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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Being sick and going out-do you fake it? https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 21:57:43 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Flytigress on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it/page/2#post-2103716 Wed, 04 Mar 2020 17:15:31 +0000 Flytigress 2103716@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/  I hope you feel right as rain soon! Zaeobi on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it/page/2#post-2103713 Wed, 04 Mar 2020 16:49:52 +0000 Zaeobi 2103713@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ My pyjamas might seem to be a little much for other people (tank top, lightweight sweatpants, long cardigan & a scarf) but this is precisely the sort of situation that the outermost layers come in handy for, lol. Everything is in neutrals like browns, creams & khakis except for the scarves - they add a pop of colour to lift my face instantly (no makeup needed!) I go for a similar approach if going to work when sick but with a flat waistband (no drawstring trousers). I'll sometimes add mirrored sunglasses if I look particularly bad but, out here (Hong Kong), it's common to wear a face mask as a courtesy to other people whenever you're sick (yes, even before the Coronavirus). So both sunglasses & a mask can make me look a lot more suspicious than I may want to be (like a celebrity trying to avoid the paparazzi), haha. elpgal on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it/page/2#post-2094358 Wed, 22 Jan 2020 01:28:15 +0000 elpgal 2094358@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This was me last week and I had to go to work. All black, colorful flats and scarf were my go to. Angie on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it/page/2#post-2094317 Tue, 21 Jan 2020 21:40:50 +0000 Angie 2094317@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Glad you're on the mend, sweet Slimcat. I'm sure you look great Anonymous on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it/page/2#post-2094306 Tue, 21 Jan 2020 20:47:02 +0000 Anonymous 2094306@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Yep, I won't go out without shower, makeup and "real clothes." But DH is good about going out and getting me stuff when I feel awful. Lesley on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2094208 Tue, 21 Jan 2020 16:10:38 +0000 Lesley 2094208@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ What a timely post! I feel horrid today and my daughter was just diagnosed with flu, so I guess that's what I have too. (Yes, we got shots.) But even though I was totally not in the mood to put makeup on today, I did, because I have a dog training class at 7pm, and I knew if I was going to make it in public that late in the day I would totally have to fake it. (BTW, I'm only contemplating faking it as long as I don't have a fever. If fever comes on, I'm sending DH in my stead... and possibly even if I don't get one!) slim cat on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2094014 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 19:11:00 +0000 slim cat 2094014@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thank you @shevia, @Jenn, @Joy, @Sterling, @nemosmom, @Janet and @Angie! I guess it all depends on the level of fatigue I'm feeling. I'm starting to see improvements in my well being, so more efforts will be made to look decent. It's has been a long time since I was sick with this level of misery but I'm feeling optimistic today. Thank you everyone for warm thoughts and wishes! Long live YLF! Angie on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2094008 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 18:53:32 +0000 Angie 2094008@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sending healing thoughts, and feel better soon. I hope you see a doctor or healer to help you out.  Personally, I find that my levels of self-care is the same when I'm ill because it makes me feel better. I shower, do my hair and make-up, and dress comfortably in regular clothes. I move more slowly though.  Slimcat, there is no right or wrong answer. You do what you can manage on any given day.  Janet on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093965 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 16:03:12 +0000 Janet 2093965@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Depends on how sick I am and where I am going. If I really feel like crap and am only going out because no one else is around to go buy me Nyquil, I'll throw on jeans with my pajama top and a baggy jacket to hide my lack of bra, and put on a cap to cover my hair and sunglasses to hide my bleary eyes.  If I just have a head cold or something, I will put in a moderate amount of effort but I certainly won't overcompensate.  I hope you feel better! nemosmom on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093960 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 15:45:07 +0000 nemosmom 2093960@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I try not to venture out when I am really ill.  A hot shower, comfy pjs, and lots of rest.  Hope you feel better soon! Anonymous on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093959 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 15:42:14 +0000 Anonymous 2093959@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I like Windchime's response the best.  She is wise beyond her years.  I hope her response resonates with you.  Best wishes.   Anonymous on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093950 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 14:30:30 +0000 Anonymous 2093950@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ A shower or hot bath and washing my hair makes me feel better as well as warming me up. A hat that covers bed head hair and a warm scarf. I hope you are feeling better. Sick day clothes must be warm and have pockets for tissues. I actually have a small capsule of clothes for when I am sick, including silver fleece-lined slippers that look like loafers. Jenn on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093896 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 03:55:41 +0000 Jenn 2093896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ooh boy, I’ve had shingles for the past two weeks, so this is timely for me. Definitely comfort before fashion (all my clothes are comfortable, but comfort when you’re sick may mean different things). I think it’s worth it to do whatever makes you feel more like yourself without just making things worse. It seems silly to try to wear foundation with a runny nose, for example, or skinny jeans when you’re bloated. But a bright scarf? That’s doable. Oh, and just combing my hair usually makes me feel a bit better about being in public. Jaime on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093886 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 03:27:34 +0000 Jaime 2093886@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I try not to go out when I feel that badly. Luckily I have an accommodating family. Feel better soon! slim cat on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093869 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 01:31:18 +0000 slim cat 2093869@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thank you everyone for well wishes and suggestions for a sick day' out ideas! I didi venture out today feeling just a bit better with a fresh hair and a lipstick/sunnies combo ( even though it wasn't a sunny day ). Hoping the next day will be the last truly "sick day" for me - need to go back to work on Tuesday.  YLF forum is a very warm and supportive community and I feel good being a part of it. Kari on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093861 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 00:32:25 +0000 Kari 2093861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I’m so sorry. I’m sick with the crud right now. <div>I go for comfort. Soft clothes, layers I can remove. If I’m blowing my nose nonstop or my eyes are watering I’ll cut out most makeup (no lipstick, minimal eye makeup.)  To just go to the pharmacy or doctor I’ll put on nice but minimalist sweatpants and a knit top and whatever toppers are most cozy and warm. </div> The Cat on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093859 Mon, 20 Jan 2020 00:07:08 +0000 The Cat 2093859@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ When I have to go out while feeling sick, I wear: bold frames, lipstick, light/bright scarf, plus a long coat over comfortable pants and top. Don't bother with jewellery. Best wishes for your recovery. Windchime on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093856 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:47:33 +0000 Windchime 2093856@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ten days is a long time to feel sick.  I hope you start feeling much better very soon.  As far as how much effort to put into your appearance right now, I’d say it’s up to you.  If you’re too tired to make much effort, don’t worry about it.   Cardiff girl on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093852 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:39:25 +0000 Cardiff girl 2093852@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ If I am proper poorly I can’t stand the feel of make up on my face,strange I know when I usually wear it daily.l also can’t bear anything that feels like an effort to wear is anything tight or uncomfortable so it’s baggy stuff all the way but fortunately I am not often ill  and when I am I can usually avoid going out.l hope that you are soon feeling better and back to your usual self. Stagiaire Fash on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093850 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:28:37 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2093850@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Btw, Slim Cat, my son has been sick for about ten days now and me for about a week. He is starting to come out of it, and I’ve progressed just as he did, so probably only have a few days left. I hope you feel better soon too! Kate on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093849 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:27:20 +0000 Kate 2093849@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Lipstick, sunglasses, and warm, colorful scarf. rachylou on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093843 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:13:02 +0000 rachylou 2093843@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Well, tbh, that’s what I wear every day for the midnight dog walk, lol Stagiaire Fash on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093841 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:11:04 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2093841@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Rachylou & Sal, I don’t need to be sick to pull on my long coat & tall boots over whatever “loungewear” I happen to have on for a run to the store—it’s not rare at all, for the grocery that’s 300 meters away. kellygirl on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093839 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 23:08:06 +0000 kellygirl 2093839@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I generally always get dressed. I have a difficult time leaving the house in sweats. Probably wouldn't bother with makeup and would wear sunnies. Knock on wood, I haven't had to do fake it very often.  Sal on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093835 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 22:52:57 +0000 Sal 2093835@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ A hat (beanie or wide brimmed), glasses, scarf and usually a coat. I might be wearing leggings and an old hoodie but I feel in disguise. rachylou on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093834 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 22:45:37 +0000 rachylou 2093834@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ankle length puffy that hides everything else I’m wearing and bright pink beanie... StyleDetective on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093818 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 21:38:16 +0000 StyleDetective 2093818@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I make an effort to wear my one of my most flattering colours - I used seasonal colour analysis to determine these a while ago, but those not into SCA could just reach for whatever colour they feel makes them sparkle. I also reach for things that are a bit dressier than needed for the occasion... I'll rock up to the pharmacy in a skirt and cardi rather than jeans and a t shirt. But my style is quite dressy anyway so that feels authentic to me. More often than not, I'm happy when people realise I'm sick, as they tend to be a bit more forgiving (which is nice when you are just too tired and miserable to make conversation). Helena on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093815 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 21:31:32 +0000 Helena 2093815@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sunglasses! Hope you feel better soon; there have been some really nasty viruses this year. Anonymous on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093813 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 21:27:35 +0000 Anonymous 2093813@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Lipstick, sunglasses to hide puffy eyes, and I'm good to go.   Hope you're feeling better soon! slim cat on "Being sick and going out-do you fake it?" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/being-sick-and-going-out-do-you-fake-it#post-2093811 Sun, 19 Jan 2020 21:22:50 +0000 slim cat 2093811@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ @kkards - I don't drive but sometimes feel like a short walk to nearest store will do me a bit of good. Of course I stay out of other people's way and once put that white medical mask over my nose and mouth ( that's a clear signal to others - sick/stay away ).