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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: attempt at wearing an orphan</title>
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				<title>cinnamon fern on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/attempt-at-wearing-an-orphan#post-616349</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 01:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cinnamon fern</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you guys!  It's not the bare arms that feels revealing to me - it's more the combination of fairly tight pencil skirt with waist-defining top - I feel like it says:  &#034;look at my butt!&#034;  But you guys are reassuring.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Krishni - high-waisted jeans or capris sounds perfect.  Now that I think about it the main reason I've never worn this top is that I have no bottoms, and only this one skirt, that are high-waisted enough not to risk showing some belly/lower back.
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				<title>Laura (rhubarbgirl) on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 00:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura (rhubarbgirl)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Is it because you don't feel like you can wear a sweater or jacket with it? I think it's lovely but if you're not used to having bare arms that can be an adjustment.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love the idea of it with jeans or something more casual on the bottom for a contrast.
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				<title>krishnidoux on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/attempt-at-wearing-an-orphan#post-616211</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 23:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>krishnidoux</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Are you an IT or secondary IT? The detailing on the top around the collar and sleeves might contribute to the problem. It brings a lot of attention to the top and maybe this is why you feel self conscious? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think this top would look very good with : &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;High waist palazzo pants; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Midi flaring skirt;;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Tulip style skirt;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;High waist flare jeans;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;High waist shorts;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;White capris.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;However, if none of the style above tickle your fancy, and if it makes you feel exposed, I vote toss.
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				<title>teeandcee on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 23:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>teeandcee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm pretty modest and conservative too and this doesn't look at all revealing to me either. And I agree on a different set of bottoms like jeans. I think white jeans would look great.
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				<title>Victoria on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 22:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Victoria</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't think its revealing at all! I am a quite conservative dresser and this passes my &#034;modesty&#034; test, lol. Looks quite nice on you. As others said, I think it may go better with shorts or jeans, it has &#034;casual&#034; feel to it.
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				<title>Anonymous on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 20:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm trying to figure out if maybe this top just isn't your style. Do you usually wear a button front to work? Does the top feel too feminine/romantic to you? It doesn't seem risque, but I can understand it might feel funny if you are used to sleeves and a collar.
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				<title>christieanne on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 17:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>christieanne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It has such a pretty ruffle but I can see how for work it might be uncomfortable if you don't typically bare your arms. Save for weekends?&#060;br /&#062;
The coat is such a pretty shade of raspberry - I have a coat in similar shade and I have tried to donate/ditch it many times but it is too cheery when I wear it so it lives on.
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				<title>Suz on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 16:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So interesting! I was expecting a plunging neckline but instead saw this modest top! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What feels too revealing? The arms, or the neck area? Figuring that out might be helpful for further shopping. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I do understand how in some environments (or a less warm climate) it could feel uncomfortable. And wow, what a great coat!!! No wonder you want to wear that!
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				<title>shoppingisfun on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 16:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The top doesn't look too revealing to me at all. To me, though, it looks like the kind of top that might look better dressing up some dark jeans. I DO love your raincoat though!!
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				<title>cinnamon fern on "attempt at wearing an orphan"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 16:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cinnamon fern</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've had this top a while and never worn it.  I regretted this outfit as soon as I left the house - it feels a bit too revealing - I am wearing my coat as much as possible.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Should I toss the top?  Or is there some better way to wear it?
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