https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 25 Apr 2026 07:07:02 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1453463 Mon, 09 Mar 2015 13:29:47 +0000 Neel 1453463@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Glad you are feeling better Deborah ...I missed your original post... Winding down myself and taking things easy! And I cannot stress how important it is. Thinking of you x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451997 Fri, 06 Mar 2015 03:25:18 +0000 Elizabeth P 1451997@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear you are going through this Deborah. But good for you taking control and doing something about it. Easier said than done. Best of luck with the other company. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451811 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 21:28:50 +0000 Anonymous 1451811@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My thoughts and prayers go with you. You are wise and brave to release yourself from a toxic environment and move on. My DDIL manages volunteers and plans events for a non-profit. She is stressed and I wish that she would quit. Big hugs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451780 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 20:30:40 +0000 gryffin 1451780@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You're in my thoughts and I'm beaming good karma you way!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451635 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 16:01:50 +0000 AM 1451635@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thinking of you and sending you good mojo. Let the next chapter unfold and cheers for recognizing you needed to make some changes and take care of yourself. Big hug. And I missed you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451503 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 11:16:21 +0000 Dimity 1451503@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wishing you well for the new job possibility. Stress management techniques are very valuable. So is being in a situation where you don't need them! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451450 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 06:17:23 +0000 AJ 1451450@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Even Jesus needed boat rides to get a break from the crowds. :)</p> <p>I pray the rest of your week is full of hugs, snuggles, and giggles. Wishing you all the best in your job search, which shouldn't take long because you have excellent skills! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451445 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 05:50:15 +0000 CocoLion 1451445@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sending you love and hugs! &nbsp;As far as toxic situations go -- change them or leave. &nbsp;So you're on the right track I think. &nbsp;In the past I've had this "don't ever be a quitter" mentality, and stuck through untenable situations. &nbsp;In one case, I ended up getting fired anyway. &nbsp;Which made me feel like it was all my fault, when it wasn't. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451443 Thu, 05 Mar 2015 05:38:08 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1451443@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sending good wishes your way for continued relief and much luck on the job hunt! You are a gem, Deborah; please remember that. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1451098 Wed, 04 Mar 2015 18:26:22 +0000 Eliza 1451098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sending peaceful thoughts and restful moments your way. &nbsp;Glad you are shifting things for the better.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1450968 Wed, 04 Mar 2015 11:06:06 +0000 Lucy 1450968@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Rest up! Sending good thoughts...&nbsp;<br />And it is a brave and sensible decision to move on, if it is making you miserable.&nbsp;<br />*Hugs*&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1450796 Wed, 04 Mar 2015 00:15:53 +0000 deb 1450796@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deb. I am so sorry you are going through this but glad you wen to the doc. Take care of yourself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet/page/2#post-1450782 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 23:39:34 +0000 Deborah 1450782@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ladies, I cannot thank you enough. &nbsp;I am feeling much better today. &nbsp;I have been down to set up for our community meal and my partner (and very dear friend) in that venture sent me home with some yummy "Bliss Balls" and some very good reading materials on stress managment &nbsp;I am about to finish off the job application and then have a bit of lunch with DH.</p> <p>I am feeling extremely uplifted by your prayers and kind thoughts.<br />xxx</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450762 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 23:04:27 +0000 Diana 1450762@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good luck with everything, Debs!&nbsp; I hope things calm down for you soon.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450736 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 22:37:31 +0000 Sara L. 1450736@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Work place drama is not fun and can be really draining.&nbsp; I hope you are able to find a better fit for your personality and talents.&nbsp; Be well! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450716 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 21:51:42 +0000 Caro in Oz 1450716@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thinking of you, big hugs &amp; I hope everything gets resolved quickly:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450704 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 21:33:03 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1450704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for checking in Deb - I've been wondering where you've been at. I'm so sorry you have this situation to deal with. My goodness stress can wreak havoc at times, can't it?</p> <p>I hope you find another position that is more suitable and in the meantime, spend as much time with your loving family - flesh and fur baby alike </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450695 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 20:58:27 +0000 Classically Casual 1450695@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sending you healing, calming thoughts. You'll get this sorted quickly, I know.<br /> Bravo for taking action and moving on. Dog snuggles are the best! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450629 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 19:06:20 +0000 Greyscale 1450629@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deborah, I hope your week off&nbsp;is restful and replenishing. Stress takes such a toll on us. Be good to yourself - and best of luck finding a new and better situation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450590 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 18:13:42 +0000 Style Fan 1450590@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope you find another job.&nbsp; I have been in some very stressful job situations and very thankful when I was able to leave.&nbsp; My prayers are with you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450572 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:45:04 +0000 doubleh 1450572@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have not read the other comments, but I just wanted to let you know I'm so sorry for your work struggles. &nbsp;I am going through a bit of my own- drama within a small group- and I appreciate the mental toll it takes- it is such a "sleeper stress"; it take so long to realize! &nbsp;I'm glad you sought help and you've the thumbs up to take a break. &nbsp;Warmest thoughts with you!</p> <p>PS- And I think February just&nbsp;has to suck. &nbsp;It's a law or something...;) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450552 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:20:26 +0000 rachylou 1450552@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Here's to an easier time of it (!) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450550 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:18:32 +0000 kkards 1450550@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>so sorry you are going thru this. please remember to be kind to yourself. sending lots of postive thoughts and prayers your way. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450527 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:43:52 +0000 Angie 1450527@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, Debs. Life gets the better of us sometimes doesn't it. Snuggling up on the bed with Dexie sounds about as therapeutic as is gets.&nbsp;</p> <p>I hope you find another role, and have a good week off. Relax, process and recharge. We are here if and when you need us. Much love. xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450510 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:17:04 +0000 crutcher 1450510@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sometimes when I am not listening or not paying close attention, He will hit me in the head with something powerful enough to stop me...That stop is often when the blessings are delivered...I suspect that you may have had a moment when you were stopped and made ready for the better things to arrive...I send you my most positive thoughts that you will find that special place where your heart will sing..Life is so very short not to enjoy each moment to the max...<br />My old adage: &nbsp;What is yours is never really lost but is reaching our to you even to the ends of the earth..<br />Hugs to you... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450482 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 15:11:22 +0000 Peri 1450482@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So smart to take steps to change the situation! A lot of people would just put up with it...so much better to make a change.</p> <p>I saw you featured on the blog "already pretty"! I was so happy....wow, I <i>know </i>her!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450469 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 14:35:56 +0000 jackiec 1450469@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry that you have been so stressed. I hope the time off and the prospect of a new position will restore and relax you. Take care. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450447 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 13:39:51 +0000 Alassë 1450447@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry all that's been going on, Deborah. I hope the new job becomes reality and is a good fit for you. Praying for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450432 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 13:07:19 +0000 Windchime 1450432@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for letting us know what's going on. A politically-difficult work situation can really take a toll. In a past job where I was not happy, I found that just the process of applying for other jobs was helpful to me emotionally. It gives you hope. I hope this works out very well for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/been-a-little-quiet#post-1450407 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 10:58:16 +0000 Summer 1450407@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deborah, I'm so sorry that you are feeling below par. &nbsp;Workplace niggles can lead to very low spirits. &nbsp;I do hope you will be successful &nbsp;with the new job possibility, and that you return to your old happy self very soon. &nbsp;I'm sending positive vibes your way. &nbsp;Take care.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>