<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<!-- generator="bbPress/1.0.2" -->
	<rss version="2.0"
		xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
		xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
		xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom">
		<channel>
			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?</title>
			<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement</link>
			<description>Style Advice for Fashion Lovers</description>
			<language>en-US</language>
			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 15:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
			<generator>http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2</generator>
			<textInput>
				<title><![CDATA[Search]]></title>
				<description><![CDATA[Search all topics from these forums.]]></description>
				<name>q</name>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php</link>
			</textInput>
			<atom:link href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/rss/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />

				<item>
				<title>Anonymous on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1889594</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2018 17:14:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1889594@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Merci Rachylou je vais le mettre dans mes pièces de déclaration&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Thank you Rachylou I will put it in my statement pieces
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1889590</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2018 17:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1889590@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, je pense que la chemise blanche à boutons est essentielle pour toi - le col fermé est ta façon de le porter (!) D'autres éléments essentiels - le chandail à col châle et le manteau long. Ton pièce de déclaration est certainement le nœud papillon.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(Oh, I think the white button front shirt is an essential for you - the closed collar is your statement way of wearing it (!) Other essentials - the shawl-collar sweater and the long overcoat.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Your statement piece is definitely the bow tie.)
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Anonymous on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1889498</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2018 14:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1889498@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Rachylou I have a lot of trouble to part with a coat and especially my shirts it makes me a blow to the heart and I'm like you if I liquids I'm going to buy them again it's stupid so I keep them .You know a little my outfits could you advise me between what can be worn every day or what is declaratory I can not wait to get your opinion
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Lynn on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887620</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 01:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887620@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ditto on the cake analogy. Good one Rachylou  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Barbara Diane on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887577</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 22:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887577@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love this. I feel like it’s never been discussed. And I love the cake analogy.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887464</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 16:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887464@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Right. And I can’t resist this: The cake is your Essentials - chocolate, vanilla, carrot. Your Statement is your rosettes, sugared violets, candles. The Completer is the base frosting - mocha, butter cream, purple tinted...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;:D
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>LaPed on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887459</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 16:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LaPed</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887459@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Okay, the movie extra analogy makes perfect sense. Love it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think you're right, Rachy, that tops/blouses often end up in this category. Say you're wearing a Statement topper and Essential jeans, there are probably about ten different tops you could put underneath, and the one you choose may not necessarily be an essential, but it gives you an opportunity to change up the flavour of the outfit. Oops, and there's the cake analogy! Okay, maybe I get it.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887442</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 15:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887442@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Emily, LBD, (Angie!) - Yes. I’m thinking ok, I don’t need two mint silk blouses, but ten silky blouses in general doesn’t mean a waste of space. If I gave them all away, I’d probably be out buying them again. I’m also thinking, it makes sense that one would have more of these regular pieces, in absolute terms, than either essentials or statements. You don’t exactly vary essentials and statements...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Angie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887431</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 15:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887431@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not yet,&#060;b&#062; LBD&#060;/b&#062;. But I will.&#038;nbsp;
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Mary Beth (formerly LBD) on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887409</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 15:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mary Beth (formerly LBD)</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oooh, this is a good thread!&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;This clarifies some things for me as well.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;Not to reduce or declutter or purge (or maybe to do just that).&#038;nbsp; Y'all are helping me understand why I reach for some things again and again, and why some items that ought to be useful, sit abandoned in the closet or dresser drawer.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;These are good considerations for future planning and shopping.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Angie, have you written an article about completer pieces, vs. essentials or statements?&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Angie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887404</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887404@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Completers are VERY necessary. You need all sorts of ingredients to make a cake, and extras to make a movie. Without them - the end result is not the same. Think of Completers as that portion of your wardrobe.&#038;nbsp;
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Emily K on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887285</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 02:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Emily K</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887285@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;rachy, that was my perspective as well. I kind of feel like pieces that are neither essential nor statement represent lost opportunity.  But I concede that there is probably room for items like patterned button downs or non-neutral tees — the completer pieces.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Kathie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887280</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Feb 2018 01:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kathie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887280@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Completers! Yes, I was wondering about this, and especially for pieces that might be essential in some people’s wardrobes, but not mine. For example, I have two white button downs. Not statement pieces, and my wardrobe wouldn’t fall apart without them, either. My black knitwear, on the other hand, is truly essential. Without it, I have a closet of clothes, and nothing to wear.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887140</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 17:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887140@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don’t know about you, Lynn, but I guess I didn’t realise there was a third category. Essentials and statements seemed like they could form the whole picture - background and foreground.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I guess I also forget this is about personal style as well as simply being clothed. My plain cardigans are nice but my style doesn’t rely on them to be ‘me’.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Lynn on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887046</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 14:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lynn</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887046@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for posting this Rachylou. I was struggling where to put these items also. Angie's response is very helpful.&#038;nbsp;
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1887001</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 10:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1887001@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ya ya. I always have to make it worse: Is a fallback its own thing? These dresses of mine that I call ‘black farm dresses’&#060;br /&#062;
- I have several. There has always been at least one in my closet throughout the decades. They dress up or down - a sunny day, a funeral, the ballet. I’m terribly attracted to them, although I&#060;br /&#062;
don’t love them like I used to. They’re not regulars or essentials. Maybe they’re statements. Or maybe they ARE regulars, just not exactly daily wear...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Jaime on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886919</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 03:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886919@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah completer! That makes sense  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  .
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886917</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 03:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886917@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aha! Thank you thank you, Angie! I couldn’t for the life of me figure out the place of non-essential non-centerpieces in the scheme of things... I was starting to wonder if I should toss all my blouses just on principle...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Helena on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886910</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 02:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886910@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;And it all clicks together! Hooray!
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Sal on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886891</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886891@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have these two - for others they might be an essential but not quite for me...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;eg red leather jacket/olive jacket&#038;nbsp; - I do wear them both but could live without them easily...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>jussie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886888</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jussie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886888@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I read somewhere each outfit needs 3 things: a basic piece, a statement piece and a completer piece. The completer piece is not as plain as the basic piece, usually has some interesting but subtle detail, and the statement is the show pony.&#060;br /&#062;
Just a philosophy I read but I rather like it....
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Suz on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886886</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:41:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886886@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I sense another blog post!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>jussie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886882</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:37:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jussie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886882@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I’d call them completer pieces: most outfits need one- but it’s not as workhorsy as an essential.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Mainelady on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886878</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mainelady</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886878@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, this is very helpful.  I think I have many non-essential  completers.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Angie on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886846</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886846@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;La Ped&#060;/b&#062;, &#034;glue&#034; is a wardrobe essential.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Rachy &#038;amp; Helena&#060;/b&#062;:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;basics&#060;br /&#062;essentials&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;u&#062;&#060;i&#062;&#060;/i&#062;&#060;/u&#062;&#060;i&#062;non-essentials/ regular pieces/pack&#038;nbsp;pieces/completers&#060;/i&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;statements
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Mainelady on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886840</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 07 Feb 2018 00:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mainelady</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886840@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am so glad you asked, Rachylou!  I think I have a lot of pieces that live in the valley between essentials and statement.  I can’t even put my head around jewelry. Some of my pieces are essentials, some are statement, some are sentimental, some refuse to be labeled. All deserve to be worn and loved.
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>LaPed on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886725</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LaPed</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886725@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;I find this kind of stuff the hardest to shop for. &#034;Necessities&#034; or &#034;Glue&#034; in my internal monologue. In some cases, I might think of them as &#034;Finishing Touches&#034;?&#038;nbsp;
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Aurore on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886723</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aurore</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886723@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's an interesting question! There are many items I actually can't classify as &#034;essentials&#034; or &#034;statements&#034; (nor &#034;gear&#034;, nor &#034;basics&#034;)...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>Helena on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886708</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 19:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886708@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, I have this question too! In my case, it's things like my navy blazer, fluid silky blouse or black casual clutch - they are the pieces I use to transform my essentials into something more dressy/business-like/polished, but they aren't themselves essentials in my wardrobe, nor are they statement pieces. What the heck are they?
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
				<item>
				<title>rachylou on "Ask Angie: neither essential nor statement?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-neither-essential-nor-statement#post-1886704</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 19:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
				<guid isPermaLink="false">1886704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/</guid>
				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ok ok. Angie et al: What would you call ... and do with ... something that is neither essential nor a statement (nor basic hosiery and underwear)?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For example, I don’t think there’s any way the silky blouse could be called one of my essentials or be accused of saying ‘here *I* am’... but I’ve got them and occasionally they seem necessary...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Shevia suggested Functional, which makes sense to me. But also, I mean, how does one go about contemplating these items? I probably have too many, but it’s nice to have options...
&#060;/p&#062;
</description>
			</item>
	
		</channel>
	</rss>
	