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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: April is the cruelest month . . . because</title>
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				<title>Elly on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 03:07:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elly</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have no suggestions-- at only 5'8&#034; and with a proportionally SHORT torso I still can't wear many one pieces or tankinis. But, it isn't too much of a problem since I live in Colorado and the only place I see water is at the pool-- all of which are indoors except the local hot springs. I love to swim and I am a fish, but I stick to my TYR lap suits. If I do go to the lake or hot springs, I throw on board shorts and even a baby t or rashguard. I have no reason to ever wear a swimsuit that has to look nice!
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				<title>Kari on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 02:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'd highly recommend trying Lands' End.  Not only do they have a lot of good selections, but some of their suits come with underwire &#038;amp; various cup sizes.  I got &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.landsend.com/pp/AlloverControlSlenderCarmelaSwimsuit~191482_593.html?bcc=y&#038;amp;action=order_more&#038;amp;sku_0=::DTQ&#038;amp;CM_MERCH=IDX_Women-_-Swimsuits-_-ShopbySilhouette-_-OnepieceSwimsuits&#038;amp;origin=index&#034;&#062;this one&#060;/a&#062; a season or two ago and *love* it.  I wasn't sure what size/cup size to order, so I chatted online with one of their fit specialists and told her my build/measurements, and the size she suggested fit perfectly.  I wear a 32G/dress size 10 in real life and ordered a size 10DDD.  I'm only 5'5&#034; but have a long torso/long rise/high waist.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I've also had good luck finding cute, flattering printed Speedo swimsuits at Costco around this time of year.  (Not just in the basic workout tank shape, either.  Mine is a deep purple and black snakeskin-like print and has a low back, crossover straps, and a deep V neckline.)
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				<title>MsMaven on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 00:17:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMaven</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for your many suggestions.  I have had Miracle suits before--I didn't think they came in long.  I'll check all the links.  I almost bought a long torso from J Crew a couple of years ago online, but hesitated too long and most of the long ones were gone.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Several years ago there was a store in Valley Fair that advertised custom made suits.  You went in and tried out all different parts and they came up with a model for you, then you picked a fabric.  Well, they were out of the fabric I wanted, so I got a print that was too bright.  Also, the fit wasn't any better than some of the ready-made suits.  That store is long gone anyway. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is one area where I know the stores will run out early, so I need to move quickly.  Can't stand to try them on in the stores anymore--so depressing.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Oh, and Queen Mum--I agree with your sentiments.  I did get an email from my son in Chicago yesterday--he said they had several inches of snow on the ground.  So, things could be worse.
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				<title>lyn* on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 22:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;One thing great about clerkship: no time to swim.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have a one-piece I do laps in  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Vani on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vani</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie speaks highly of the Miraclesuit swimsuits:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/14/flattering-swimsuits-with-extra-coverage/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2010/05/.....-coverage/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2008/04/09/the-flop-proof-swimsuit/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2008/04/.....-swimsuit/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2007/05/23/the-miracle-swimsuit/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2007/05/.....-swimsuit/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;General tips from Angie:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2006/04/28/treacherous-terrain-%E2%80%93-the-bathing-suit-part-1/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2006/04/.....it-part-1/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/2006/05/08/the-bare-facts-%E2%80%93-swimsuits-part-2/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/2006/05/.....ts-part-2/&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Patty on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Patty</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I haven't had a swim suit in eons.   But knowing, last year, that we were going to be spending summer time back home in cottage country meant I NEEDED a bathing suit--arrggg.   One day at the mall I took a demoralizing look into a bathing suit store and saw there was a tall like me sales lady behind the desk------I stewed over it for the rest of the mall crawl then went in only because she was there.   And she was great--she basically eliminated 99% of the store for me coz she got my problem--built like a tall plank.  So see if you can find a sales lady built like you--not only can she pin point you better you get the bonus of commiserate over bad fit of clothes in general!!!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Mo on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:28:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not sure this helps much but I really like my Tyr reversible one piece suit I got from SierraTradingPost.  I have been a bikini girl all my life but this suit covers without looking matronly.  It doesn't cut into my thigh/butt too much like Speedo either.   Holds up great for laps.  But there is no separate cup support so that may put it out of the running for you.
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				<title>Michelle on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 20:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The main strategy I can suggest is to remember that we all think you're lovely. :p There's something totally demoralizing about swimsuit shopping *unless* you can go to a specialty store where they carry a ton of brands in a huge variety of sizes, and where the sales people/mirrors weren't handpicked to humiliate. I'm super fortunate to have such a store near me, and in the staff's capable hands the process is *almost* painless, but I realize places like this are few and far between. GOOD LUCK!
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				<title>Queen Mum on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 19:41:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thought you were going to bemoan the fact that we can't have 2 days in a row of consistent weather... and I was going to join the chorus!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Instead you reminded me of the horror of swimsuit shopping.  I really need a new one this year too.  I dont' even want to THINK about it.  la la la la.... I can't hear you  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Niki Lea on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 18:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Niki Lea</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ms Maven, I feel your pain.  Here's how I approach this...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Strategy one:  buy a one-piece suit with a flattering neckline and cute print.&#060;br /&#062;
Strategy two:  buy coordinating board shorts to hide my bum.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My suit is black and white polka dots with a deep v-neck.  It's a &#034;Miracle Suit&#034;:  &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.miraclesuit.com/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.miraclesuit.com/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
I wear it with lipstick red board shorts.
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				<title>rae on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 18:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thought of this article when I read your post:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.oprah.com/style/The-Best-Swimwear-Brands/6&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.oprah.com/style/The.....r-Brands/6&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A friend of mine who is conscious of the muffin top likes this brand, too. They have swim dresses as well as traditional one-pieces:&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.shapefx.com/store/Swimwear?Args=&#038;#038;page_number=1&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.shapefx.com/store/S.....e_number=1&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Heather on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 18:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi, there!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Try J.Crew!  They usually sell tall swimsuits in all styles.  &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.jcrew.com&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.jcrew.com&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Make it fun.  =D
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				<title>MsMaven on "April is the cruelest month . . . because"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 18:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMaven</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's time to buy a new swimsuit.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The least fun item I can think of to shop for.  I need a long-torso one piece with a D-cup in some color that isn't black.  (Those tankini suits stop too short--they stop right where the muffin begins.)  Oh, and I'd like it to be more glamorous than matronly.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What are your shopping strategies for swimsuits?  Maybe there is some secret strategy I don't know about.
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