https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 29 Apr 2026 21:19:26 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321303 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 20:18:04 +0000 biscuitsmom 321303@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, Im *so* sorry to hear this, but you have so much love and support from people who are lucky enough to be in your life and I know you are strong enough to weather this storm and will be able to look back on this trying time many years from now, knowing what courage you showed and smile...hugs from me and the B! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321247 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 18:08:40 +0000 rute 321247@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wish you all the best! You are brave! Hope everything is solved soon! I big kiss and hugs from Portugal!!!!!!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321245 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 18:06:11 +0000 Kari 321245@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, my thoughts and prayers go with you. I'm so glad that the cancer was detected so early, and wish you courage and strength during your treatments. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321191 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 17:03:43 +0000 Claudia 321191@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry that you need to deal with any of this, but there is a lot of good news concerning the situation overall -- you are right. You are in my thoughts that all goes well and that you can put this behind you as soon as possible. &lt;3 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321187 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:48:44 +0000 Polly (thunalata) 321187@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Just so sorry. Will be thinking of you and admire your courage so much. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321165 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:22:53 +0000 MNsara 321165@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel - I'm so sorry you have to deal with this and you will be in my thoughts and prayers! Take good care of yourself through any and all treatments, be kind to yourself too! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321155 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:16:39 +0000 Sihaya 321155@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, I don't frequent the forum as much as I"d like to these days but the title of this thread caught my attention. I am very sorry to hear of your situation and, like others, I want to give you kudos for your attitude. I"m a firm believer that our attitudes can help us get through a lot of adversity. You have done a lot of good in your life - think of where your sister would be without you. So it's no surprise that all sorts of doors are opening for you now and people are helping you. I am glad that you have reached out even to share your story as there's support in there too. </p> <p>I caught a sizeable lump last year through a self exam. It wasn't visible on multiple mammos due to my high breast density. The ultrasound couldn't rule it out either. Fortunately the needle biopsy did. I felt truly lucky to have had a wake up call and "walk away" this time. I still remember the cold, hard, roiling mass of fear that had taken residence in my stomach for those 3 long weeks. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you every day. Especially during this wait. Please do keep us posted both when you see the upside and also if you are feeling down. </p> <p>Hugs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321152 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:13:15 +0000 Barbara 321152@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, my thoughts and prayers are with you. </p> <p>I'll have to say, those butt fat comments are making me smile, big time!</p> <p>*HUG* </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321150 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:07:37 +0000 RoseandJoan 321150@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, please just know we are here to hold your hands. You and your family will be in my thoughts. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321147 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 16:04:34 +0000 Steph 321147@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, your attitude about this is wonderful, and I am so glad that they caught this at such an early stage. My boyfriend's mother has survived breast cancer not once, but twice! I also know several women who have gone through the regimen you are anticipating, with fantastic results. </p> <p>Lots of luck to you, and to you as well, bookarella. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321145 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 15:45:13 +0000 Carole 321145@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel-Just now seeing this thread and so happy to hear that your prognosis is excellent-certainly your positive attitude and outlook will be a huge blessing as you face this challenge. Sending good thoughts and well wishes your way! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-321143 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 15:28:57 +0000 Isabel 321143@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jonsey, you are so right. It IS the human condition. I said the other day to my best friend ( who was devastated by the news ) , I have a human body, it will get sick. The best I can do is to access all that is given me to get better. And luckily, I have access everything I need for this fight. Everything. I how can I not feel good about it ?</p> <p>Sarah and Aida, I have a dear friend who was the director for several group homes for mentally disabled adults ( my sister is one ). She runs a suicide prevention program now. She has taught me that even in the midst of tragedy, there are some very unique and funny moments. And of course in many situations there simply are not. But I learned to look at some things as if they were a scene in a movie and sitting in a doctor's office being told, in all seriousness, that you don't have enough fat in your butt to use on your breast but there might be in your mid-section was sooooooo surreal and just funny to me. As in, am I really having this conversation? How did we get from breast cancer to lack of butt fat ????? Really ? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320877 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 00:52:26 +0000 Jonesy 320877@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your insights are so moving and thoughtful. It's funny how sometimes when you are younger you think that lots of people have this "smooth sailing" type of life, and you want that too. As you age, and you experience tragedy, setbacks, major changes, etc., and know others going through the same things, you realize that this *is* the human condition. We are all doing our best to deal with what life hands us, move forward, be kind to each other, and leave something meaningful behind...You seem to have such a marvelous perspective--you are obviously a generous, open, caring person. I will be thinking of you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320872 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 00:45:46 +0000 sarah 320872@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, your positive energy and outlook are truly inspirational. I can't believe you're cracking jokes about butt fat - you are amazing ; ). Your attitude is going to be on your side as you weather this. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320867 Sat, 26 Mar 2011 00:07:08 +0000 KristineK 320867@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>years ago my mother received a diagnosis that sounds almost identical to yours. she's been in remission for a little over ten years now when detected early BRCA is very treatable... although knowing that doesn't necessarily make the experience less scary. wishing you the best of luck! (also, from the way my mom describes it the BRCA survivor community is pretty wonderful in terms of supporting each other... so you don't have to go through it alone ). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320861 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 23:52:36 +0000 crazyone 320861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, I'm so sorry to hear this but I'm very glad to hear that your prognosis is as good as it is. I can't help be amazed at your positive attitude and good humor about it all, but feel free to vent/ask for support if you're feeling otherwise, as well. </p> <p>You've got a lot on your plate and I really admire the grace with which you do it all. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320799 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 22:30:36 +0000 April 320799@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, I've been thinking of you and will keep you in my thoughts. I'm so glad your prognosis is excellent and am looking forward to when we finally get to meet in person (keep that swap pile growing!) Please take care and keep us posted on how you're doing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320776 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 21:32:03 +0000 carrie 320776@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It sounds like you have a lot of positives on your side. I'm so happy you feel you have support here at YLF - I know we're all sending good energy your way! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320773 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 21:27:47 +0000 Aida 320773@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Isabel, you really are inspiringly strong! I'm glad you decided to pursue this and that you have the means for treatment. Sending good thoughts your way.</p> <p>(And the butt fat comment made me snort here at work; I would certainly NOT have that problem hehe!) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320738 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:52:20 +0000 catgirl 320738@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>oh, Isabel, you are such a strong and lovely presence here, and I know your amazing attitude will help you get through this tough time. I will be thinking of you and waiting to hear news as you post it. Please don't hesitate to come here to vent or just need some support. Big hugs - I'm glad you felt able to to share with us here... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320731 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:46:38 +0000 Isabel 320731@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bookarella, this is not about having anything taken away from me. I am SOOOO glad you told us. I decided to post because I just knew, that with the unfortunate prevalence of breast cancer, that someone else had to be going through it.</p> <p>It is nerve wracking. Unfortunately, we mostly hear about the unsucessful breast cancer stories, but there are literally a hundred thousand plus that turn out well every year.</p> <p>I also have very dense breasts and it was concluded that is why all three mammograms were "normal". I also had an "atypical" breast biopsy 14 years ago. So PLEASE see a breast surgeon and do an MRI. And do your self exams religiously. And remember to always tell whoever is following you that you want a breast ultra sound and/or an MRI. </p> <p>I am going to bug you about this !!! Please take care of yourself.......the chances of having a curable cancer is a great gift to give yourself.</p> <p>GOOD LUCK !!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320718 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:39:45 +0000 chouette22 320718@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I also would like to join the long line of well-wishers here and am sending positive energy and wishes your way. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320711 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:32:14 +0000 Bookarella 320711@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry that you have to go through this, but glad that you are able to see the silver lining of the situation. Your positive attitude will certainly be a factor in your cancer experience and will spread to those around you. Not to take away from you or anything, but I have been going through my own issues related to breast cancer so this really struck a chord with me. Just yesterday I had to go back for more extensive mammography testing and breast sonograms due to a suspicious mammogram the previous week plus an atypical result on the breast pap exam. While I did get good results yesterday, I truly felt like things were not going to go so well, and my mind went to some very unpleasant places. They still would like for me to see a breast surgeon and have a breast MRI just to be sure all is good for now. I did find out that from now on based on my "atypia" and my dense breast tissue I at a high risk for developing this type of cancer. That is actually good so now we can all keep an extra careful eye on things. I will be praying for you and your family and wish you the very best. Sounds like you are in great hands! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320696 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:14:23 +0000 Aziraphale 320696@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Isabel, although you deserve more empathy than me....mine's just a monster fibroid, so my surgery's not for months. In the meantime, I'll send my healing thoughts your way! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320694 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 20:07:10 +0000 morethanbeige 320694@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, thank you for sharing this information with us. We are here for you. I am sending you healing thoughts and am hoping for a speedy recovery from your treatment. You inspire me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news/page/2#post-320692 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 19:58:00 +0000 Isabel 320692@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lynne, unfortunately the butt fat donation line is getting long ! ; 0 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news#post-320689 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 19:54:50 +0000 Isabel 320689@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Elisabeth, GOOD LUCK to you !!! I am sorry to hear about that. I know how you feel. I have severe endometriosis and because of the treatments I will need for the cancer, I will probably have a hysterectomy. We will be sisters in this !!!! We will get through this spiritually in tact. Believe in that Elisabeth !</p> <p>Please let us know how you make out. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news#post-320688 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 19:52:50 +0000 SW Ann 320688@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My thoughts and prayers are with you....keep up that positive attitude to kick C's butt! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news#post-320687 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 19:52:07 +0000 Lynne 320687@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>:D butt fat donation - I'm in!</p> <p>Elisabeth - all the best to you. Stay strong. Lx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/bad-news-good-news#post-320686 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 19:50:30 +0000 Aziraphale 320686@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like your chances are very good, and you have many people rooting for you! Here's hoping your surgery is straightforward and they get it all. I'm facing a hysterectomy myself, so I can easily imagine how you feel right now. It sounds like you are getting prompt medical care, too, which is important. Good luck! </p>