https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 16 Apr 2026 18:47:48 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446984 Wed, 25 Feb 2015 03:46:59 +0000 DonnaF 1446984@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>DD NEVER wears matching socks.&nbsp; She wears the sneaker ones that are sold by the dozen at Costco.&nbsp; I rather think she prefers that they don't match.&nbsp; They keep turning up in all kinds of odd places.&nbsp; Maybe you have one or two of hers? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446755 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 21:50:14 +0000 Anonymous 1446755@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>&nbsp;If I came to your no shoes house and you were wearing mismatched socks I'd think you'd been busy getting things ready for your guests rather than fooling around with your laundry, no harsh judgement.<br />If you were barefoot and everyone else was wearing socks because of the season&nbsp;I might wonder if&nbsp;you were cold but that's it.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446750 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 21:46:01 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 1446750@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Spinoff question: do some people wait to match their socks until right before they wear them? I safety pin my socks together when I take them off, so they're easy to sort when they come out of the laundry, but before I did that I always sorted them when I was putting up the laundry. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446746 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 21:32:56 +0000 Louise 1446746@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you would need to give the guest the choice of bare feet or mismatched socks. I hate cold feet so would prefer mis matched socks however if you're expecting people to remove their shoes, in my personal view you need to make sure people are aware of your no shoes rule and encourage them to bring slippers. I would personally also ensure I had some matched socks available and possibly some slippers as it may make some people uncomfortable to have to go bare footed or mis matched socks. I'd go socks but would be unhappy if they were mis matched and I hadn't been warned about the rule x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446738 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 21:18:25 +0000 catgirl 1446738@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Not tacky here - it's expected that you take off your shoes. We have extra slippers or I lend people socks, and often people bring their own. Too cold for bare feet!</p> <p>This hangs by our front door. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446733 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 21:09:17 +0000 LindsayH627 1446733@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I was hosting a party at my own house (which is a no-shoes house) and was unable to find a matching pair of socks at the time, and thought that bare feet would look less tacky than socks of mismatched color. Which do you think? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446725 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 20:56:02 +0000 Jules 1446725@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If the host is offering you mismatched socks from a basket they have for the express purpose of sock-ing barefoot guests, then they probably prefer the mismatched socks, no?<br />Now tell us, did this scenario actually happen to you? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446721 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 20:40:03 +0000 LindsayH627 1446721@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Isabel, is that because you think that mismatched socks would be tackier than bare feet? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446519 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 15:58:21 +0000 MsMary 1446519@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These threads always make me happy I live in sunny So Cal, where shoeless houses are rare! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446497 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 15:15:26 +0000 cloud9 1446497@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If you know ahead of time the house you are visiting has shoes-off policy, then just bring a clean indoor only pair slippers. Even for the hot summer still no bare feet allowed ones, one can bring flip flops? I personally think it's just good manners not to expect others to break their habit just to accommodate someone else, applies to both the indoor shoe wearer/guest and the host. </p> <p>My BIL's SIL does this and she brings the fanciest and prettiest slipper ever, complete with a cute decorated basket to carry it in. :). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446436 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 13:21:10 +0000 Anonymous 1446436@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Upon re-reading, I saw the question differently. I'm thinking you're at their house, you weren't wearing socks, and they're offering you some from their basket of guest socks which is made up of singles from pairs of which they've lost one.<br />Hahahahahaha! It just gets better.&nbsp;Not happening. Bare feet. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446325 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 02:47:45 +0000 psychedelicate 1446325@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>UmmLila, what about providing workers with hospital-style booties they can slip over their shoes? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446324 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 02:44:11 +0000 Jules 1446324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can only picture someone who generally doesn't wear socks (habitual flip flop or sandal wearer) and doesn't have a lot of socks, who finds themselves visiting a home that is shoes off. Although I am Canadian and understand and expect shoes-off homes 3 out of 4 seasons, I do have a somewhat similar issue in the summer at my in-laws because she wants shoes off AND does not like bare feet on her carpeted floors. I generally don't wear socks in summer so it's an issue. In her case, she would just be happy her guests brought socks and not offended if the socks did not match! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446322 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 02:38:52 +0000 Anonymous 1446322@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>In my circle of friends and family we have always removed our shoes upon entering each others homes. I either go barefoot or bring slippers or socks. When my DD was a teen a couple of years ago, wearing mismatched socks was very popular. I feel wearing a mismatched pair of socks looks better than naked feet, unless of course the feet are really pretty.</p> <p>As for workmen entering the home, I always put a drop cloth down for them to walk on, but lately have found that almost everyone workman that has entered my home in the past few years wear disposable booties. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446317 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 02:26:53 +0000 Echo 1446317@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't understand the question. If I am able to look for socks, I am clearly at home, in which case of course there would be a matching pair somewhere. If I were at a guest's home and had brought socks with me, then those would be a matching pair since I had put them in my bag. If my host insisted that I take socks out of a sock basket and there weren't any that matched it would not matter because the host would want me to wear them regardless of whether they matched or not.</p> <p>So exactly where would you be, or what situation would you be in where you were able to look for socks, but unable to find a matching pair, and where you wondered whether barefoot would be preferable? I've been turning this over in my head and I cannot imagine the scenario in which this would happen.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446309 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 02:11:24 +0000 Peri 1446309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm with Isabel.&nbsp;I have trouble with this practice because of foot issues and not being able to go shoeless without pain.&nbsp;I do understand about people not wanting dirt in their houses, but I'd hope for a little understanding if I was someone's guest as I would not likely show up with actual mud. I'm married to an Asian and I would still expect (and get)&nbsp;leniency from his family. As in all things, moderation. If someone did not understand my need for shoes I would not be likely to visit a second time.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446299 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 01:55:28 +0000 Anonymous 1446299@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>While it&nbsp;may be common in some cultures, it's certainly popular world wide. In my home family members&nbsp;change their shoes when they come in. In extreme circumstances I&nbsp;might show a visitor&nbsp;where they can wipe their feet and if they volunteer to take their shoes off that's great, but I have never asked anyone to&nbsp;take them off. I expect to do a little extra cleaning before and after I have visitors.<br />And I would not want to wear someone else's "guest socks"!<br />I would've gone with the mismatched socks. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446296 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 01:43:20 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1446296@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I always thought it was a Thai thing, and I adopted the idea from friends when I had a baby since she was all over the floor. I wrote to an advice columnist about it since I found many people were resistant to it, and she told me to keep a basket of nice socks by the door for guests. This works except that the now 15 year old baby raids the fluffy sock basket!</p> <p>My biggest issues with the shoes off policy are workmen who are shocked to learn that I don't want their muddy shoes in my house. I had major words with a very dirty chimney cleaner on the topic! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446293 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 01:36:00 +0000 Anonymous 1446293@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Canadian too. It has been my experience that my friends and family (and me) remove our shoes and wear bare feet or slippers when visiting each other. But if I attend a house or dinner party, we keep our shoes on. In the thick of winter, we wear our boots and change into the shoes to match the outfit. And these are shoes I have worn outside. </p> <p>I have never been asked to remove my shoes, nor would I ask someone for a few hrs of socializing. But I have seen a basket of slippers, so I got the hint and wore them. </p> <p>I would be a little insulted if asked </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446281 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 01:00:25 +0000 MrsK 1446281@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't think either is tacky, but I would think it was weird to see bare feet at a time of year when it would be too cold outside for sandals. If it's sandal weather, then I think bare feet is fine.&nbsp;</p> <p>(Side note: where I live (Vancouver, Canada) the norm is that shoes are removed in homes. So it wouldn't be tacky (or a surprise) to ask that shoes are removed. It would be expected. I think this might be a Canadian thing? I know I was surprised when I first heard that people commonly wear shoes inside the house in the US.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446278 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 00:54:20 +0000 psychedelicate 1446278@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's a cultural thing. Where I live, every single home is a no-shoes home and people also change shoes at the office when they arrive, etc. Personally, I see nothing rude about not wanting street dirt all over your house, although I think it is best to provide slippers. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446275 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 00:32:00 +0000 Anonymous 1446275@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Neither is&nbsp;as tacky as surprising a guest&nbsp;by insisting they remove their shoes.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446273 Tue, 24 Feb 2015 00:25:23 +0000 psychedelicate 1446273@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think is a question for Miss Manners At my own home, I would go barefoot. In someone else's home, I think it can feel a little personal. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-in-a-no-shoes-house-does-mismatched-socks-or-barefoot-look-tackier#post-1446178 Mon, 23 Feb 2015 20:35:28 +0000 LindsayH627 1446178@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If unable to find a matching pair, does mismatched socks or barefoot look tackier? </p>