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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”</title>
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				<title>Jules on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Mar 2023 14:26:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the colour story! And very well-suited to DS’ colouring.
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				<title>Carla on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Mar 2023 03:50:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;@ Joy - the DS’s are blue eyed like their father. &#038;nbsp;They did not get my green/hazel colour. &#038;nbsp; Both DS’s show red in their beards, though #1 is clean shaven.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2023 14:36:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ginger is special coloring. &#038;nbsp;I have a little grandson with red hair and the pale skin to go with it. &#038;nbsp;He looks best in olive and orange, definitely not black. &#038;nbsp; Navy is ok and browns. &#038;nbsp;His mother has the same coloring and looks great in mustard yellow. &#038;nbsp;&#060;div&#062;You did a great job with your sons. &#038;nbsp;Does your son have green eyes? &#038;nbsp;&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>slim cat on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 21 Mar 2023 01:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nice colors! Awesome job as family stylist - love teal with orange bag!
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				<title>RobinF on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2023 12:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RobinF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nice capsule you built! I like all those colors. My DH got some similar pants from Penney's recently - the stretch makes them super comfortable. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My two boys often ask me for shopping help but usually it is for a special occasion. It is fun but can be very difficult too! I wish they would let me help them clean out their closets but they hang on to everything.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2023 21:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nice palette- I bet it's great on him. Love the teal puffer!
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				<title>Dee on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2023 13:19:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh I like this colour palette, a good mix &#038;amp; match collection. Well done.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am no longer either of my sons fashion stylist, their girlfriends have taken over, many of the items that I once bought for them have been demoted to the donate pile lol. Oh well, it was fun while it lasted.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My husband doesn’t enjoy shopping, but at least he’s still okay with my fashion advice, and on a cost per wear basis, he is great for the environment as he tends to wear his clothes completely out.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Angie on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 21:57:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great palette, and you are a FABULOUS Mama Stylist  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Olive Green on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 20:43:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Olive Green</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Still getting over a man willing to wear teal! So good with ginger colouring.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;My husband, once a fashion plate, retired and has defaulted to shorts and sandals ForEver. And hates to shop.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;That plaid shirt will be a workhorse. Nice capsule.
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				<title>Cardiff girl on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 19:29:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think that you are going to have to start to charge styling fees at this rate!You have done a great job ,l love the colours.My dad and &#038;nbsp;brother ,although brown haired also had red beards if they choose to grow them.Must be that Celtic heritage!&#060;br /&#062;l hope he has a great weekend with his friends.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 17:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also like the color of the pants and the new items. Glad he asked you for help.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 15:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So great!  Everything seems like good classic clean lines so the fun but well- coordinated colors work beautifully. Vibrant but subtle enough to not take over his appearance.
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				<title>CarolS on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 15:12:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CarolS</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kudos to you for having such a great eye and to your DS for recognizing it! I LOVE his weird coloured pants and I think they work brilliantly with everything else you helped him put together. (Amy S always says we need those weird colours in our closets and I tend to agree!)
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				<title>rachylou on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 15:07:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I should buy my brother a pair of those pants…
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				<title>Star (Lise) on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 12:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Star (Lise)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Clever You!&#038;nbsp; Great capsule of unexpected color combinations that work really well together, and the plaid shirt reinforces that.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Helena on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 00:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Carla, that's awesome! So glad!!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>LJP on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 23:45:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Agree with Helena’s Carhartt observation . I see a lot of young men wearing this colour in pants . Is he a physio ?
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				<title>Suz on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 22:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's a great capsule! You are becoming a stylist extraordinaire to the menfolk. I wish you could dress my kiddo. They are very tough to fit. But I'm going to check out those ABC pants -- maybe they'll work for mine, too!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jenni NZ on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 18:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Actually I really like the colour of those pants. Great choices!
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				<title>Carla on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 16:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;@&#038;nbsp;&#060;b&#062;Helena&#038;nbsp;&#060;/b&#062;- I have&#038;nbsp;&#060;b&#062;you&#038;nbsp;&#060;/b&#062;to thank for the pants that have solved the fit problems for&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;both&#038;nbsp;&#060;/i&#062;DS’s pants, after you wrote about how your DH wore Lululemon ABC pants. &#038;nbsp;They are the&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;only&#038;nbsp;&#060;/i&#062;pants DS#2 will wear now (he is a ‘lifter’ and has big thighs and ‘junk in the trunk’ and appreciates the stretch.) &#038;nbsp;All pants have to pass the ‘squat test’!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;DS#1 was getting his pants from Simon’s, but quality has changed, and he’s converted to the ABC pant. &#038;nbsp;Where else does one get a 32 waist, 37 inseam!?!&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>kkards on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 16:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How wonderful that he respected your tastes level enough to ask for your help!&#038;nbsp;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;I feel like That weird mustardy brown is like the color for younger guys now. &#038;nbsp;It’s close to the carhart color -and for what ever reason carhart seems to be trending now. &#038;nbsp;I think it’s great with black or navy, everything else I think looks off. &#038;nbsp;But that’s just me.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>Helena on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 16:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is a terrific palette and it looks perfect for him!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My DH doesn't wear black at all ... he loves colors like coral and aqua (not dissimilar to what your son chose), and even his neutrals tend to be a wide range of blues (although he also wears gray well). It's nice that men don't have to be pigeonholed into the &#034;IBM navy&#034; palette of old in order to look polished and smart!
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				<title>Carla on "Another (men’s) shopping story: “not black!”"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 16:25:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Over the past 10 years DS#2 completed a university degree, worked in a factory, and returned to school. &#038;nbsp;He completed the second program, passed the professional tests, &#038;nbsp;became accredited this past fall, and employed immediately afterwards. &#038;nbsp;He has been working full time in his field for 6 months now, and wears a uniform (black Lululemon ABC pants and black performance fabric golf shirt with clinic logo.) &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Clothes have been back of mind for 5 years, and had become a rather grubby collection of mismatched and worn pants and t-shirts. &#038;nbsp;He struggled to put together a travel capsule for a recent weekend in the big city with friends, and didn’t feel fab in what he wore. &#038;nbsp;He asked me to help him out with a closet review and shopping trip. &#038;nbsp;His brief:&#038;nbsp;&#060;b&#062;no black (!) &#038;nbsp;&#060;/b&#062;and he wanted things that would work with two pair of pants - Lululemon ABC in Artefact (a weird brown he picked up when he got his work pants, that frankly dismayed me &#038;nbsp;- see #1).&#038;nbsp;
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&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Shabby items were culled, and a list was created for a mix and match capsule of casual items he could wear after work and on weekends:
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&#060;p&#062;1-2 button downs&#060;br /&#062;4 T shirts (must be V neck)&#060;br /&#062;toppers - vest or sweater&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;5 pr socks&#060;br /&#062;new belt&#060;br /&#062;back-pack (for work and other)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;His remaining items are mostly blue and grey (but he doesn’t wear jeans!) &#038;nbsp;A crimson and a teal long sleeved T looked good with the pants, and an older teal Uniqlo puffer and newer orange cross body bag worked as well (#2).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;DS#2 has auburn tones in his hair (see #4) and looks good in autumn colours. &#038;nbsp;He is an athletic 6ft3in and needs a 2XL tall in a ‘modern’ or slim fit. &#038;nbsp;During local shopping reconnaissance, I noted Marks Work Wear House had invested heavily in autumn colours, and though not modish, they&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;do&#038;nbsp;&#060;/i&#062;have a large selection of sizes (and their T-shirts are&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;the best!&#060;/i&#062;) &#038;nbsp;We went together and he was able to tick several things off his list. &#038;nbsp;I insisted he ‘style’ everything he picked out - so there was a fast paced outfit creation session in the change room. &#038;nbsp;The Columbia plaid button down was a fortuitous find. &#038;nbsp;It ties all the colours together and can be worn open over the T-shirts. &#038;nbsp;His favourite is the rusty-orange Farwest hoodie (which also matches the clinic logo colours of orange and white)&#060;/p&#062;
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&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;DS#2 can do the rest himself. &#038;nbsp;He wants Darn Tough socks, a Hershel or Jansport back pack, and there is a brand of stretchy performance belt he likes and will order on line. &#038;nbsp;He now wants to add a short sleeved patterned button down for warm weather and will tweak things a bit when his shorts come out.
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&#060;p&#062;As you can see, DS#2 is not afraid of colour! &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Hope you enjoyed this (not minimal, not black) colour story! &#038;nbsp;
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