsp;This is my last comment on this thread.</p> <p>And thanks, Suntiger, for your thoughtful comment. &nbsp;I do appreciate it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173232 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:44:26 +0000 rachylou 2173232@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you, Suntiger. </p> <p>But ok, let’s close this down before I lose my thread on fashion and Mary Poppins... ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173229 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:33:11 +0000 Anonymous 2173229@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry Xtabay for my comment. What I imagined was someone that had a lot of plastic surgery, to the point of looking totally unnatural. People in the media that come across as shallow, but I expect have a lot of fear behind it. </p> <p>I didn't picture at all anyone on this forum, or that I know in real life, with blonde hair and/or a small nose. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173227 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:25:36 +0000 rachylou 2173227@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>And then there is indeed, FI, the whole thing about ‘gentlemen prefer blondes’ and ‘blondes have more fun’ ... and in those old movies, the blondes having more fun were all ‘platinum blondes,’ were they not? Just about everybody losing out there, including real blondes.</p> <p>(Plus, yeah, the crimes against humanity. Ahem.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173222 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:16:59 +0000 rachylou 2173222@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah. I just want to say I’m not saying I dislike small-nosed blondes. ‘Small-nosed blondes’ is a tribal call. People squeal it and then invites get issued<br /> to the ladies club. It has little to do with any real physical features. You don’t actually even have to dye your hair blonde. There is a way to bond with this phrase and not have gone blonde. As a bit of a peripheral person on this world, it’s not that I dislike anybody, but I am extremely uncomfortable. Both because I could never put that much energy into my personal appearance and because it’s very hard to room with girls who ... eat one green bean a day and then throw it up because their mum told them to watch their weight so they can get a man. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173221 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:16:19 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2173221@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Xtabay, now you’re baiting, laying that out there like there aren’t centuries of values attached to appearances, and acting like the mention of that actual history is the problem. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173215 Fri, 19 Feb 2021 00:04:30 +0000 Anonymous 2173215@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, I accept the apology.</p> <p>I guess we are free to dislike whom we dislike, but to base it on looks is, I think, wrong. &nbsp;Some would say prejudiced. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173172 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 21:37:15 +0000 rachylou 2173172@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’ll be candid and say those I refer to do not accept natural small-nosed blondes as they are any more than they do anyone else. It is a demanding aesthetic. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173161 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 21:29:22 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2173161@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Rachylou, excellent point, whether a person is born blonde or chooses it later, there is value placed on it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173156 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 21:21:16 +0000 rachylou 2173156@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I apologise Xtabay.</p> <p>If you like, we can talk more about what it means to be a small-nosed blonde, naturally and unnaturally, and what it means to face those who find a particular camaraderie in it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173095 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 19:33:13 +0000 Anonymous 2173095@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I thought it was a hurtful comment, yes. &nbsp;Surprised to see that kind of thing on here. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality/page/2#post-2173083 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 19:10:12 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2173083@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Xtabay, not only is my sister naturally blonde with a naturally not-very-big nose, she is actually named Karen! If you’re in the US or follow news from there, you know what a disaster that is/that she has to be able to understand when things are/aren’t directed at her, and how to take a joke. Tone is infamously hard to read online. I hope your comment is meant light-heartedly and that you aren’t hurt. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2173077 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 18:31:38 +0000 Anonymous 2173077@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a small-nosed blonde, so thanks for putting me in my place. &nbsp;</p> <p>Should I have my nose enlarged or dye my hair so I'll be more acceptable to you all? &nbsp;</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2173074 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 18:22:33 +0000 Angie 2173074@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>&nbsp;I've had the pleasure of meeting you in person, <b>Rachy</b> - and I say you've nailed it.&nbsp;</p> <p>I see fabulous inside-out style congruency. Lots of accurate reflections and execution between your beliefs, values and personality, and the way you present yourself to the world. Quirky Deluxe :)</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172938 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 04:45:31 +0000 rachylou 2172938@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You are so warm and generous, Suz! When this covid is all over, the YLF meet-up needs to make a comeback! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172937 Thu, 18 Feb 2021 04:30:42 +0000 Suz 2172937@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OMG. I so want to meet you in person!!!&nbsp;</p> <p>ALL of this is reflected in your style -- the fashion we see you wear, but also your style of expression here on the forum. What a kind and joyful and hilarious presence you have. We're lucky to know you here. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172564 Wed, 17 Feb 2021 01:36:07 +0000 Kaelyn 2172564@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well said, and fun to read--you to a T. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172432 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 18:40:39 +0000 Minaminu 2172432@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Excellent summary Rachylou! I think it is very you </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172428 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 18:30:50 +0000 nemosmom 2172428@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I will take a Socratic puffy in green, please!&nbsp; Love your break down, Rachy - and I think you nailed it!&nbsp; I love your association to Mary Poppins and can absolutely picture you at the bakery, snapping your fingers, while uttering, "Spit spot!" </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172406 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 16:36:22 +0000 slim cat 2172406@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a fun read ! Definitely you - on point . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172386 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 15:15:44 +0000 Anonymous 2172386@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Picking out an outfit is energizing and calming! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172364 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 14:40:04 +0000 Jaime 2172364@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Am comfortable with the homeless talking to me, parties with prime ministers...<br />To me this is the key to your personality, at least as much as I know it.<br />Although the Mary Poppins reference is evocative too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172360 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 14:23:52 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2172360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><i> I try to have compassion for the small nosed blondes. Aging is much harder on them than the rest of us!</i><br /> Funny and deeply true! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172345 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:44:33 +0000 LaPed 2172345@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love it! I promise to back your Socratic puffer gilet on Kickstarter. </p> <p>And I fully identify with "Need something to think about to stay awake and to go to sleep." The only time I ever really plan an outfit is when I can't fall asleep. Ditto meals!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172332 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:17:52 +0000 RobinF 2172332@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds about right! I love "put a puffer over it", that is pretty much winter outfits. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172331 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:17:37 +0000 Helena 2172331@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Best business idea ever!!!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172330 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:17:18 +0000 rachylou 2172330@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Firecracker, Carla, Irina, Bijou, Mainelady - I’m glad you see some of this. Mostly, I have thoughts and wonder then what happened! Hahahaha! </p> <p>Ledonna, I am certain we are friends! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172328 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:11:33 +0000 rachylou 2172328@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Brooklyn - someone else! I’m not alone!! :)</p> <p>Helena - I feel, I don’t know, a need for a line of Socratic branded puffers now. I feel a logo coming on... a hemlock! And the first item in this line is going to be a long long puffy gilet with contrast piping... I am inspired! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172325 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:01:17 +0000 Helena 2172325@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Rachy yes, you nailed it ... I would suggest one more adjective, but I'm not sure what it should be ... "Socratic" comes to mind ... you have a playful way of conferring your deep wisdom, in a way to doesn't make any claims to having wisdom, thereby demonstrating the depth of your wisdom ... if that makes sense. And I'm not sure, but that somehow must relate to puffers too </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/beliefs-values-personality#post-2172324 Tue, 16 Feb 2021 13:01:09 +0000 rachylou 2172324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ST: I really have only one type of pants - skinnies, lol. It’s one culottes, one harem pants, one flares, one crop flares and then a bazillion skinnies </p>